I have become so detached from my friends.

I have become so detached from my friends, although i do love them so much, i can not bring them into a prospective where i favor them more than any other being, where i do not need to be around them any more than any other being, and where they are no longer the great concern that they once were in my life.

This is not something i had done knowingly or planned, it has just happened. But on the plus side of things, i have at the same point in time grown closer to my grown children, much closer, before they were always around, and i feel i took that for granted, but now i see much more in them, i see their light shining forth.

Again about My friends, it is not that i do not love them anymore, it is more of what they do is not my life anymore, if i am there at every argument every call, then my energy can not grow, all my life i have had no time for "ME".

It is not just friends it is detachment from the things i would normally take for granted every day, such as washing up, cleaning when there is no real need, more like it will be done tomorrow, going to shops and buying nothing, dont get me wrong, the cleaning does get done, but when i am good and ready to do it.

I now take more interest in people walking about,smiling at people, opening doors for people, walking in the country, observing nature in all its glory, and most of all just sitting in the countryside on the grass, sitting on mother earth, feasting on the energy that is all around me.

Peace love and light.

I to totally understand. I thank you for this post cause for a while latly I felt so alone. I have called it quits 2 days in a row working. Owning my own landscaping company the temperature has reached close to a 100. So it finally hit me why work till complete exaustion close to passing out just to satisfy people or bills. None of that matters if I am dead. I have lost contact with many many friends they still infest themselves in what I consider useless drama trivial BS. In Life it doesn't matter what type of car you drive, how many friends you make, what type of clothes you have, what type of house you have. What truly matters is the lessons you teach the little ones. I have two children that have moved 1200 miles away from me. I have lived in my house for over 30 years and I am about to sell it to move closer to them cause them is all that matters. I think it is funny how many people think I am so distant cause I were self made free hug t shirts every day. Have huge banners hanging from my house that say "Got Love". well anyways I truly thank you for this post cause it is what I needed to read right now to know I am not alone. Be well and Namaste.

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Super7DsMom July 6, 2010 at 8:21am

I have alot of friends..but in the last year I have continued to narrow down my involvement..too many hampster wheels (drama) as I call it ..the same thing over and over again happening in thier lives. I was getting headaches..realizing that the less I was around it the less that I had the headaches. I only spend time with a select few about 4 households..I do not apologise for it..I am growing spiritually and I need the time to do that. I have been going threw my days one day at a time..taking care of myself..and enjoying everything about being alive and on the earth..It is a beautiful planet and I have joy and love for everything that i see in nature..or is good. I am not letting all the bad things around me effect me..it doesn't seem to be so hard to do that anymore. I have lost my fears that I had not to long before..( as little as a month ago) I feel freer! Happer and more peaceful! I am in love with the clear nightime sky! Things that seemed so importance only months ago seem not to be so important as just being..living. Almost seems like a calm before a storm.
Starseed July 3, 2010 at 2:22am

Hi There

Yes I have been doing the same thing it must be the energys that are coming
Tracy S
J~{Shaar'Ah'Ai'La}~ July 3, 2010 at 2:09am

Nice James, I feel what you're saying :)
Charley. July 2, 2010 at 3:03pm

I think, some new friends will appear in your life soon. I know, how you feel! It is part of the love-vibration. I also feel very attached to nature these days, the trees, the birds, everything is my best friend. It is because, we are starting to enjoy the light and to be aware of it!
:))
Sincerely yours,
Charlotte.
Devi Cholet July 2, 2010 at 1:43pm

This has been my experience too! It seems odd and at the same time the only way left to proceed through this time. I have lost interest in so much of what others fill their life with that I can hardly speak to them. There seems to be less and less in common. Much Love to you, Devi
Cedric June 30, 2010 at 7:04pm

Verry wel put, i believe so to. It seems we always come back because the breach is not big enough.
- 3rfl3nfqndi4s > Cedric June 30, 2010 at 10:19pm
  
  Excellent points, Meg, and very succinctly and simply put. Thank you!!! You hit "my" nail on the head with "just watch for any resistance and surrender that".......YEAH!!! Go with the flow. Downstream all the way. Let go of the shore.
3rfl3nfqndi4s June 30, 2010 at 6:21pm

Ditto for me, as well. Have gone from being a real "people person" to, basically, a hermit, and in that hermitage ;o) I am becoming re-acquainted with the True Self and remembering what is important and what is not so important, which is mostly scurrying around like a crazy person doing, doing, doing. Now, it's more about Being, Being, Being.

Thank you ALL for your valuable contributions.

Loving Blessings.
Saint Lucifer June 30, 2010 at 5:47pm

I to totally understand. I thank you for this post cause for a while latly I felt so alone. I have called it quits 2 days in a row working. Owning my own landscaping company the temperature has reached close to a 100. So it finally hit me why work till complete exaustion close to passing out just to satisfy people or bills. None of that matters if I am dead. I have lost contact with many many friends they still infest themselves in what I consider useless drama trivial BS. In Life it doesn't matter what type of car you drive, how many friends you make, what type of clothes you have, what type of house you have. What truly matters is the lessons you teach the little ones. I have two children that have moved 1200 miles away from me. I have lived in my house for over 30 years and I am about to sell it to move closer to them cause them is all that matters. I think it is funny how many people think I am so distant cause I were self made free hug t shirts every day. Have huge banners hanging from my house that say "Got Love". well anyways I truly thank you for this post cause it is what I needed to read right now to know I am not alone. Be well and Namaste.
Cedric June 30, 2010 at 5:36pm

Yep right there with you. Same feeling and acting. And all this is not because i got lazy or do not want to be doing something. It seems i have a need for more up to date stuff to be done, it is more like..." Ok old stuff did not work let's do something different". And do it when i am ready for it from within, not because my survival drift just kicked in. Survival does not get to the plate anymore. It is living that matters fully aware of who we are. I realized the other day that when i fall on my knees or drop on my face, it is not because i am trying to pray or ask for help it is my way of taking a brake...lol. So i can stand up again and get going. In all my searching and adventures and 1000 of books i read, one thing stayed with me " Before inlightment wash the dishes, after inlightment wash the dishes." Still only the enlightend person will see the difference between the 2. For a inlightend person all is inlightend even doing nothing...:))