WHY do we WANT other people? I find myself falling in love, KNOWING we are reflections of our soul and experience - so why does it still physically, emotionally and mentally hurt to want someone?
This is an honest question because I don't get it. If we're all one - why do we want other people ?
How come we look into a persons eyes, and see a part of ourself? It's so easy to talk about it and imagine how heartache feels like. But imagine beeing there. Being at a place where that special someone is not yours and never will be. How come? Why are we made that way. Why can't I pray my way out of it?
Just.....
Why?
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The hurt comes from lonliness. Count your blessing and try to keep a sense of reality about the situation. If you feel a deep love for someone else-treasure it and just play it smart to keep them in your life-they don't necessarily need to know in great detail-just continue to care-near or far.
An act of Loving is more than enough, and a Genuine Love is purely unconditional.
I have found out, that you definitely get what you ask for sometimes, the Universe has a way of answering your questions and delivering on some requests...
Sometimes destiny finds you, when you are least expecting it ~ that can be one of the most magical experiences of all....
If you are fixated on something, and you don't get to experience it, it can also sometimes be a blessing in disguise...
So don't get too bummed about the unobtainable things.... Just keep an open mind, and keep focusing on what you want...
But never force your will too much, or things can get intense....
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It can help to flip the question around sometimes. Why do you not want someone? There are only some people you want,or people with certain qualities that attract your wanting. Why is it? What is it you see in someone else that you cant give yourself?
Once you are free of the 'need' a new freedom to really appreciate other people grows.
Bah.. Boys :P
My dear Sweet Princess
It feels like a knot,
my heart beats an aching throb
beauty fills me like a song
one from pure lips to God.
Feel a tightening in my throat,
heard some place on our globe
there are many pots of gold,
and deep inside our earth,
a shinning crystalline dome
Give thanks to mama Gaia
for her molten living fire-
mans actions being cold!
May we live our lives inspired
like we see her colours grow
and feel her healing ocean flow!
an adrenaline shot-
or exploding happy bombs-
pink candy floss,
the feelings giddy yet profound
there are far too few sounds
to hit the right note!
We lack expression that’s more whole
so I say; “I love you so,so,so...
much- what an incredible bond!”
at times I wonder where you’re from
Feeling you so close,
Yet I cannot help but long..
You must be the one-
the moon to my sun
who was created for my soul
I wrote this note to let you know
I will never let you go.
Aurien
For everybody is in reality love,they just do not know it always.
Maybe they lost it or it was wasted or taken away or beaten out of them but in reality this is just a imprinted idea.
Love never leaves you and if you take the time you will see it inside you like a fire ready to burst out.
Also relationschips as we know them now are a fabrication from society, they are not the real thing.
Relationschips are suposed to be a relating between people not dominating or manipulating because of a inner lack of self love.
Do not think i have not fallen prey to this relationschip fabrication ..i have done it myself manny times over, but now lately i can not even be in a relationschip that is not open,friendly,loving,free, helpfull,and uncondtional.
This also goes for work.
And it is amazing how you see through people once you connect with your own love.
You see them lying, manipulating, in the blinck of an eye,and it gets overwhelming for it is al over the place.
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