As I've become more spiritual and continue to look into my heart chakra for answers in life i notice that a lot of my old friends are people that don't love themselves and don't love others. when I'm around these people I get very tired and I feel negative energy in me and sometimes i get confused and insecure about life, they take away the light that I've worked so hard to absorb and i don't want to fall back into blindful hateful ignorance because of these people. These people don't love and respect me and I long to be surrounded by fun loving, authentic, carefree people who nurture my soul and raise me to higher vibrations of love and happiness.
how can i structure my life to find such people?
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This same thing is happening to me. I keep taking back the same 'friend' who has bad habits, says negative things and has ulterior motives. There are also a few others I had to do without. The one friend I do hold on to has potential to change. He tries to help people so I try to see it that way. However, to live in the light in a higher vibration, we have to move on and expose ourselves to new activities and a new way of being and thinking. It isn't easy to do when 'heavier' people are pulling us down.But to do without those people will make us feel 'lighter' as long as we know our soul brothers and sisters are out there to guide us.
I've found that you must let some sleeping dogs lie. It is what your intent speaks that causes who or what comes into your life, nothing else. You've in some way asked to be around people like this? Could it be a desire to see them rise above their negativity and blase attitude toward life? Stay alert to signals that people send as to whether they are ready to consider doing this. This necessitates their confronting their own fears and shortcomings, and sometimes it's noone else's business to become involved. What's really in your heart?
I understand what you are saying Daniel but did you ever think it may serve a purpose if there are some negative people in your life? Perhaps you are supposed to help or enlighten somebody in this lifetime. Maybe you will see something in their lives that will make you more appreciative of what you have. Or maybe you will feel from them and pray for them. Just a thought.
Joining a monastery or starting your own may be the answer, if it wasn’t for sometimes America’s most Wanted look for places to hide out in places like that.
Then you have witness protection plans threw the governments to watch out for.
Its like finding a safe place to live and build your home on this planet, there is no safe place on shifting rocks and water, snow or ice.
There is no safe place out here with us in the matrix, there is only one place in meditation your spiritual center.
Now that you know what the weeds look like in a somewhat stable garden. Is to pull a few weeds daily and not let the weeds get a foot hold and take over.
No one ever said being awake was going to be a walk in the park, just have to remember it’s a park not a gated community.
maybe you were there to help raise there vibration.
one... I want to say that you know you have "arrived" when you can be with people and still maintain yourself, your poise, your composure, energy, maintain your masterhood. I have roommates and when I notice myself (and especially around other people) falling into old patterns, but when I start to become conscious of it then I can shift it. I heard this guy and he said to see the people around you, especially family members (they are the creators of our buttons) they are enlightenment training.
If you want to change your group of friends, which is fine.. too start going to groups and actively seeking out other people. also as your vibrations start to change and get higher you will attract people who are in 'tune' with you. I have joined some meetup groups and have met some wonderful people. also if you go to a local place or gatherings with like minded people get phone numbers, start inviting people over for potlucks or dinners. I joined a local indigo meetup group and I sent out a mass email (once) inviting people over for treats and divination. We had a great time.
you will start to notice as you focus on you and you alone and your spirituality you will change and so will the other people will change with you. turn your attention inward work on yourself first and formost and cultivate your spirituality.
Become the person you wish to be surrounded with. The answer lies within. Also, ask for your next group of like minded souls to meet you when the time is right.
Thumbs up for that!!
a person is like a magnet, attracting like.....................my version.............; what you think, say and do, will become~Zarathustra.......................
yes this motto is pure TRUTH but the souls who are lost should be awakened using wisdom , spiritual energy. like marianiana said
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