In Circle_Of_Divine_Light@yahoogroups.com, Daknee Kabre wrote:>> Michelle who wrote this?> Â>> From: Michelle> To: Circle_Of_Divine_Light@yahoogroups.com> Sent: Thursday, September 1, 2011 11:50 AM> Subject: [Circle_Of_Divine_Light] Becoming Your Wrong Decisions> We are not our decisions and no decision is wrong because we made the choice with the information at hand.>> Our perception of the traits and characteristics that make us who we are is often tightly intertwined with how we live our life. We define ourselves in terms of the roles we adopt, our actions and inactions, our triumphs, and what we think are failures. As a result it is easy to identify so strongly with a decision that has resulted in unexpected negative consequences that we actually become that "wrong" decision. The disappointment and shame we feel when we make what we perceive as a mistake grows until it becomes a dominant part of our identities. We rationalize our "poor" decisions by labeling ourselves incompetent decision-makers. However, your true identity cannot be defined by your choices. Your essenceâ€"what makes you a unique entityâ€"exists independently of your decision-making process.>> There are no true right or wrong decisions. All decisions contribute to your development and are an integral part of your evolving existence yet they are still separate from the self. A decision that does not result in its intended outcome is in no way an illustration of character. Still, it can have dire effects on our ability to trust ourselves and our self-esteem. You can avoid becoming your decisions by affirming that a "bad decision" was just an experience, and next time you can choose differently. Try to avoid lingering in the past and mulling over the circumstances that led to your perceived error in judgment. Instead, adapt to the new circumstances you must face by considering how you can use your intelligence, inner strength, and intuition to aid you in moving forward more mindfully. Try not to entirely avoid thinking about the choices you have made, but reflect on the consequences of your decision from a rational rather than an emotional> standpoint. Strive to under! stand why you made the choice you did, forgive yourself, and then move forward.>> A perceived mistake becomes a valuable learning experience and is, in essence, a gift to learn and grow from. You are not a bad person and you are not your decisions; you are simply human.>

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  • actually it is in your mistakes that makes you a great person for why would you be sent to earth if you were not sick.

     

    you become your own saviour, yes it is through your own decisions, right or wrong.

     

    but it is a gift to yourself from the wrongs that occured to you for it is this your greatest lessons will be accomplished. Mistakes is a blessing not a curse....

     

     

  • Well, Master... I do agree it's all a learning experience...

    I was thinking more about people who decide to hurt someone, that decision can ruin someone's life, and the lives of the people who love them.  There are very clear right and wrong decisions people can make in this life.

    Every good thing we decide to do, changes this world for the better, more than we know, and yes sometimes we make mistakes, it's what we do with those experiences that count, it we choose to learn from them and become a better person, that is also a great experience.

    If we don't choose to learn, then it can cause more pain for us in this life...
  • I don't agree with all of this. ~

    There are very clear "right and wrong" decisions in this life.
     

    And, you are very much a part of the decisions you make.  

    Your decisions can change you (or other people) forever, in good or bad ways.

    To say that you aren't your decisions, is diconnecting yourself from the ownership of your your actions.  Each of us must be held accountable for our actions.  Our decisions are a profound part of what we become in the future.

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