Hello there :)
I want to start by saying thank you for taking the time to read this post. It truly means alot to me to speak to people of similar frequencies. What I'm about to share is a personal struggle as I begin to understand my true potential and expand my awareness. I'm sure there are others who are experiencing this and may be able to help.
I have heard about people losing friends over their beliefs and as they increase frequency, and they begin to shift apart. But what about family? Parents, brothers, sisters? I struggle with the fact that, since my awakening, I continue to vibrate away from them. They don't understand me. And I do not push anything on them, I only share a new perspective. They bring all of their limitations and negative beliefs to the table when I am around. It is very draining. I can't carry on a normal conversation because I see things as they truly are. So I can't even share my side of the situation, because they don't get me. But I certainly can't just agree and say "well yeah mom, that is truly terrible, I can't believe she said that to you. I wouldn't talk to her no more" That's what she expects me to say. And when I say "let it go", or "try not to dwell on it", it starts a problem. I can actually feel their negative energy and can have moments of telepathy with my parents. They have some blockages that I can't clear and they actually, almost purposely, try to drag me down with them at times.
I have been limiting contact with them due to this, but it makes me feel like I am abandoning them. My sisters are open to new ideas. But they "never have time" for that "stuff". "That's nice but you don't understand what it's like" ect.
I'm sure you know where I'm coming from.
Anyways, I was hoping someone could share some thoughts as to an experience that may have had and how they may have worked through it.
Thank you so much for listening, and I send you all much love!
~Ryan
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Thank you so much. You are so very right. The "don't talk about it" part is soooo tough because life can be so amazing and I just want them to see it. Love and hugs-Ryan
Hello Ryan :)
I think we're all pretty much dealing with similar issues here..in one way or another. I can tell you that at this moment I haven't had contact with my parents for about two weeks, and my mom used to call me every day, Last time I was there, my father was verbally abusive and I tried to give him Light...of course, the negative energy response was so great that I just left. I was crying, I felt very sad and spent about two days going through the motions of all the bad feelings stemming from the physical, verbal and emotional abuse I went through as a child. I took it as a lesson, and I let it go. I understand that It is not my job to wake them up. I was born awake, and went through my whole life with an understanding that these people who made me, the family into which I reincarnated-were there to teach me some hard lessons so that I can accomplish things and clear of karma from past lives. At the time though, I wasn't aware of any ascension, I just assumed it was my last life on this plane...
My advice to you is not to ever take things personally, because they are not here for you, and you are not here for them. Everything that happens is a lesson, and people come into your life and leave it just as it was planned.
Thank you for your compassion. My true self knows this, but my other self has trouble remembering. Sending you Love and Peace.
It is truely nice to know I'm not alone, Sitna my heart goes out to you. I was never close to my Mom or Sister because thru therapy so before I knew I was awake, been awake but I just assumed I was intent on just being happy, even without love. So I guess I'm lucky in that aspect of just dealing with them 4x yr, it's enough and every time we depart I still say, "HOW are they my family, what was I thinking when I chose them"? Life lessons, somewhere in my life it's a lesson.
Has anyone had an out of body experience? Here let me give you an example. Another reason why I've lost so many friends who are close minded. I re-acted in a way that when I was finished ranting and saying my peace I walked back to my table and said to myself, "WThell was that? I mean it truly was an out of body experience. This has now happened 3 times. It's a very strange act and I KNOW it HAD to happen and I KNOW I was pushed into "dealing" with the situation, I do believe that IS what is happening. Anyone who shouldn't be part of your life right now won't be, they can't, not if you want to continue on with a better life.
I will guarantee every single person who is "hurting" you is a miserable person, they are the victim, nothing goes right for them, well duh......they just aren't ready to see.....
Someone said let them watch you in action and that is exactly what I do, I let them see how much LOVE I have for my step children. Something they can not do give love especially if they aren't blood related. Family is family. I have a mother who insists she can't say " I Love You" to me because my mother says, "well my mother couldn't say it to me", POOR EXCUSE MOM! and a lie because she tells my daughter I Love you no problem. I was never close to my mother, she scared me to death. She has such hatred in her eyes towards me and if one more person tells me "oh they (sister too) are just jealous of you"......oh for the Love of God, please stop it with the jealous excuse.
My 24 yr old daughter will still cuddle, sit on my lap, love me oh she loves me and I love her so much, again this scenerio is something my Mother and sister don't do, nor do they understand it, kind of sad don't you think?
I'll always wonder why I chose them but I'm sure I'll find out why.......I'd actually love to know what life lesson was taught to me through them, can't think of anything. I definitely want to forget the beatings, abuse, hatred they put me thru, I've released/forgiven that past.
So just carry on with your life, catch them when they fall, keep sending them love.....hopefully they'll wake up before 12/21/12.
Love all of you!
Light Worker Joanne
Joanne, Hello again my friend. I know what you mean about the out-of-body experience. I'll try to act a certain way or know how I want to come across, but a different me has other plans. I'll get finished and say "WThell was that"? (I like the Wthell) As I progress in my spirituality, I not only see the good in life, but the good of the past. The bad in the now and in the past begins to disolve. I feel forgiveness is the key. The more I forgive, the more I forget. The more I see everything that has happened has lifted my spirit. If things didn't work the way they had, neither one of us might not be awake or even be here on this page. Just the fact that we are both self aware tells me our lives have been truly blessed. Sending you much love and peace. Stay strong, be the light.
What a special group of spirits we have here at AC. This was my first post and I feel that everyone covered me with a warm, cozy blanket when I was cold. Hugged me, and told me everything would be OK. A special group indeed. Ones that I will surely see in heaven. Thank you all so much for your kindness, compassion, and love.
~Ryan
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I am so grateful. Sending you much love, peace, and hugs.
Thank you for the welcome and thoughts of compassion. You have truly brightened my internal light. Sending you much love and peace.
just stay in love...love never fails...but your words to them must always be positive..so think before you speak...may the Divine Source give you the strength...teach them to laugh...laugh with them...much joy to you
Your right, love never fails. Thank you for your kindness. Much Peace and Love to you my friend.
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