The Four stages of Forgiveness

I think there are basically 4 stages of forgiveness.
In the first stage. It is conditional judgement. I will forgive that person only if they ask me nicely, or beg, or die slowly and painfully in extreme cases. But of course that is not forgiveness.
In the 2nd stage, I realize that not forgiving cause me real pain and misery in the form of all kinds of mental, emotional and spiritual sickness, so we decide to forgive to get well and get on with our lives. This is much better than the 1st stage, but it is still not forgiveness.
In the 3rd stage, I forgive because I am beginning to understand that we are all one and that I want that other person to get better and the world to be a better place. Otherwise, I would be keeping an image of that person at his/her lowest point alive forever. It is in this stage that I began to get an understanding of how the various nuerotoxins such as mercury, GMO's, plastics etc affect behavior. I also realized that these nuerotoxins were placed in our environment purposefully to weaken our etheric fields so that we could be controlled by archons, demons and other entities that never have our best interests at heart.
In the 4th stage, I realize that everything is perfect as it is and that there never is anything to forgive. The fact that I may not be able to understand it at a certain point in time is because my vibrational frequency is too low or my internal paradigm needs to shift and expand and therefore I need to concentrate on shifting and expanding my own vibrational frequency and perspective to a cosmic level, and by so doing my so called dis-eases will cease to exist as well. Forgiveness is only necessary in the 3D, ego centered, survival/fear based paradigm. Where do you live?

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  • Thank you for sharing this, Unity. Forgiveness grants us freedom. Every day is a good day to forgive ourselves and to forgive others. It does not mean we must forget, as many things have to change. I know people who constantly rely on forgiveness from others, yet cannot forgive others themselves. I wonder if it's because they cannot forgive themselves.

    Non-judgement is a great rule to live by, but when our egos slip up, forgiveness of ourselves and of others helps us to get back on track, back onto a higher vibration, where we are better able to manifest all the goodness that we want, with heart-felt gratitude. So I forgive myself and I forgive everyone. I manifest that my mistakes are corrected, and that the world's mistakes are corrected, with love, and with thanks <3  

     

     

  • Perfect :)

    Cat xxx

  • there is only ONE STAGE of Forgiveness~ forgive................................

    • Reply to Assiya

      I do wish it would have been that simple for me. However, for me it has been a process and a slow progression. Not a flip of the switch. Each person has his own path. Namaste

      • I agree that it is a process and not a flip of a switch however it is still same path ; you either forgive or not

    • Well there is once you get to stage four :)

       

      Cat xxx

  • Hi folks, Hi unity, thanks for sharing this very important topic of human life.

    Here is the perspective I've come to so far in this particular human life.

    The only things that should be judged, are systems that tend to mold thought and actions.

    Systems of living, like tubes in a hamster cage or programs on a computer, are the main dictators of how a human being will tend to think and act.

    Once this simple fact is clearly observed in ones experiential life, it is easy to forgive and as is said, the idea of even needing to forgive, becomes moot or not even applicable almost.

    For example, if a system is designed to encourage competition, then that is generally what many life forms like humans will display.

    Very simple stuff and so with all the drama played out due to this, when one sees clearly with the heart, none of this is a surprise.

    And so starts to have no effect anymore as far as reacting to the outer stimuli, that tends to want to keep these ways going.

    Since its hard to keep a program from conflicting with other programs (ideas, thoughts) until a new one overwrites it, or in this case, is quarantined in ones mind and then new programs are installed to continually identify these other types of programs, so that the newer, more cooperative programs can remain unaffected in the mind by outer stimuli and operate, which leads to the hundreth monkey effect often mentioned.

    peace love light

  • stop being judgmental and accept.

    there will be no need to forgive.

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