Spiritual Forum

Relationships and Sexuality in the Fifth Dimension

Adama, please talk about relationships between men and women in Telos. How is sexuality handled between people of Telos? How can people in the third dimension evolve toward these types of relationships?

Greetings, my beloveds,

It is a real delight for me and for my team to be spending time with you in your energy field as you read our words. It is our most heart-felt desire to impart a greater understanding of divine laws and their applications for you.

The way we live our lives in Telos does not differ greatly from any other galactic community in this solar system or this universe. We are all living and applying the universal laws which are the same for everyone. How life is expressed from civilization to civilization may vary to a greater or lesser degree, but the core principles are the same for everyone. You may call it "unity or universal consciousness."

Our relationships and sexual expression in Telos reflect a consciousness much more evolved and mature than yours in the understanding of the various applications of Love. To begin with, the curriculum for relationships is "union" in oneness, in an embrace of the experience of divine love. For a very long time in your dimension, relationships have been based on duality consciousness. Now dear ones, you have become weary of these types of relationships that do not work and do not fulfill your heart’s desires.

Your relationships, for the most part, have caused you various levels of pain and longing. You are now yearning to gain a greater understanding of relationship. Many of you are waking up to the distorted programming you hold about relationships and seeking to balance the masculine and feminine energies within your being.

First of all, know that it all begins with you. Your "significant other" is simply a mirror for you to evolve with and learn from. No one can love you more than you love yourself, nor can you love someone else more than you love yourself. Consider this:

Whenever you are looking for someone to give you the love that you are not willing to give to yourself, you create need.

You must embody the appropriate balance to attract the type of relationship you yearn for or the relationship will be based on neediness rather than oneness. This, my friends, will never work, at least not for very long. Remember that in an unsatisfying relationship, both partners mirror for each other the imbalances of neediness, of ownership, of un-realistic expectations, control, manipulation and so on. You know the entire litany of complaints about relationships in your dimension even better than we do.

Whenever people are whole and complete within Self, with balanced feminine and masculine energies, they are in love with themselves and do not need someone else to fulfill them emotionally. They feel whole, happy and successful. They exude the joy of life with or without a partner. They do not feel the emptiness within that being needy and out of balance produces.

When this balance is achieved, then and only then will the "I AM" of your being issue the call for the right relationship to appear in your life in alignment with your desire and your present pathway. This "divine union" with the twin flame of your heart can manifest in your life only by the permission of your Higher Self.

In Telos we honor ourselves such that none of us would ever accept or settle for a relationship

that is less than 100% fulfilling on all levels.

In our society, we consider each other equals and we honor each other’s divinity and soul path. Though your society is gradually changing, and women are now opening to their feminine potential as equal partners, there are still too many women who tolerate inequality as well as verbal and physical abuse. Too many of you do not yet feel worthy of being loved and you tolerate beatings, deprivation, and violation of your integrity and freedom. Too many of you still think that this is what you deserve, or you perceive abusive relationships as a normal way of life. Even in the USA, this consciousness still exists for many. It exists even more tragically in several countries on this planet where women have absolutely no rights. You know what and where I mean; you have seen it in your newspapers and television news.

In our society, and in all evolved societies, men and women consider each other as two aspects of God. The woman represents the aspects of the divine mother and the man represents the divine father. There is honor and respect between couples at all times. This does not mean that they always agree, but even when there is a difference of desire or perspective, they honor each other’s viewpoint and do not fight or argue over it. They do not have this kind of attachment to being right or wrong, and they do not love each other any less because of their differences of perspective.

Couples spend as much time together as they wish. They have all the time they want to nurture, love and show their appreciation for each other as partners. Because we work approximately 20 hours a week, and the rest of the time we are free to use our time as we wish, couples have much time to enjoy each other’s company in their homes and in the many social and artistic gatherings in our community. They are never short of time to nurture each other in many creative ways. They love to lavish each other with little attentions, tenderness and affection. They express their sexuality and intimacy with each other when they choose, always in a beautiful, relaxed atmosphere.

Relationships in Telos are not subject to the physical hardships of survival and the financial difficulties that you have to deal with in your society. Relationships between men and women do not have the same level of stress, and it is easier for couples to be consistently loving and harmonious. Because of our love, our mature consciousness and our honoring of the Earth, there is a constant flow of supply from the universe to fulfill our needs. This is what you are moving toward in the very near future.

We do not have to earn money to pay rent or feed the children, or pay medical bills or taxes. All commodities of life are free for everyone. The tyranny of earning money in your world will soon come to an end, hopefully within the next 10 to 12 years, and your overall stress will diminish greatly.

Tell us about relationships of young adults and teenagers.

