Sex ia not simply doing sexual acts from kissing to screwing.
It is caused by strong forces and causes strong forces.
It is moving on personal levels and can affect social levels.
Sexual forces have both caring and destructive abilities.
Sex is a main force urging humans to move.
Now the personal effects sexuality is causing depend on the kind of personal develpoment.
Curious persons with a high grade of openness to others tend to enjoy sex as tool of feeling common senses and experiences of healing the separate.
Narrow minded persons of fear tend to consider themselves as victims of whatever. They must fight for all including sex. They become often jealous of people having easygoing sex.
In times of war and similar conflicts male soldiers often rape women. The pattern is this:
1. The coward man, seeing himself as victim, is treating women as "thing" thus taking from her what he normally is missing alot - sex.
2. The low esteem man will find dignity and self esteem in a uniform - the military gives him manhood. A strong man is a sexual man, and the gun becomes his surrogate penis. With this mighty penis he is going to show his power by killing and defeating women by raping them. It is often observed, that soldiers rape women and leave them pregnant - the weak man has spread his semen being considered as mighty deed of a real man.
3. Military becomes the (mainly) male gang of many weak characters. War, killing and raping becomes a mark of a supposed power and strength. Thus it will lead the weak ones to more desaster. It is often observed, that veterans have a high suicide rate, a google research will reveal shocking numbers.
4. War experiences can create rough sexual behaviours. Women of such soldiers often report of hard sexual practices they have not known before. Such women often do not understand the mental backround pointing to sense finding in being a strong man who has killed by a gun in a big gang of uniforms.
5. A side effect: even the non military ones struggle with sense finding and self esteem - they often try to find it also via sexuality in thinking, a good fuck makes a strong man. Many men look for other penis surrogates - cars, muscles, bald heads, big mouth, money, influence, positions etc.
Each sunday I go to dinner in a pub right around the corner. There is also an old guy of 88, he served under Hitler in heavy battles.
He has still military behaviour and short, but sharp talking attitudes. He often tells of those battles like a strong man. He killed many enemies in close combat.
I asked him of his dreams, and he suddenly begun to cry. You know, he said, I`m still dreaming almost every night from that shit.
Yeah, right, after more than 60 years.
PS: Short before my grandfather died, he told me from the burden he had to carry all his life.
When he was imprisoned by the Russians, the Americans came to Germany after the war.
An officer and a couple of soldiers had a shelter in his house.
His wife, my grandma, was with 2 kids and her stepmother living there.
It took not 3 days, that the officer forced my grandma to sleep with him.
His gun he took visibly right besides the bed.
When he was imprisoned by the Russians, the Americans came to Germany after the war.
An officer and a couple of soldiers had a shelter in his house.
His wife, my grandma, was with 2 kids and her stepmother living there.
It took not 3 days, that the officer forced my grandma to sleep with him.
His gun he took visibly right besides the bed.
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