Ok, this might be a little weard topic but I'm wondering...
What ever hapend to the "sacred virginity"? .. These days it seams that moast people (atleast in the first world) are taking their Virginity for granted.
No..... more than that, it's like moast people are "ashamed" to be a virgin, espechealy men. I'm realy wondering why.
Isn't sex actualy a sharking of energy as well? I think we shun't shre our sacret energy with just anyone, spechealy for the first time.
But ofcourse everyone is diffrent and we all have diffrent way to express ourselves. I think the sharing of sexual energy is somthing eatch undividual shares with others diffrently.
When it come to Virginity and the sharing of energy for the first time shun't it be with somone we trust compleatly? Atleast or me that feel like the right thing.
But so many people loses theirs to people they barly know or don't trust like that, a boyfriend or girlfriend they will only be with for a week and where never compatable with in the first place.
People have asked me why there is a problam with that and in truth it's their life and not mine but I often feel pushed by the society's standars.
I can't see why people do that, just thinking abaut it makes me uncomftable .lol.. but it seams like my vews of Sex and Virginity is not very respected anymore....
What's so wrong abaut saving yourself for somone you will trust and love for the rest of your life?
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I think the reason why we have over 7 billion people on Earth is because of "everyone going at it".
Everyone being one color won't fix anything. People will still fight about things. Everyone being one color won't change the amount of passion people have. Families still kill each other even when they're all one color.
Yeah, and I remember being told in high school (by a black teacher) that there would never be a black president. NEVER SAY NEVER!!!
I just want to say this discussion is amazing and I think there should be more like this on here and we should have more conversations about sex and sexual acts everyweek. Anyway I just want you all to know that proud to still be a virgin and I am 29 years old male.
I have to say I do look at porn things and read erotic stories on the internet, because it's good for your imagination I believe and I understand what true love is all about. That's why when I say to woman I am still a virgin on these free dating websites they don't believe me and I will wait until I feel deep true love for woman and she feels the same for me until I have full on sex.
I have had oral sex done to me, so I don't know if this would be class on having sex or not.
Namaste
Jason
Jason: Good for you Jason! I'm proud of you!
I am one of those rare species who are not much into sex life. I prefer making love but not too often either. Most of my partners left me because I didnt want to have sex all the time. Once, back in the time, I practiced celibacy for 9 yrs, the best thing I thing for me I've done.
I lost virginity at 16 yrs old but who can blame me, I made love to beauty~full woman.
However, I do not practice and refuse to do so, a sexual relantionship that requires physical contact all the time, very often and on. I am very compassionate and loving person , who does not have sex often. its been almost 2 yrs since my last contact with goddess.
I have 18 yr old daughter, very active in boyfriend area and that worries me a lot. I try my best to remind her about smart sexual relantionships but I also worry about the fact that she is a product of todays society, full of sexual messages in media, around friends and family, thinking that it is ok to "fuck" that next cute guy. I just hope that shes smart enough to take example from me and her mom : we started having kids in our early 30's.
I praise anyone sticking to virginity, or at least waiting until later yrs to have kids.............................nice topic.
I hear that, my girlfriend sometimes pressures me into getting married and having children, because she says she's getting "old"....even if I don't think 27 is old lol And it's because of the culture she was brought up in, where it's normal for a girl to get pregnant at 16, 17, 18. Or be married by 22, 23 years of age. So it's more a cultural thing than it is an actual need to be married, or be a mother.
I agree with you and I tell her, I think we're still too young yet, around 30 or so, that's when you start thinking of those things. No need to feel outcasted, or like you're falling behind, because in your culture that's how it works. In other cultures it's alot different, some cultures the family chooses your husband, and you have to marry him even if you don't want to. And our culture today, pushes kids into delving into sex really early, and makes sex into some pass time, some novelty, and takes the real intimacy and connection that's supposed to go along with it. And it's sad to see kids take this on, and feel pressured to live up to these norms.
It gets worse though, when you're in your 20s, and are in "the dating game". And many people treat it like a game, complete with little tricks and techniques for how to get a woman into bed with you, and how to "attract" her to you, I mean it's a joke lol If you need to use tricks or techniques, or need to put on some act to attract a girl, you've got the wrong concept entirely. It's about being who you are, and actually being the type of man a woman is attracted to. It's not about technique, it's about being.
And it's just sad to see all this play out. That's why I've always went for sweet, pure girls...because they're not into these games. They just want a heart to heart relationship...and that's all I want too, and I can't understand what passes for relationships in our culture, which has almost nothing to do with love.
Assiya: I know a lot of people who have little or no sexual energy - especially women in their 50's. It's not that unusual, especially when people get older.
Bullfeathers. Every woman I met in her 50's had a real strong sex drive, but not a lot of physical energy for the creative stuff.
@darkstar.......I feel this way for about 18 yrs now, from my 30's .............yet I find it not weird or unusual .
And people like you...Kiara...are one of the outstanding humans, more in touch with higher ways of being, so...you only want to share sexual relations with someone special to you, and do it in the name of love....and that's good. There's nothing wrong with you at all, and everything right. If people judge you as low, or bad, because of that....well that's people and their lowness lol That's not you at all. So don't feel bad....there's absolutely no reason to feel bad, except for not being accepted....but....you don't need peoples acceptance to feel happy.
And I won't lie, I'm a pretty sexual person lol I love the act, but for me it's always been about the connection, and the intimacy involved....not just about carnal pleasure. Boobs are boobs, it's not that big a deal lol Trust me, being with a girl with big boobs, isn't that much different than a girl without big boobs. It's nice to look at, in terms of visual....but the actual sex act itself, big boobs aren't big deals lol For me, it was always about feeling that closeness, that unity...and the pleasure....and I always felt extremely close to the women afterwards, unlike most guys who just want to run away lol
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