As I've become more spiritual and continue to look into my heart chakra for answers in life i notice that a lot of my old friends are people that don't love themselves and don't love others. when I'm around these people I get very tired and I feel negative energy in me and sometimes i get confused and insecure about life, they take away the light that I've worked so hard to absorb and i don't want to fall back into blindful hateful ignorance because of these people. These people don't love and respect me and I long to be surrounded by fun loving, authentic, carefree people who nurture my soul and raise me to higher vibrations of love and happiness.
how can i structure my life to find such people?
I've found that you must let some sleeping dogs lie. It is what your intent speaks that causes who or what comes into your life, nothing else. You've in some way asked to be around people like this? Could it be a desire to see them rise above their negativity and blase attitude toward life? Stay alert to signals that people send as to whether they are ready to consider doing this. This necessitates their confronting their own fears and shortcomings, and sometimes it's noone else's business to become involved. What's really in your heart?
This same thing is happening to me. I keep taking back the same 'friend' who has bad habits, says negative things and has ulterior motives. There are also a few others I had to do without. The one friend I do hold on to has potential to change. He tries to help people so I try to see it that way. However, to live in the light in a higher vibration, we have to move on and expose ourselves to new activities and a new way of being and thinking. It isn't easy to do when 'heavier' people are pulling us down.But to do without those people will make us feel 'lighter' as long as we know our soul brothers and sisters are out there to guide us.
Be what you want to be all the time , and affect your surroundings ( human , animal or material whatever they are all vibrations ) , do not let the surroundings affect you , stay strong and wriggle through this mess of a life using that 1 single pathway that is You :)