First I want to say thanks to Ben. He has done a fantastic job by creating and maintaining such a great website for light workers to share our thoughts and information. I am truly grateful for the opportunity to share mine with so many beautiful souls here.
However, I knew something was going on here the first day I came and I would like to share my thoughts on this. The polarity I have seen here is staggering. I think Ben is too kind to kick anyone out. But the reality is either people get kicked out or they walk out. And sadly, it is often the ones with higher level of consciousness walking out. In my opinion, something has to be done to stop this. The followings are my reasons:
A spiritual website should maintain a certain level of vibration. Source/God loves everyone but the universe has its laws. Not everyone are allowed to go to “heaven”: A 3D consciousness must evolve to be able to go to the higher dimensions no matter how many life times are needed in this rigid, limited and unloving reality. This does not mean God is not forgiving and loving. But “heaven” must have its own frequency.
Abusive language is a form of violence and should never be allowed. It robs other people’s energy. One person’s freedom should not be at the expense of another. By accommodating the vibration you do not desire, you limit your own freedom of expression as a website. When the vibration goes down, it will attract more of the same level. If a website is set up for a purpose, it should have its own principles to ensure the purpose is fulfilled.
The game of polarity is becoming intense and no one can sit on the fence very soon. As we are fast approaching the end of the cycle and heading to the New Age, the distinction between light and dark becomes clear and it will become more polarised. You can even see clearly now. As their vibration levels go up, people will become less and less tolerate with negativity. Yes, we all create our own realities. But here when we come together, it is a co-creation and we agree to create with others. If the frequency of the website does not keep up, high frequency people will still create their own realities but just without AC. And I think that would be a shame. This is a very good website and has a lot of people sharing their love and inspirations. Diversity doesn’t mean polarity and even polarity will not last very long. Either goes up or sinks down, it is inevitable. As a website serving to the light, the choice should be clear.
True love is to make the best choice for the souls, not the ego. To tolerate a few who bring down the vibration of the website, it is not an expression of love to anyone. For people who seek spiritual growth, they cannot get uplifting from being here and their freedom of expression is limited. For those who attack and abuse, they are used as instruments by dark energies/entities and it cannot be good for their souls because they accumulate more karma. True love is the action for their highest good, even though on the personality level, they may not understand.
My suggestions
I can see three groups of people here. The first group are the people who are truly spiritual. They seek spiritual growth though the efforts of raising their vibration frequencies and gaining spiritual understanding. They love and they share. The second group are those who call themselves spiritual but actually are just superstitious. They seek outside saviours or events to get themselves out of the trouble of their own making. They blame and they moan. The third group are energy vampires and some of them are in second group too. They have very little spiritual understanding and enjoy attacking and abusing and thrive on robbing other people’s energies.
So the solution I can see is this: seek the support of the first group, help the second and take action toward the third. This is not toward certain individuals but rather to their behaviours. They should be left with clear choice of either leave or behave.
These are my opinion and I know I have no right to tell other light workers how to do their work nor do I intend. But I do think it is my responsibility (and everyone’s) to share our thoughts so as a collective we can achieve the best result. We all hope the best for this wonderful website and the beautiful souls, who gather here for a common mission and a place away from home but hopefully feels like home.
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let me say i love you...this site has made me cry...some just ain't gonna make it...i see negative here already replied to your sincere post..wrap yourself in love
Dear BarbaraLee, thank you and I do feel your love with my heart and I send you my love too.
Yes, you are right. Some just are not going to make it and this makes me sad. I want nothing more than a circle of light where everyone can grow but many do not want to let go their duality games.
But that is OK. There are still time for learnin and growing. We do our best and that is what matters.
Love and Light to you, dear friend.
By heavn, I mean the state of Oneness. I did no say duality is not part of God's expression and is equally loved. It was a topic of differenciation and nowhere did I suggest that God/Source does not love those in the state of seperation consicousness.
Dear Lori
I am not confused." Not allowed", is clearly stated, with regard to hateful and abusive comments. No where do I state that people should be removed. I am talking about keeping the learning process open for all . . . Not just those who consider themselves more evolved. I have been a member here for over five years. . . In that time I have observed many members not.as evolved as you and Ben, express feeling attacked and threatened by the "ones" who confidently hurl words like liar and fraud, when they just as easy could have said, "I think you
may be mistaken". To the newly awakened or new to this site ,or just plain shy, this type of aggressive assaultive reply is what causes the separatism to which you have confused me with projecting.
People who come to a spiritual Site, with guidelines, expect nothing more than to be treated with respect. Expecting the newly awaked to translate attack N2 loving behavior as you claim to do . . .seems to marginalize the feelings of the lowly neophite.
Be the Love . . . But please don't expect the newly awakened to percieve as you . . . Distilling love from attack speech.
or get labeled unevolved . . . Now, that sounds judgemental.
