hello everyone before i begin please agree to these rules as this is maybe going to be controversial:
1. please respect others viewpoints here even if they make you downright angry
2. please do not argue. i admit i am pretty angry right now but i dont intend to start any break ups i only intend to know for myself and if possible prove my point that being gay can be accepted as much as being straight.
ok if you agree to these points please continue. sorry for the close security i just dont want to start any arguments off.
i have been told on here(i wont name who by) that being a homo is not normal and i must change or try too or i will perish in 2012 and not be "saved" by the UFO. i have also being told that i being a gay is evil .i have also being told that in the outer space community that speaks of this that being a homo or gay is not normal for people and they don't want gay people because they want to start the revolution in us. i want to ask you do you accept being gay as normal and are there any gays in the outer space communities you know of? if you dont want to answer please dont answer i respect that.
sorry if this sounds harsh but i want to say this out loud.
EDIT:
thank you everyone for your support full views. they helped me and reminded me that you guys are among the best in the world. for your hearts and your understandings. if you dont believe you come from a culture of the heart. then look inside you. you ARE that culture. that will respect anyone no matter what and has a strong bond between you all.
i have recently learned i should not be afraid of who i am. and i will not be. there have been times where my heart almost gave in to the calls to be normal it has also been a test of resolve that i have not passed yet but which will keep happening in my life throughout society. but i have good friends, good family, and myself and divine source so i will be ok. i will make sure of it :)
. in essence i opened the genie bottle. i stuck my nose in too far in making new friends and i wasnt as respective as i could have been to others views about being normal. i now let them have their views and i let me have mine. this universe is a big school in itself.
i maybe soon to take my leave of this site. it is not relly because i am upset because i am ok and feeling like i can get through this stronger now. it is because i feel no need to be here anymore. i got what i came here for even when i did not know it. a good friend. and now i am here for another good friend. it is her i stop here for in case she needs any support here. if she does not need any more support here i will take my leave from this site.
may i offer some advice in return as a thanks. please note this is advice meant as thanks and i am not saying anything offensive toward you?
please keep at this. keep at the understanding you must understand this is a very diverse universe that has sprung forth from the original spark of creation. a universe very beautiful in its own right and many other ways. many diverse species. diverse ideas. even if one cultrue seems evil to you understand that it may not be considered evil to that culture. it may be considered tradition. or even a show of respect or even love. i am not to say the evil things that are going on in our world are a show of respect. nor can i promise to account that i know everything in what i am saying. what i am asking is that you always be understanding never give up the light in yourselves. dont be someone else's vision. be your own. be the spark that you are. gay straight, reptillian, grey, nordic, elf, fairy, nymph, warewolf and so on. it does not matter. try to be true to yourselves. there are so many in this world who are not themselves. they are another's vision of what they want them to be. but i believe that us being ourselves. it sets an example for the rest to follow. it awakes others from their sleep in this society.it gives them a hard wake up shake sometimes. its just what this society needs. to wake up. we are part of the human race. the true race.
so be awake, try be understanding and accepting, and lots of love and take care of yourselves *big hugs* thank you again.
P.S you may remember me as iceblade-X yes i am the same person. i deleted my original account when i found one of my true friends here as there was no need to keep being on here after that. and i opened a new account recently in this name to be with a friend on here, the same one i talked about in the previous paragraphs and to support her if needed. i am sorry for not telling everyone who i was. i understand if i am to be punished on this site. but thank you again everybody. you wonderful human and other beings :)
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Yоu know what get's ME mad? Why do most Gay people have to be all in your face about their gayness?!
Get the f*ck over it !
You don't see me all in your face about me being straight
I think most gay people are confused. And if gay was meant to be, there wouldn't be any genders.
So, advanced ET's aren't confused, therefore two males from an advanced ET society, don't need to put their thing into the other guy's thing, to show that they love one another and that they are one.
Wow that was pretty terrible- dost thou protest too much? You are mixing the physical love with spiritual love, I think.
And all the gay people I know aren't in your face about it- they are too busy dodging bullies and fighting for rights straight people take for granted.
L O L
...btw there is a difference between 'ACCEPTING' and 'accepting as BEING NORMAL'
Dear friend, in many readings you will find from enlghtened beings and from spirituality in general, that most of our path is pre-chosen by us during our in-between lives. We choose who we will be and how we will be for the most part. Therefore, we probably chose if we would like to go through the process of being a homossexual here on earth at this moment of time. now, if you take a look at the literature of the past, i'm talking about during the greek period, homosexualism was considered something completely different from what it is today. It was a common practice. As time goes by things change, people change views change. Oh hell, Rome prosecuted and crucified Jesus but in the end they blamed it on the people, saying that jesus died for them, but for their own interest. now if you see, history is always manipulated and so are views and beliefs. However, true love, that is, unconditional love, such as the one preached by any enlightened being lika Buddha or Christ, is in its' own name, is UNCONDITIONAL. It does not see sex, race, preferences, gender, ethnicity, or any other discriminatory characteristic. Be certain that being a homossexual is not evil or wrong but is simply who you are. If you believe in a higher power, he/she/it will love you the same way as it would if you were straight, black, white, blind or whatever. When i came out to my family i told them: "I accept all of you with your good and bad, now if you consider me being a homossexual a bad thing, it's one of the many bad things you will learn to love along with my good ones. In the same way i did throughout the years living with you all." There wasn't much reply to that sentence.It's easy to love someone who shares the sames tastes, likes and dislikes and features with you, now let's see you try and love the opposite. That my dearest, is true UNCONDITIONAL love. Hope this could help :)
Everything that causes no harm to another sentinent being should be allowed and accepted. :)
And whatever sexual orientation a being might have is the very only decision of him/her/it-self and others that may be directly affected...
It should be simple as that.
Though I used to be homophobic, I no longer am. My hatred was the result of being sexually abused for many years as a child, and I always believed all homosexual people were paedophiles.
I now know very different, and as far as I'm concerned, your sexuality doesn't define who you are.
I have many friends who are homosexual, and while ever they treat me with respect, I treat them the same, their sexual preference doesn't even come into it!
So what could your sexual preferences possibly have to do with ascending?