Hi everyone, well me and my high school sweetheart broke up after over six years since first dating in 8th grade. I've broken up with her a couple of times before but this time it seemed like everything was going great. Then she decided to break up with me and the reason being was she felt like this is what she needed and it's what's best for her right now. She said she's been really stressed out and sick and has been having bad anxiety attacks. I said a lot of the symptoms she has are signs of ascension and I've been going through them too. She isn't a believer in ascension yet but she doesn't count it out either. She does believe whatever happens is supposed to happen and it all happens for a reason. My dad told me to fight for her now and don't wait, but a lot of other people I've talked to said just give her time. But a cool part of this story is after she broke up with me I went outside and I was just thinking I wish I had a sign that everything will be ok, and I looked at the sky and saw 2 ufo's cross directly over eachother and dissappeared behind the clouds. Sorry the story is so long but if anyone has a word of advice I'd appreciate it, and does anyone here have any info they can give me on whether we will find our soulmates if ascension happens and we reach the fifth dimension? Thank you everyone, love to you all.
-Aaron
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The way I see it is you cant force her to see your viewpoint; fighting for her may mean forcing her into something she isnt comfy with; im with the GIVE HER TIME club , lol
It'll work out just support her!
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My dear Aaron,
to be honest with you:
you will have to go through rough times. There will be lots of pain, doubts and idle hopes. You will lose weight, cry tears and when you see her, your knees are shaking.
You wanted to know the truth.The days ahead of you are not easy. You will see her in many other women. You will not forget her smell and her taste.
But it is not the final answer. There will be a time you are more relaxed, and then you will start to understand.
You won`t understand now, but listen: you must let her go. No fighting, no pressure, no idle hopes. She will not come back to you because you want it. She comes back to you in case SHE wants it.
The ascention thing is not in your hand. You can run against a wall, you can wish as much as you want, you can cry and beg as loud as you can - it is not in your hand.
Look, you are so young. You are just about to become mature. In this long process we encounter amazing and unbelievable obstacles challenging us to go ahead. Some of the most effective obstacles are love affairs. They challenge us really. You are now under those being elected to have that experiences. It was that, which your soul was looking for. You came here to make such experience.
I can write those lines, because I had same experiences.
There will be a time you will smile again. I promise you. I really can promise you.
Go ahead, Aaaron, go ahead and see what is going to happen, even without knowing. This is absolutely exciting! And each day is a new and precious gift for you...
Btw, commiting suicide - which made some great literature - is not a good solution. You would miss days ahead bringing you much joy and satisfaction.
Oh, and do not forget to drink enough - you may now forget to eat, which is not bad, but do not forget to drink fresh water...
Have courage!