Even in those times of ascension there are people undergoing a process of dying.
Going to a death - bed is a holy service.
Nobody, if possible, should be left alone dying.
I have experienced attending dying ones very often, it is a main part of my work.
I can assure you, that you receive courage and power once you dare to go to a death - bed.
You must not have fears, by no means.
Avoid talking about problems, do not weep, you might save it for later.
Leave your prejudices and desire to speek behind.
There is no need having much words.
But if you speek, it must be honest.
You might say words of encouragement to go without looking back.
Whisper in his/her ear, that he/she is loved, that all is fine and his/her beloved ones are with him/her.
And, while holding hands, you might kiss the forehead.
Then there might come the time breathing changes into gasping showing the final minutes.
There are certain signs in the face showing time has come now.
There are really no words that can describe those moments.
You might whisper "Go, in God`s name, go with courage!"
And then it is over, you feel the soul leaving the silent body.
And while it takes a certain period for the body to get stiff, you have time to sit silently and pray.
The relatives and beloved ones are speechless and do not need words yet.
You might shake hands or hug them, they appreciate you`re simply being there.
Go, if possible, and let nobody left alone dying...
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My dear one,
all was fine. Your experience is causing many to feel bad, for is is really confusing having not waited a couple more minutes.
I have observed over the years the beauty of dying processes, yes, really the beauty. Some wait for their beloved ones.
A friend of mine - 35 years old, cancer - was really waiting for me when I came from a lecture. I went to the hospital and saw her face smiling. Really 5 minutes later she was dead.
But there are other ones, who seem to wait till they are alone. There was the wife of a friend - also cancer. We had extraordinary deep talks. When time came to die, it was the same situation you described. Obviously she waited for him to leave the room for a break, and she died, before he came back.
I think, those dying ones chose to leave in order not to make it more difficult for the beloved ones. They always know that father death is standing on the bed, but normally have great fear. The dying ones know that, and in an act to offer a little help they leave in moments they are alone.
You should smile at your mom and see, that really all is fine, she never would complain at you, never. Kid, she would say, no regrets! All is fine!
And as I assume, she will be there when you will die, yes, she surely will be there for your transition...
Why on Earth do you keep changing your profile? It's hard to keep up with people as it is. It gets really confusing, can't you stay the same picture?
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