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    DRACO July 3, 2009 at 5:33pm

    Thankyou for all your replies! Actually Marique, I have done the coin flipping thing but I keep getting different answers each time I do it! I want to try and not leave things up to chance. It could go to one place and see if I like it, but I dont have the time to go back to the other place and it will be too late. My financial situation is getting really bad and soon I will be alot of trouble.
    lancia, you are right about doing what my heart sings, but I have to make money as well!
    Mysticalflame I think thats what I have done too much, trying to think too much, instead of feeling. the thing is there is one place where I want to live long term, yet I feel there is not enough work right at this point in time, so I am thinking of going to this other place in the medium term just to make some money and then come back.
    Then again I feel I should also go to this other place for some reason, my feelings are also being torn in two directions!
    I just hope I choose the wrong thing and my life completely collapses, which it is about to.
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        DRACO July 3, 2009 at 8:42pm

        OK, I cannot argue with that! You are right in that indecision has been very costly for me. I am actually in the town that I want to be in now, and I am thinking of moving to the other, bigger one for hope of finding work. its strange the way I was pulled down here though, I had not planned to be here at this point in time. Its just the lack of job opportunities that is making me want to leave. I guess it is a leap of faith that is required.
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  Me in 2D July 2, 2009 at 9:20pm

  Signs are important.
  
  You pick them up, because they are important to you..
  
  You never know what is going to happen either way, so go with the signs that fit best in your everchanging life at the time.
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  Marique July 2, 2009 at 9:07pm

  Hi Draco. I was faced with a similar situation a couple of months ago. I wanted to move to Florida, but at the same time I was torn with staying in Maine because I was afraid that I would get homesick because most of my family was in Maine. I was really torn. Finally I wore myself out with the debate of which would be better, each had it pros and cons and I was so confused for a long time about it, over a year. Then finally it got to the point where I decided that I was never going to be able to stop worrying and wondering and decided to just flip a coin, heads stay in Maine or tales move to Florida. It made it so much easier just flipping a coin then ceasing to debate. Then I figured that if it did not seem right for me to live in Florida, I figured I would give it some time and if my inner self told me to go back to Maine, I would pack up and go back. I guess my advice is, you may never know for sure and indecision gets you nowhere, so just flip a coin. I think once you tell yourself, I am going there and that is all there is to it, and that you can always change your mind, that you will feel a lot better. I found sitting on the fence strattling it for too long gives one an enormous "wedgey" so it is best to get off the fence! haha.
  
  Love ya and happy moving
  Marique