Congratulations...you did and do deserve the opportunity that could in some circles be described as a bad thing that happened to you.
i did'nt include this in the main document as follows
but is it not so that in a unified universe we are at one with the perperators. they offer the gift of experience and learning as we offer ourselves unto them as a gift of experience and potential learning.a mutual and consensual arrangment to evolve and resolve.
dont reach for fair it is not there. unless you see the balance of many lives unfolding . then fair is certainly the result eventually. regardless.. fair or not,... reach for care.... it will be there, being served coctails by its FAIR servant.
everyone has perpetrated too ...namaste
this is the main document
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YOU DESERVE BAD THINGS TO HAPPEN TO YOU
You deserve the bad things that happen to you. I mean every bad thing. Even the worst and most horribly bad things, even if you were an innocent little kid when they happened, are things that you deserve.
This sounds like a pretty harsh statement but I believe that “truth is what’s useful”. My apparently brutal message is that a seamless acceptance of your personal responsibility to thrive in the face of challenge is a profoundly powerful opportunity and must therefore be considered the useful truth.
If you aim to blame you’re stuck in the midst of a sick sorry game that only serves to manifest more powerlessness and pain. Accepting 100% of the responsibility for your place in the bad space doesn’t let anyone off the hook but you. According to this logic all the other participants are 100% responsible too.
Every person, including you, is responsible for their self-identity. In every challenging situation you must always make one of the following three choices. You choose either to identify as a victim, a survivor, or a learner.
If your choice is victim you remain beneath the power of the perpetrator long after the actual crime. Remaining locked in a dark dank dungeon as you endlessly bewail your plaintive innocence to your imaginary guard.
A better choice is as survivor but there are compromises to encounter. The survivor leaves the crime scene with their exhausted arms and armour always up, scarred by fearful expectations, finding shadowy foes to fight.
The true choice is to be and see that you’re a learner. Learners find the side door to the situation that leads straight to sunshine and freedom sooner, and then safely they never look back.
You deserve all your difficulties since you’re ultimately a learner. Thrive in the knowledge that nothing bad can actually occur since every experience is a gift that makes you as you are: stronger, wiser and ever more human.
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I don't agree with your sentiment... but I do think that every "bad" experience that does happen to us allows us the opportunity to grow if we have that opportunity and can allow something good to be created within ourselves.
There has been huge amounts of "injustice" that has happened on this planet, and to say those people deserved it, is a total injustice for the suffering they endured, and a vindication for every violent human that did these horrible acts.
It is not a matter of deserving delilah. it is a matter of accountability for ones life.
There is a difference. Accountability allows the potential to change your circumstances. We are all equally empowered in that way. Some people have it easier. Some harder. It is a planet of free choice. and we all have the ability to choose better for ourselves.
It's fine to take accountability for your life, but you can not take accountability for someone else's actions against you...
And you don't "deserve" all the bad things that happen to you -- sure you can make something positive out of the situation - but that doesn't mean you or anyone else "deserve" the bad things that happen to them...
That's just my perspective ~
This channeling by Kryon may give you an insight into how I see life.
http://audio.kryon.com/en/Cruise%20Day%202.mp3
I think the best way to describe it is,
I AM not accountable for others actions.
I AM accountable for mine.
This is the power I have. Because when I make different choices, Everyone in my universe has to do the same to fall into line with mine.
I pattern that I came to realize was that the more don't take heed of the warning signs and continue to act in the same way, the more the universe ups the ante on you, the more it slaps you around. We have free choice to choose against our path. And our path has free choose to drag us back in the direction of it. I believe that if you continue to disregard the warning signals, your higher self will continue to up the ante on you. Even creating the circumstances for an untimely death. Your higher self does not want for you to suffer. However its primary goal is that you learn the lessons and become compassionate. The hardships of life are merely a means of teachings compassion.
This is my experience of life.
This is my truth.
namaste.
I believe that my energy attracted that which "has happened to me". The birds of a feather principle applies.
If I had made different decisions in my life I would not have been subject to those actions. the fact that those actions kept happening tells me I must be attracting it in some way
Now that my life has turned around and I AM attracting things that are wonderful I AM still accountable for what happens to me. The only thing that has changed is what I attract. My approach to life has remained the same. This is what co creation is all about Delilah, I can proudly claim to have used the Law of Attraction, amongst others things, to turn my life around. And now I have momentum. And things are changing so rapidly for me that I can barely keep up.
Howveve the hard work was down in the first 12 years where I consistently applied a principle I knew nothing about to get seemingly no results. I could feel small changes on the inside. But on the outside it was business as usual. It took a decision of pure intent to start ti manifest the changes in the real world, And even that has taken another 8 years.
I now have unshakable faith. I believe everything is possible.
It is not a sentiment Delilah.
It is how I have lived my life for over 20 years.
It is this fundamental belief that has allowed me to turn my life around.
Regardless of my experience I always look for the positive aspect. Always. And I don't stop until I find it.That is a choice. And it has served me well.
when I was young, I heard a story about a Rabi that had been a prisoner of war during ww2. After the war hey were interviewing him and in the interview he spoke of the tortures that he had to endure. One of the tortures was the nazis' cut off his genitals and made him eat them. The shocked reporter asked the rabi how he felt he said he thanked God that his balls tasted so good. That is power. That story imprinted itself on my unconscious.
Contrary to what Orion warrior may believe, I have lived my own personal nightmare and I came within minutes of taking my own life 8 years ago. I was at a poinr of change or end it, I can't live like this anymore. That is when my life truly started to turn around,.When I exercised free choice to do things differently to what I had always done in the past.
Thats 20 years of running on faith. trusting in a principle that I couldn't see working. And I have taught this to friends.who have used it to turn their worlds around.
Namaste
I infuse my every decision and action with the intention of greater love.
I leave you with just one Episode of "Unsolved Mysteries" to see just one horrible thing that happened that did not have to...
You're stating nonsense here, individual.
You never went through a real suffering, that's why you speak so easily.
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