Is it me or am I not alone in this world, but does anyone else feel they are constantly being attacked by people who do not understand our being?
I have always been and felt different from some people even from a very young age and still do to this day. I just dont understand why any person would be so hatred or horrible to another because I have always shown acceptance to people without judgement.
I once had a spiritual lady tell me - You are a beacon, a light and you draw people good and bad to you like moths to a candle. You are a lightworker my dear and a very special one.
In that sense I already knew what this spiritual lady was telling me because I do attract a lot of souls who have had rough lives or hold a lot of pain in their hearts, but I also draw many the same as myself who are lightworkers and we connect instantly. The ones that I have trouble with are the ones who don't accept me, they instantly distrust me and feel they need to make it difficult for me. These people are extremely cruel and are usually employed in a business that can affect our peaceful lifestyle. It is very complicated for me to describe these people because they are so different from me and I get frustrated trying to understand how anyone could be like this to another person.
All I have ever wanted and asked for is love and peace. Because I will accept anyone into my heart as a friend. I share and give whole heartedly and I forgive very quickly but with so much hate I have become very cautious and slightly reclusive in recent years as this is becoming more and more obvious in todays society and it is some what very sad to see.
Anyway what I am asking is how do we deal with these negative ones in positions who make it hard for you? Do we silently allow it or do we fight for our rights as best we can with the intention of a positive outcome?
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Freedom of expression, Freedom of creation, Freedom of being, Freedom of becoming
There is no negative no positive only experience
Experience becomes thought, thought becomes working mechanisms/systems
Systems make us creators for we designed them. Designing makes us realize that we are not perfect and need to improve. Need of improvement encourages us to be connected with source to love so that we don’t lose track of what we suppose to do next.
Love is the acceptance of the essence of being of doing of acting of expressing of becoming.
Love means I accept you encourage you promote you but not necessarily agreeing with you.
Love means I hear what you are saying and accept it as a view but I can have my own view.
Love means I connect with and accept everything in order to learn, but filtering every experience is my responsibility as I’m a wise creator.
Expressing ourselves is a beautiful and colorful action.
This link below it’s a lovely video that shows that the act of expression in can be done in the most creative, uplifting, connecting ways with those around us.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9uh-P40t-0
Love you all George
Well I'm happy to say, I don't have that in my real life, the people I meet are always nice to me and I'm nice to them, and I stay clear of people who I can see are negative. I tell the few friends I actually talk to, about ETs and all that stuff, they don't laugh really, they just say, well I don't know, or I don't think so, there's no negativity there. I think people respect me too much to really attack me. Surprisingly, it's only when I come on this site that people start attacking lol Not many though, just a small handful.
I think...if you just know who you are, and accept it, there won't be a problem. That's why a sense of self is important. You just have to know...who you are...and accept yourself as you are, honor yourself and your truth. If people can't accept that, well, too bad for them. My problem comes not from feeling bad about myself, but from being impatient with others foolishness lol Like, I can't believe people can be like this. It's a great test of patience. Just try to stay clear of negative people, develop a sense of self worth and acceptance and...just dont live in fear. That's my advice.
I have experienced this at my work place. I almost lost my job because of negative people that didn't understand me. It is funny how things work out. Those negative people lost their job :) , they got what they deserved. The dark clouds have lifted and I am enjoying my job! All you have to do is send them lots of LOVE and be positive! It worked for me. Good luck! Lots of love, happiness, joy and peace to you dear Eyes of Ocean.
Laura
Yes, I am tired of being laughed at for 40 years and now I am fighting back. When I told people that I was going to a UFO meeting and they laughed at me, I asked them what they were laughing at. (I suppose if I told them I was going to church I wouldn't be laughed at). This automatic response I call the "Pavlovian Laugh".
Yes very common Eyes of Ocean, there's plenty of other posts where people say exactly the same thing.
I feel that people like to vent, and also think we are easy targets because of our placid nature. It gives them a sense of power - but if that is where they are getting their power from - then is that really power or dysfunction? It's dysfunction!
I like the words of Jesus when he said 'Be as gentle as a dove, yet cunning as a snake'. So in order words, you arn't reacting. When we don't react, we give them NOTHING to feed off - no power-hit, no venting heading our way, nothing! What can they do other than find another target and victim. When we act gentle but cunning, it doesn't mean we are dumb - it means we are AWARE of their behaviour but giving them no fuel. We can be gentle and try to avoid being around them if possible.
Sometimes we need to stand up for ourselves, but often they fight for power so badly, they won't back down. It's so ugly!
Can you get self-employed at all?
So many people in 3d are full of dysfunction. They need our love (yet we have boundaries that protect us). I too am reclusive as a way to protect myself and I actually love it.
If you feel very different from the rest of people, it might be a good idea to find out about your planetary origin. This helps to know not all of us are from this galaxy but we are here for a reason.
I look to the stars nearly every night Butterfly asking that same question and I have done this since a child.
When I try to focus on who my star family is I see fair hair, blue eyes, they radiate with light and are in human like form. I feel they tell me they are not ready to make a presence on this earth just yet - the timing is not right.
How do I find out about my planetary origin?
I only know of what I see in my visions.
Thank you for your advice, I am still learning so much and every piece of information I recieve is a big help.
Seems I am Lyraen descent :o)
LYRAE AND THE REPTILIANS
This explains why we are against the dark ones.
Thank you Marianinia I understand you fully :o)
If I could shake hands with a truce with an enemy today I would - I forgive easily, love easily and laugh easily even at things that go wrong I look back at and say how silly was that and laugh.
All I want is fairness for us all and when I see unfairness I question it, my family often say leave it alone but me being me I stand up and let people know that I know that I feel that its not right and ask for them to correct it. Usually things can go smoothly but other times people like to think you don't know any better and will fight you every step of the way.
I guess knowing I am not alone, makes me feel stronger and the need to pursue what I feel is right <3
May the powers be in my favour, for I stand for not only for myself but for others who I can teach from my strength <3
Love to you Marianinia xxx
Wow you do have Eyes of Ocean :) Many of us feel the same way, the trick is to find people you resonate with, you'll bring attention whichever way you turn, feed your spirit the best way you can and be with nature :) You'll find more people like yourself online, as people like us don't usually incarnate together in groups, but separately in towns and families that don't understand us... you'll be the influence you'll need to be when you need to be it :)
Good luck, god bless :)