I totally agree with you, and I want to thank you for expressing this so clearly and straightforward. I have long felt as well that some people are here for other reasons than to seek wisdom and love. It can be hard from times to times to not be affected by their behaviour, and I would wish for nothing else that this site continues to offer support to those who may struggle finding their true selves. I am always willing to share what I know and help anyone who asks for help, because I do it out of joy not out of "duty".
some things are just plain wrong/bad evil intended..some is of true light/love willingness to be light&love..learn how to ascend.. most are sort of still stuck in ‘grey areas’ and it is not easy to not become confused or bewildered..which way should i go? how do i improve my own & world of others situation?
for a while the ‘ill’ intended were able to wound me, as i was ‘hit’ when i least expected.. it was humiliating..hurtful..as i am not yet able to keep up. guess among the ones here that are going through very difficult times..seemingly insurmountable.. for those it can be too unbearable and give up feeling lost & confused.
i am still here..there are many good, positive, ideas..suggestions. as for the very few who for some unknown attacked..demeaned..i ignore..take w/grain of ’salt’..let them be. i’m sure if people continue to be like that..others will notice..& they end up only hurting themselves.
to me this is what enlightenment..being of the Light..a ‘lightworker’ is about..why i am here.
many sites offer ‘mastery’ training..higher consciousness et al..and one would need to pay money to access these ‘goodies’..so if you cannot pay..no play~
it is not so easy to figure out..so i am trying to keep it simple..practical. grateful AC exists. have lots of friends on FB..& they are good people..probably think i am either ‘eccentric’ or a wishful thinker if i told them i am member here.
it is really hard..difficult..confusing to assimilate all the diversity here. however, just sticking to the ‘basics’ of true intentions..to ascend to a higher vibration, while still on planet Earth..(3D?) well..it’s worth it to come here, share..learn..offer my little piece of
the puzzle.. being here is a ’no’ risk journey..it is free..and safe.. there is still much for us all to learn.. me..still in it for the long run. wanting..hoping the movie will have a happy
finale..and even happier sequel to boot~ so far..it sure seems that way..here on AC.
here we have some refuge..a relatively safe house..family..when the ‘outer’ world is now in worst turmoil in all my 77 yrs. it ain’t perfect..yet it attains toward ‘improving’ and most have sincerely good intentions..I AM GRATEFUL..and learned quite a bit from Y’ALL~
p.s. Moderation..Mediation..Meditation and FAITH TRUST IN TRUE LOVE AND LIGHT~
from Joyana Suwati..your big and little sister~
Dear Joyana,
Thanks for sharing your thought. Yes, definitely, people should be focusing on their goals of ascension through raising their vibrations instead of getting stuck in the dogmas.
Here is a post about how I see the whole situation and hopefully people can use their energies wisely
http://www.ashtarcommandcrew.net/forum/topics/let-go-of-drama-embra...
My respect for your long journey and wisdom
Love and Bless :-)
Thanks dear Ogdoo, always resonate :-)
POSTED GUIDELINES For This Site . . . .OFFERS SANCTUARY.
First I would like to offer my gratitude to Ben for this site and I also offer my appreciation for the difficult stance between total freedom and freedom with relevance to a particular relativity.
I am blessed by your creation . . . for this I thank you, Ben.
Next, while I find all those who have risen to the exalted state of only perceiving the love in every situation, hence their great tolerance for low frequency behavior . . . inspiring.
This site posted guidelines to it’s “members” offering “zero tolerance for argumentative, profane, bashing and hateful behavior.
The Careful reading of the “Membership intention/ guidelines identifies this site as a Safe Zone for Learning. No different than the treatment given hecklers and disrupters in a classroom. The zero tolerance for hateful bashing, offered in the guidelines, makes it clear that hecklers and haters are not included in the membership/ communicating space. Go Ahead, read the POSTED GUIDELINES
For Example, Joe Black is late for his class so he takes the subway. On the way to class he is in the public domain, hence, all those gathered belching their inebriated zealotries have every right to spew forth. As unappealing as it is for passerby, to be bespat upon, this is the domain of the free speech , therefore Joe’s only recourse is to hurry on by.
Yet when he reaches the classroom and steps inside, the “all accepting all behavior inclusive acceptance' of the public domain, must now be tempered to fit the intention of the gathering/ membership goal. Upon accepting of these terms and becoming a member agreeing to these terms should entitle members to feel a sense of sanctuary here. That is the point of membership and guidelines!
These guidelines of decorum are not considered oppressive at a presentation or a seminar or conference. The reason it is called a conference is so that like minded individuals can get along and share. If the presenters spend all their time pulling psychology 101 out of mothballs to constantly stroke and appease the haters the hecklers and attention getters, there would be no conferences.
I’ll bet Brother Ben, if at your, “Cosmic Meetup Conference“, you had to put all your energy N2 appeasing hecklers everyday, instead of sharing the wisdom you came to share, you might remember the wisdom that led you to post guidelines.
By offering and posting guidelines that restrict hateful language and behavior, the site gives off the intention of being a sanctuary for sharing and raising the vibration. When newly awakened or just new to the site are greeted with a barrage of hatred and insults . . .is it really fair to expect them to be as exalted as the adepts at only perceiving love?
Would you appreciate going to your child’s school for her first day . . To be greeted by a ring of bullies and when you hesitate to leave your child, you are told, if she is exalted enough she won’t feel bullied? She will only feel the love?
The problem, to me, stems from mixing metaphors.
Posting A code of interaction and then telling members who are blindsided by an aggressive hateful verbalization, that they just need to be more evolved . . .is inconsistent with the stated “Membership“ Intentions.
There is a place for anything goes acceptance and there is a place for a membership forum where guidelines dictate classroom decorum.
READ THE GUIDELINES.
If you still feel the need to hone your skills against agro bashing behaviors, by all means go to the subway or stand on a street corner or city park.
Why post guidelines If there are none? Shouldn’t offering wisdom sanctuary, have value and virtue? Shouldn’t shelter from the rage be somewhere.
Go out N2 the rage as much as is needed to practice being exalted. But when you need shelter from the storm go to a sanctuary for learning. READ THE SITE GUIDELINES.
PUBLIC FREE FOR ALL
OR
ZERO TOLERANCE FOR HATEFUL
WHICH IS OFFERED?
read the guidelines.
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