Energetic "Lock" On Chats And Other Social Situations

Hi Loves, I wanted to bring up a concern I have about the chat and some thoughts about what we can learn from that. I do have a lot of concerns and thoughts, if I were to paraphrase one of our old friends, at this moment "I am the one who worries", lol. But it's also because I am the one who cares as well, plus all those other things that I Am, so yeah :)Have you ever sat and watched the chat before, reacted to it? I know we all have done this at one time or another, but most of the time it is just seeing if the water's right for us, seeing if a friend is on, etc. Have you noticed, and perhaps all of this is "just my perception", how the feelings and thoughts you have influence the energy of the chat? Have you also noticed how when somebody comes into the "room", it changes the flow as well, sometimes even without their saying anything? This is something I first began to see in dance situations at bars: There are the people who come to drink, the people who come to dance, and then this odd section of people who seem to like to watch the people dance and scowl at them. It's so obvious in a situation like that: You have a handful of people, most of whom are dancing, and a few others who really do not look happy (even though they do seem to be drinking, lol). In our day and age and society, it's not really going to work to simply walk up to those people and ask them to stop putting that energy into the "dance floor". I'm imagining doing that right now and it's pretty hilarious. What usually seems to work best is to just dance like crazy, "break the floor", and at a certain point those people shake their heads and go home.But honestly, for our purposes here, and especially because we do not have the benefit of body language to express the subtelties of our feelings, I think we need to be clear about what we are feeling when it comes to the energies in the chats. It is so easy for misunderstandings to occur, and people take offense so easily at the smallest things, it seems at first like the only solution is to either "walk on eggshells" or to make everything a joke so that "it's all in good fun". We know that niether works well if at all. Usually I just don't use the chats anymore at all, it's gotten so odd or fake or both, and I think that's sad. So again we are drawn back to the age-old technique of open, honest, and clear communication of our feelings. It's not as much fun or as pleasant, but it does seem to work if everyone agrees on it.I do want to communicate to certain individuals directly that we don't appreciate the energies that are being "put into" our chat. There are people who will think this message is just for them, but if my perception is correct you are not the only one who is thinking that: It's a "no brainer" that people will want to keep an eye on this site, given what it represents, but it's easy enough to keep energies to yourself. That's my request from you, in love, is if you must observe, do so as you would observe your own beingness and let us play together here. To the "ashtar crew", you know the deal, and I hope you do lol. As many of you know, most of the "inactive" people you see in chat are merely online doing whatever and don't realize or care that they are listed as online in the chat, so we can't go harrassing people or insinuating things or whatever, that's just more gunk in the works. Witch-hunting is something I think a lot of you remember and not as a positive memory right lol. Honesty and clarity, sharing who we really are, that should be enough. Dance your own dance, like Ram Dass said, and it won't matter who's watching, or who's dancing whatever "crazy" dance they love eh?Thank you who have read this, I feel family here. I think maybe you remember me, and I'm slowly starting to remember you, and myself too, and how we are the same "entity", for lack of better words :) It's an intense process, to say the least, and I'm glad you are consciously sharing it with me and I'm not just a "nutter" lol. I'm grateful for your patience and forgiveness with me, it helps me to feel that for myself and hence for all beings, you know, "that old chestnut". Always be real with me regardless of what that means for my ego or yours, tell me how you feel, and I promise I'll do the same thing. You may have to remind me that you're being direct, we're all learning, but do remind me if you feel you need to.It would sound strange almost anywhere else, but I can feel love from the future, and I return it infinitely in this moment. Namaste in every sense of the word~

Hey J~ ... thanks for sharing something that seems pretty important to you :)

I do agree with you on most of the points so it won't take long - I think the people you're aiming at ( the ones who observe chatrooms and sometimes drop some crappy words ) are indeed the 'observers' in nightclubs and it's somehow easier to release frustrations here on chatrooms as you know. When these people seems to own an important part of the Main Energy of the place just don't go in opposition, don't play the game of fear, just keep cool hehe ;) ... low energies can lower down even more quickly than others when being 'tickled'

It reminds me of a sort of metal concert some years ago, one guy in the audience was so pissed for some reason he kept yelling at the band, making both the musicians and the rest of the audience really pissed - you may imagine that at some point the singer/leader took his mic and asked this bunch of long haired to kick this guy's ass but he just said "ok guys, give him a hug, this man needs love". I can't tell if he felt better after that but at least he shut the hell up :p.

Another thought ... you said we sometimes "are just checking if the water's right for us" ... well, I believe we should never do that ;) we should just jump just everytime ! The exact same way you go dancing without paying much attention to the people around. Remember, you make 'things' exist when you focus on them, be assured the water is always good for you and jump, head first !!

That being said, i'm just meaning that we shouldn't give too much importance to any kind of buzz-killers ;) ... these specimens are only mistaking the attention they're getting from being assholes for '~Love~' ... EVERYONE wanna be loved, so when they feel the rule for being love is not to hurt people because they're ignoring you ... they kinda change ...

I really want to thank you again for the honnesty of your post, i can feel you really have everyone's best interest at heart. Good luck pal !

Kolia

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J~{Shaar'Ah'Ai'La}~ May 23, 2009 at 4:58pm

Thank you for the comments, these are the sort of thoughts I had hoped to share. I know I'm the eternal optimist, but I think things can improve here. I agree that Ben's detatchment is frustrating sometimes, and that some of the vibration here doesn't feel very good. Honestly I had always felt this as a vehicle for connection, just like any other gathering point. So there are some serious issues, and often times there isn't much to do except notice they are there and act accordingly. For example it does seem as if we will have to set the energetic tone of the site ourselves, and there is not any kind of "ruling council" that is going to set that up, as is done on some other sites. I think simply having this kind of talk does influence that energy. Thank you all again for giving me space to voice this :) ~
n.franelle May 22, 2009 at 12:51pm

Hey J~ ... thanks for sharing something that seems pretty important to you :)

I do agree with you on most of the points so it won't take long - I think the people you're aiming at ( the ones who observe chatrooms and sometimes drop some crappy words ) are indeed the 'observers' in nightclubs and it's somehow easier to release frustrations here on chatrooms as you know. When these people seems to own an important part of the Main Energy of the place just don't go in opposition, don't play the game of fear, just keep cool hehe ;) ... low energies can lower down even more quickly than others when being 'tickled'

It reminds me of a sort of metal concert some years ago, one guy in the audience was so pissed for some reason he kept yelling at the band, making both the musicians and the rest of the audience really pissed - you may imagine that at some point the singer/leader took his mic and asked this bunch of long haired to kick this guy's ass but he just said "ok guys, give him a hug, this man needs love". I can't tell if he felt better after that but at least he shut the hell up :p.

Another thought ... you said we sometimes "are just checking if the water's right for us" ... well, I believe we should never do that ;) we should just jump just everytime ! The exact same way you go dancing without paying much attention to the people around. Remember, you make 'things' exist when you focus on them, be assured the water is always good for you and jump, head first !!

That being said, i'm just meaning that we shouldn't give too much importance to any kind of buzz-killers ;) ... these specimens are only mistaking the attention they're getting from being assholes for '~Love~' ... EVERYONE wanna be loved, so when they feel the rule for being love is not to hurt people because they're ignoring you ... they kinda change ...

I really want to thank you again for the honnesty of your post, i can feel you really have everyone's best interest at heart. Good luck pal !

Kolia

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