I think most of us on this forum, have evolved enough to not behave in a way that is destructive, when it comes to relationships and interacting with people (in 3d).
I think when we understand karma and the cycle of reincarnation and all that, that we get to a point where we no longer want to fight and carry on, or set out to intentionally harm someone.
It's bizarre tho when you try to interact with many people caught up in 3D, that they are actually 'afraid' of us and see us as some sort of 'threat' to their existence? Yet we are probably the most harmless people in the world.
It's easy for someone to throw a punch and attack them physically yet we have evolved where (while some of us get fiesty on this forum), we wouldn't even really defame a person, let alone punch 'em one. Those who are very strong, have the courage to walk away and not get caught up in dramas and conflict. (I'm still learning to walk away even tho I feel fiesty).
So why on Earth are they afraid of us? They oughta be afraid of the real crims! It's so screwed up isn't it! That's what fear does to you I suppose.
What do you think?
Butterfly
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yes marianinia
It makes me think of the words of the Great Ascended Master Jesus who said 'unless you humble yourselves and become like little children, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven'.
I'm still fiesty by nature but walked away instead. It feels like defeat but I have to tell myself not to give my energy to ignorant people of a fearful vibration. Who wins? Me, I guess, even though I want to defend myself.
It takes discipline doesn't it. This must be what Mastery is. Mastery of our ego perhaps?
I received this the other day Kelly-Ann and I thought of this as I was reading about how difficult people are drawn to you and it is the same in my case. All the major people in my life, family, children and husbands have been really tough to cope with a lot of the time (most is more appropriate, lol). I just wanted to share this with you because someone sent it to me because I was having a tough time coping with some of these people and felt fed up completely. Just had to share this...forgive me, lol. It is so dam cute....
Fable of the
Porcupines
Protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions.
Companions or disappear from the Earth..
Relationship with their companions in order to receive the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.
The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.
Good one Marique!
What a good little story!
i know!
It's just becoming so uncomfortable now. Trying to spread love always feels to me like hugging a porcupine or sea urchin.
And they do want something from us, this nurturing. Yet their attitude is that we obligated to give it to them and they get mad when we have boundaries!
I'm just finding it too difficult now to get caught up with them. I simply can't relate. It's not to say there arn't lovely people with integrity out there, it's just often that they burn us or something as they are still lost within themselves. Or just cannot HEAR what we have to say. Their hearts are so dull and dead.
Thanks Alfred
Yeah you're right, it is the unknown.
I've jumped on other forums trying to meet people. I know it's incredibly risky because they arn't evolved souls, yet I can't just keep being a real recluse. We have needs to be social somewhat.
I got heckled and they were so 'afraid' of me. I thought 'gosh I'm one of the most harmless individuals around!' And one of the nicest ones they could meet. I even let insects out the door rather than kill them (unless mozzies).