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I am not sure if my experience is a twin flame one or not. All I know is that I have never been able to cut off from this person, even though I tried. I cut off contact, but years later my feeling of connection to this person is still there and I cannot imagine it not being there. My feelings towards this person were originally very intense and passionate (!), however the infatuation has well and truly passed, and the feeling I have now is more one of enduring connection, unconditional acceptance, and almost a feeling of responsibility to take care of this person.
I have been forced to accept 'friendship' only with this person, but I have found that this serves me much better than the angst of not being loved back. Yes it would be nice to be together in a partnership, but I have to admit that neither of us are probably ready for this. So I am happy just to be in contact and enjoy a friendship with no expectations. I never expected that accepting friendship would actually make me feel better about things! It seems to me that attachment to a particular outcome (ie being together romantically) sets us up for bitterness and disappointment, and I was amazed how much better I felt when I let go of that attachment.
Funnily enough, years ago, when I was first suffering heartache from this person not reciprocating my feelings, I was in a wierd kind of semi-sleep state one time, and I knew I had the choice in that moment to either cut off emotionally from this person, or not. Despite the heartache I was experiencing, I could not bring myself to cut off. And that has been how it's continued. It's like my inner child refuses to give up on this person, even though my adult side can see that it's not a happening thing! And this has gone on for 6 years!
Despite the emotional turmoil, I don't regret any of the experiences I have had. This person has truly taught me unconditional love (not through example!), and has made my life richer. I have discovered that love can be rewarding even when it's not returned. Just the feeling of truly loving someone is a beautiful thing.
Im new to the site but how funny I should stumble into this area at this point in my life..
You see not so long ago I was searching as you my friends for that one Twin Flame..we all have them out there but sadly some never meet them.
Well I after 46 years,I have done so..My twin flame and I are so much Twin Flames that its often hard to find where the other one ends and the other begins.
We lvoe each other way beyond this physical state of being, hardly breathe without each other..Honestly I cannot remember the day when I didnt love him. Strange as that might seem given I only met him some months ago, but regardless we loved and searched for each other the day we began..
You probably wondering about where this story is going? well here it is.
Sadly my Twin Flame and I well we are NOT together :( we dont see each other any longer, talk rarely and email on occasion.
Sadly we parted ways due to feelings of insecurities and doubt. Insecurities and doubt placed from society and living in a world where some people just cannot see clearly and negativity and doubt is all that they live with.
What Im trying to say here is not always is a Twin Flame together, yes honestly we both still find it hard to breathe at times , especially when we are alone, the tears sadly dont end and the heart does not stop feeling... I can tell you that we will love each other for eternity, because regardless of being apart we are together in spirit and oneness.
Our hope is that one day , when the planets align again and those around us stay silent for just enough time for us to begin again that we will find our way home to each other again.
My heart hurts for him and his for me.
My only resolve is to have the faith, courage and my light within me to show us the path again.
Love n Light
ShazzX
I know you posted this a while ago, but felt as though I wanted to share a story of my dear friend. She met her soul mate and had a year with him, then he died. A huge part of her died that day as well. It's been 8 years since his death and it is only now that she can allow herself to experience him again. If you really believe that life is perfect, then what is happening is perfect too. Only you can answer the question of "what is the gift he has given you by acting in this way? Once you see the gift (whatever it is) then many things will be unlocked for you! Much love to you and your journey!
I really am puzzled if this is your twin or not. Based on your emotions it seems to be, and him fleeing so swiftly. Its likely you're the more evolved and the reflection he sees in you scares him, he may want more karmic circles.
Then again, that you think you spent many lifetimes together. That seems more like a karmic soulmate thing. And it could explain him running scared, if he has unresolved negative karma with you from past lifes.
What really made me reply to you, is to share the most uplifting advice I have ever been given. And it is to heal yourself, cause as we heal ourselves we heal our twin. that is how connected twins are, they seperation is a never there. Only in 3D. You dont even have to send him healing for him to recieve, just focus on yourself and keep working on that.
I wish you Love, Joy and Abundance
Namasté
Love, Jeanie
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