ok, now on here i've spoken about many things and some things if not all things so far have been relatively easy topics, all i simply wanted so far has been a light view on things to help me understand or make decisions or just out of curiousity
this is different!
this matter is one that has to be handled delicatly yet is of the most vigerouse of injustice in my books!
now my little brother and his girlfriend moved out of home to try and survive together as a couple, our family was moving interstate so they figured the would give it a try while under her mothers roof with friends around for support and a good structure
well for reasons that aren't important the house-hold is un-bearable to live in
now there moving here in townsville flights payed for not going back and all seemed well and good up until the mother started having diffulctie's letting go of the daughter,
in wich case my lil bro is getting abused for leaving the house and both are under house arrest, wich is bareable, she has to look after her sisters kid for babysitting wich again is ok, but the daughter (my lil bro's girl) has been brought up to obay her mother, she is 18 years old and quiet a mature well clue'd on down to earth girl who is more than capable of living in almost any situation carefully and well!
it is now a week before they get here and the mother has a theory that because my lil bro and his un-official sister (who is one of my closest friends, i would consider family but i've slept with her so that would be kinda messed up) is so close that this girl wants to try and break them up to be with my lil bro (wich is far from the case, they are both repulsed by the idea since they are so close!) in wich means that this girl wasn't allowed to go to the farewell party (wich was fine since it was at the mothers house), now she's gone further by saying that they aren't allowed to go to this girls B'day dinner (not even a late one) and my lil bro isn't even her kid so really not much right's to it AND they leave 6am the next morning on a flight so really what's the worst she's going to do?, kick them out lol
i don't even think that the mother is going to happy about this girl being at the airport to see them off!
now so far my little brother is just simply jumping through hoops till the day he gets to leave and i really have no real say in the matter nor really have to care at all, other than the daughter has been my closest friend for many years now and we where pretty much brother and sister before my lil brother started dating her!
this is where the problem begins (now i know there's allot of history but to understand my problem you need to know the basics of the situation) my parents have decided to give both my lil brother and his girlfriend and me a fighting chance in life by offering to rent us out thier house in adelaide, it would be a great chance to be on our own and i'm only going to be there a year or two, long enough to find my own way in life and get out there in the real world, there offering it to us for $100 per person who live's there and only me and her and lil bro are suppose to be allowed
now the mother has decided to take her daughters kid AND her youngest (10 y/old boy) to live in adelaide aswell, if this happens then the mothers daughters kid's father (i hope you can keep up people i'm sorry lol) wants to go and he is a friend of ours close, because he will follow his child to be with him to raise him!
now that's fine so now it's me lil bro his mrs and our mate in the house tops 4 bedroom place until he's on his feet and leave's wich is fine
but NOW my lil brothers girlfriends mother wants to move into the adelaide house with us with her daughters kid and her own son for 2 months until she can find a place to live, now even up until recently i was weary about the mother not wanting to leave or refusing and then taking over the house-hold and being top mum all over again!
so my question is what do you think i should do?
it's such a hard thing to deal with!
as until just now when i learnt of what's going on in that house there i was bareable to the idea but now i stricktly refuse to have the mother there AT ALL!
am i such a dick for doing that though?
ow and the mother has taken away all my lil bro's money and his g/f's money so they can survive once thier here, but i know they arent' getting that money back because the mother doesn't want her to leave!
now since my lil brother and this girl are so close and so in-love i dare say there going to get married sooner or later, by the looks of it only a matter of time, so then that make's this woman (the mother) mother in law :/
so that take's away allot of say i have in the matter because everybody's trying to tred carefully, in all honesty i just said if she isn't out i'm calling the cops but hey aparently i'm not suppose to do that either!
i really need your opinions on this matter people! HELP :/
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