Thinking about fair love reveals something eminently important, which under no circumstances can be missed. These are some of considerable points:
# A fair love is a mutual one. This implies mutual respect, consideration, mindfulness and interest.
# A fair love does not need sacrifices, suppression, pressure and disregard. This implies the will not to hide something from the other while treating the other like an immature subject.
# A fair love is sensitive waiting for the right time sharing something with the other. This implies mutual awareness and the courage to live through times of missunderstandings.
# A fair love is able to manage obstacles and difficulties appearing once in a while. This implies mutual concessions of silence, withdrawal and personal pain and disappointment.
Very interesting would be an application to possible relations to alien entities. Then humans would need to exactly know, what it is, that makes them lovable.
# If it is true, that alien entities - as often aid - consider us as part of the galactic family: is there something they appreciate most, but we don`t?
# What is it? Our flesh-and-bone-mentality? Our fragility and inconsistency? Our limits and possibilities to both, deepest uglyness and highest beauty?
# Or is it a kind of envy or jealousy the aliens feel, because they would like to be, what humans are? Or because they would like to have, what humans have?
# Is it a fair love alien entities could share, or is it the love of mature ones to immature kids, the love of almighty parents to crazy toddlers or to more or less uncultured, but lovely idiots, which need proper treatment?
With many of those questions I`ll go to bed now and lift my heart to God with a sigh. Good night!
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Well, after having had a nice breakfast, I read your lines and must say thanks to you.
Kelly, your analogy taking vortex mechanics and laser physics to describe "love movement" is very impressive and makes sense to a certain degree, since your general point of yours is: "The galactics aren't outside of ourselves- they ARE ourselves...". From there your mentioned "self reference" is absolutely understandable.
Which brings me back to ontological considerations - conscience is also a self referential process of being aknowledging being and thus itself. Thank you again for your deep remark!
Anyway, allow me to differentiate something, which is often forgotten. You might point to a deep truth being at work, as you did without any doubt. But there is another thing at work - a work of concealment making a difference between appearance and truth. Ask me not why - we experience life as if there would be limits and times and whatever.
Those "is if" experiences appear as if they would be real, and they are real to a certain degree. And the "real" truth we can only intuit...
Again, your words point to the deep truth behind all, but my approach was about having a sense for what it means loving a limited and twisted human. I`ll take the appearance ob being human very serious, despite the not so obvious truth behind it you was referring to.
Living with the difference between obvious appearance and "real" truth behind it is a big deal in being human. And I wanted to show the necessity to be humble to embrace our limited humanity. I simply wanted to say: We have not to hide ourselfes despite all limits and shit going on with humans, being human is not a mess at all but a challenge, we must not be ashamed of being human!
And finally I wanted to show, that any thought of alien entities would wrinkle their noses about humans would be no sign of love appropriate having healthy relations to humans.
Many greetings from Germany!
there is a belief from the andromedans that the humans souls, not the starseeds from other places, the true human souls, are actually what they call the paa-taal, (not sure of spelling) which essentially is the "beginning" race, the first ones the ultimate creators, and we are right now going through our cycle, which because time is circular has already happened and will happen again, so anyways some of the galactics believe we are the first ones, and in such are overjoyed to be able to witness our growth and advancement,
it would sort of like being around in roman or egyptian times and just being totally excited to see the development of those cultures, knowing at the time that if we went back now we are more advances than them, yet knowing because of times circularity that in the future they become what we are today,