Why, when not agreeing with someone, or something, do we get the reaction:
"YOU ARE FULL OF FEAR!"
Why does it always have to come down to this one word?
Only the person in question knows if they are in fear or not, so for someone else to say this to them is a judgement, and an unfair one!
It seems there are two words very over used on this site, Love and Fear.
It always has to be one or the other, why can it not be a happy medium, or neither?
People are always going on about living in duality, and not wanting to live in duality, so then why always use dualistic words like Love and fear, isn't that just prolonging the dualistic world?
Like people are always saying, you create your own world, so again, using these words, just creates more of the same???
So am i asking in a love or fear based manner?
Or am i simply just asking?
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I think it depends on what you're talking about, but to me I don't feel any fear in your statements, I do feel that you have conflicts with what some people believe in. Which makes sense, we are all separate beings with unique experiences.
I think sometimes we project the "conflict" within ourselves out into the world, or onto others.
If you want, you can see the conflict in situations or turn them into opportunities to learn something.
We may not always believe the same things, but just because we don't agree doesn't mean fear is the reason (although it can be sometimes). I think keeping yourself open to learning something new, or just breaking out of your state of mind, can be really liberating.
Emotions break down into different energies, I would suggest staying as positive as you can, with yourself and others.
Compassion also plays into it as well.