smiling and attraction?

 

I go about my day with my head down when I walk by people, Im not trying to be rude at all im just shy. I feel like if I look into someones eyes is like im looking into there soul without permission. I got to get to know someone before I smile and joke around with, especially with women I don't know whether to smile like I would smile at another guy like whats up you know. I don't know how to distinguish what an Im attracted to you or your good looking smile is?

I need help how can I smile friendly without being creepy? (im not a creep by the way)

I would like some tips or tricks to get over this obstacle I have, what are your views, opinions, etc...

 

You need to be a member of Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community to add comments!

Join Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community

Email me when people reply –

Replies

  • hi Shawnzie,

     I was just like you, if i have eyecontact it just feels weird with people i dont know..

    exspecially with girls ;P.

    I think u have to just make a lot of eyecontact with the people u do know and love, practice it i know it feels weird to just start a conversation to practise eyecontact but thats the way i learned it. Its not like im that super confidend guy, in fact ( opposite lol XD ). 

    just try to make you aura happier and then the rest of your smile will come. (if that makes sense :? ;)

    and remember we are all NOT perfect.

  • I look people right in the eyes and just smile...  they usually smile back and this creates a lovely feeling of mutual friendliness and makes you feel happy,,,  

    now and again, very rare the other person looks at me with a suspicious look but like I say this is very rare.......

  • I had the same problem as you when I were younger. I came over it when I stopped caring so much about how other people would perceive me. :)

  • I always just say hi or how are you to everyone I see on the streets. I do that to make them comfy . I dont have to have a large smile just intention of being nice and polite. people like that.......................

  • thanks for the advice!

  • Sincerity ... which comes from the Heart ... ;))

    • well put thanx:)

  • ...Im The Same.....:)....Im Quite Shy....When It Comes To Peoplelll.....<3...........x...

    • im glad im not the only one:)

       

This reply was deleted.

Topics by Tags

Monthly Archives

Latest Activity

Movella left a comment on Comment Wall
"What a load of dum dums!
As if they thought they could hold a coronation out in the open in the heart of Qom while Operation Epic Fury was fully active? It’s like watching a badly scripted movie where the Iranian regime is just deleting itself.…"
11 minutes ago
AlternateEarth left a comment on Comment Wall
"88 dum dum mullahs actually went to a building in Tehran today to elect a new supreme dum dum, but somebody tipped off the Israelis and the building was evicerated, with the dums dums in it."
1 hour ago
Movella left a comment on Comment Wall
"Just a little memo for Jancar.
Women in SA have been driving since 2018, so you might want to update your search engine!🚗 I have to say, going off last decades news is really quite a stretch, but so is this multiple Trump fan fiction. Sometimes…"
2 hours ago
Warbeak is now a member of Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community
2 hours ago
Drekx Omega left a comment on Comment Wall
"John, you might like to note that Trump was honoured by the Saudi sword dance ceremony, twice...AI states the following:

"Donald Trump participated in the traditional Saudi sword dance, known as the Ardah, on two separate occasions during state…"
3 hours ago
Drekx Omega left a comment on Comment Wall
"Why Iran and not the Saudis...?? Well, it's because (as one example among many,) in the UK, we have had twenty terror plots thwarted by our excellent intelligence services (MI5, GCHQ) over the past year.....That's 20 terror plots financed and…"
3 hours ago
AlternateEarth left a comment on Comment Wall
"Pres Trump and Isreal to give small arms to the people!!!"
4 hours ago
John Jancar left a comment on Comment Wall
"I mean if Trump, whoever he is lol Is so concerned with freedom and democracy, why not attack Saudi ARABIA, I mean their human rights record is abysmal lol Women can't even drive there, just it's a total tyranny, with their ruling family being part…"
4 hours ago
More…