i have 2 amazing sons and another "adopted" son. however, the one i am writing about today is 15 years old, going on 25. he has always presented a challenge for my ex-husband and i, but recently it has begun to take a toll. the long-and-the-short of it is that he makes a choice every day, to be miserable. there are many reasons for this and we have exhausted our intellect, creativity and savings trying to provide him with every kind of support imaginable. but still, he chooses to embrace low vibrational behaviors and is resistent to anything that might introduce more light into his life. i love him unconditionally, but that doesn't necessisarily make it easy to be around him. we do sometimes have absolutely wonderful, thought provoking discussions, but those are far outnumbered by his complaints and explosive outbursts. this child is very much like i was as a child, so i can easily relate to many of his issues and i recognize that he will have to find his own path. but in the meantime, i think i may lose my mind. (i tell him that cubs like him are the reason some mother lions eat their young.....lol)
i understand that, as our own vibrational frequency rises, often we find that many of our friends will change (as in, persue a course that is different from ours). however, my question would be about what happens when our children persue a different course.
Has anyone else encountered this?