Experimental relationships are also permitted when our young people reach a certain age and their sexual hormones become active. We do not force them to suppress these natural desires. When they reach the age of thirteen or fourteen they are allowed to experiment with sexuality with each other under the supervision of the priesthood. These wise teachers prepare our youth to express their sexuality with maturity and responsibility. They are then allowed to go out on their own and experience what they have been taught. Their sexuality is always expressed with pure joy and delight in each other. Eventually, their youthful need to experience with more than one partner diminishes until there is the mature desire for commitment. In this way, our young adults in Telos are free to experiment with their sexuality as part of their maturing procecess.

There comes a time when two souls who wish to unite choose to make a commitment. It is usually a commitment for greater growth, not necessarily with the goal of permanence. When two souls wed in a committed marriage, they honor each other as part of the divine whole. Rarely do these relationships experience much stress, and may last from several years to several hundred years.

If or when both parties feel completion in their experience together, they part in a very friendly and loving manner, and in the harmony of mutual agreement. They say to each other: "Thank you, my dear. It was wonderful to have had this opportunity for growth with you. Thank you for the love, the tenderness and the affection we have shared, and for the spiritual growth and the wisdom we have gained. We shall remain friends as we each go our separate ways to our next experience of life and soul evolution."

Partners in Telos are very loving toward each other. When two souls are in a committed marriage for a long time experiencing great love for one another after hundreds or thousands of years together, they are usually twin flames. Sooner or later, the couple applies to the Lemurian Council for permission to enter into a sacred marriage. These unions are permanent and remain together as long as they both live in this dimension.

Tell us how partners express their sexuality in Telos.

In a sense, our bodies are not as physically dense as yours, and we can merge with each other in a much deeper and more intimate way. When we unite, we merge our physical bodies as well as our chakras in a union of love. We regard the sexual act as "a union with the divine" and all of our chakras participate, always in alignment with the heart, which brings a much expanded experience. Our sexual expression is based on engaging the fires of the heart first.

In your sexual expression on the surface, you mostly engage only the first two chakras of creativity and survival. For those really "in love" with each other, you engage the heart chakra as well. In Telos, we would never engage in a sexual act for the purpose of gaining favors or for manipulative reasons.

Because of our level of evolution, we have many more chakras activated than you do. We have twelve main chakras fully activated, as well as each of their twelve sub-chakras. This means 144 chakras are engaged in our sexual expression. When two people merge together as the divine feminine and the divine masculine in an expression of divine love, the energy of union resonates through the whole solar system. It is felt by the Father-Mother God. It becomes an act of the union of hearts merging with the Creator energy. This is how we view our sexuality.

Distorted sexual practices

For a long time, we have watched your sexual expressions, from the highest to the lowest in vibration. We encourage you to re-evaluate the negative emotional repercussions of sexual encounters holding little or no love for the other. There are still countries where a woman’s clitoris is removed when she is very young to ensure that she will never experience any sexual pleasure, her goddess aspect totally denied. In entire cultures, women have been denied sexual pleasure by the male energy, and by those who have manipulated your planet’s genetics by mixing sexuality with pregnancy.

Let me add something else. So many women on this planet have turned off their sexuality and their goddess energies because they have been abused, misused, desecrated, violated, repressed and dishonored. In past ages, women in general felt that they were of little value beyond service as a sex object or a material possession for men’s physical and emotional needs. It is now time for both genders to heal those deep-seated wounds.

The Bringing Forth of Children

We are totally free to enjoy our sexuality without the burden or apprehension of unwanted pregnancies. Pregnancies manifest only when a soul is invited by intention to evolve in our community. The pregnancy then takes place energetically in the subtle body and manifests physically. Only in sacred marriages are couples allowed to bring forth children. When a couple makes a decision to have a child, they go to the temple to discuss their intention with the head priest and apply for permission to receive this privilege. Only couples who have attained high spiritual maturity are allowed to bring forth souls into incarnation. This is the way it is in all enlightened civilizations.

When permission is granted for a couple to bring forth a new soul into our community, it is considered a very sacred calling. The parents-to-be are then in direct connection with one or more candidates from the light realm for that special privilege. Once the candidate is chosen, many meetings take place at an inner level between the incoming soul and the future parents. There is approximately six to twelve months of preparation for conception. Soul path and purposes are studied carefully until all is in readiness for that sacred commitment.

It would be unthinkable in our society to bring a child into incarnation without first implementing the highest and most complete preparations.

We are totally aware of the impact the birth of a new soul will create in our community. When the soul is conceived, the gestation period is twelve weeks. The parents temporarily move to the temple for full-time preparation for the event. During that time, the parents-to-be lavish each other with the purest love they are capable of as a couple. They listen to music that elevates their vibration and surrender themselves into exquisite beauty. The members of the temple priesthood honor and welcome the soul who is destined to become part of our community. Our children are always wanted and desired. During the gestation period, the soul waiting to be born feels fully the love of the parents and of the community.

Our children are born slightly larger than yours and they grow more rapidly; they also grow in wisdom and knowledge. Though they may experience some of the difficulties children do on the surface, especially at puberty, we have many ways to assist them to mature and grow through their problems. Each child’s pathway is always honored, and each child receives all the attention he/she requires.

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