Spiritual Forum

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  Vagelis4VP August 4, 2012 at 12:41am

  ..u make very good points in your posts... thats the Truth about this world... and not my truth, or your truth, or the lightworker's next door truth.... humans perpetuate the cycle of ignorance and misbehavior...without even being aware that they are doing it...
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  BlueSky~Valerie July 25, 2012 at 7:40pm

   We came with the Parents we needed to come with in order to be who we are today. No matter who we are, "WE" had things to work thru that having these parents would provide for us with.

  As Light workers, we had to and still are having to ditch the last of our karma, anything that was not resolved in other lifetimes was brought to this lifetime for exploration and closer.

  That is why most lightworkers had the most difficult of lifetimes this lifetime!

  As well, we were in on who our parents will be before we come here, so along with our Guides Angels and masters, WE chose who to be born too. For very specific reasons.

  Nothing that happens in our lives is by accident, and it seems to me that light workers in general, were hated, hurt, brushed aside, tortured, unloved, used as scapegoats for anything that ails a family.

  There are no accidents.  even if those parents are stuck/still stuck where they are.

  believe it or not they are actually a blessing because they pushed us right where we needed to be to resolve our own issues. or to provide us with a certain knowledge so we would know how to help others in similar situations as light workers.

  Not to mimimize anything that has happened in anyones life, But do the homework lightworkers, NOTHING HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT!!!!!!

   
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  Amaiah July 23, 2012 at 2:49am

  Sorry to hear that your Earth parents aren't nice to you. I have similar experience. My mom is not very loving and she kind of rejected me as child when I was born cos she wasn't ready to be a mom when she had me and she was depressed etc. Either way, she was never shy to be physical with me and when I was young, she would lock me in a pitch black room as punishment and I would cry like crazy till I ran out of energy. Of course, she told me I was stupid among many other horrible things. She once called me a prostitute cos I stayed over at my boyfriend's place. Yeah you get the picture.

  Thing is, when I had my first spiritual awakening, it was a "light bulb" moment as if I was given a peak into how the universe work and everything made sense and I knew everything was carefully orchestrated the way it is/was, and I know there's no accident in the way things happened. It then dawned on me that there's NO OTHER WAY that I could have a loving mom cos she was part of the plan to bring about a spiritual awakening. Had my mom be a loving mother and if I was nurtured properly in the most loving manner, I probably wouldn't have had my awakening. So I was thankful for even my shitty mom in a way. I hope you could feel the same and forgive your folks as it's part of the universe's plan. I've made peace with the situation though I still dread dealing with my mom when she visits but I'm focusing on healing my old wounds from the lousy childhood. 
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  John Jancar July 20, 2012 at 9:34am

  I think most of us here follow an unconventional life. You know, go to school, get a job, climb up the career ladder, make money, have a family, buy a home, buy a car, buy furnishings, go on vacations, save for retirement...you know, how "normal" people are supposed to be.

  And obviously, normal people would consider anything other than that unconventional lol And alot of them don't like it, they judge you based on the ways of the world that they've come to view as normal and right. And it's understandable from their perspective, but they don't see the bigger picture, they don't have a good insight or oversight, they don't have a grassroots or overarching understanding. Alot of us are on the cutting edge of human evolution, in terms of our inner self. And that's alot more important than outside logos of success.

  But I think ultimately, we have to try to bridge the two worlds. The inner world of mind, heart and soul development...and the outer world of accomplishment and experience. They're both interconnected, but usually people tend to focus more on one than the other. And you know, it all depends what you're prompted to do, we all have our own path.

  Your path may take you into music, if that's what you love to do and feel prompted to do, well...go for it. It's real hard to make a true success, in worldly terms, out of music...there's so many artists out there who don't make it, who never truly develop into a real talent...but then again, there's alot who do. I can give you some tips for music, if you want, to make you a better artist.

  Again, just do what you feel prompted to do. Listen to your inner self. And even if the whole world is against you, you know what you're doing is best for you, and that's it.
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  thepoetjoseph July 20, 2012 at 6:06am

  Hey man I read a book once called the Tenth insight and in one of the chapters it stated that when we are in the realm of the pure energy we choose who our parents are and we see the things that we will encounter before we even come into the physical realm.You actually came here on your own free will and you chose to go through these awful experiences because of what your soul desired, besides the fact you came here to make a difference in the world. Sometimes we let the negative energy from others and those close to us distract us of our true purpose of why we are hear on this earth. I hope that answers your question, you are not here because of your parents you are here because you chose to come here.
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  shadowsmysticangel1050 July 19, 2012 at 10:18pm

  My father would verbally abuse me always saying such harsh things to me. How ugly i was how fat i was how im nothing but a crippled, no man will ever love you b/c of your illness so on....and I already told you about my mom . this time now u have to forgive them to ascend im not saying have tea and cake with them im just saying forgive them for being weak and mislead and move on with your life and live for ur true happiness:o) Love and light to you all *~Samantha~*
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  AquaRain July 19, 2012 at 7:50pm

  To be honest yes I competely understand. My mother has done everything she could to break me but it only showed her true character. Verbal abuse, sexual games, mind trips, flat out physical beatings, neglect and more. To this day we are not close and never will be. She enjoyed what she did towards me is all I will say. But your not alone. I stay cordial out of respect but I keep my distance. There's nothing wrong with sending them love from afar and keeping your own vibes high. I know from experience.
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  Avior July 19, 2012 at 6:14pm

  Riam, I'm not sure if it's really the best thing to do, but it was something I once found necessary in my journey; however, it might actually leave some unfinished business behind. It's possible to erase someone completely from your reality. All you have to do is stop thinking about them and stop sending them energy. They will never call or really notice what happened and most likely will move on with their lives. I did this for quite a while and it seemed best at a certain point in my walk, but now I realize that perhaps I was avoiding certain things to make myself better. And it does make sense, since if one is not yet a Master, it important the people you place yourself around. I personally had no problem doing it as I see most people even my parents as souls on a journey in the school called Earth.  
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  STAR* July 19, 2012 at 1:02pm

  Yep i do agree with Nancy; because our parents didnt know any better... gotta forgive them anyway; they are OUR parents... we chose THEM lol... believe it or not :P

  well i moved to norway so i dont see my mother or father (who also NEVER understood) lol

  but i forgive them, they are my parents... and they gave me a nice set of genes, and my mum brought me up smart, and independant :P gotta look at the positives!! :D
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  hunter July 19, 2012 at 11:08am

  everyone is doing their best

  if you were to take their entire life into account you would easily see that every action they performed was the best most loving responce they were able to make at that time

  that is not to say of course that they couldnt do better into the future

  blame isnt useful

  it maintains you in your position of powerlessness

  mostly parents are horrible because they feel out of control regarding the thing/person that is the most important to them...that type always want to visit becasue they love you truly....

  some are also utterly insane......what would you learn from that?

  loved

  enjoy