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                John Jancar > 1loi1i9evzzvt February 4, 2012 at 8:15am

                Well April, I just think you're far too worldly. And it doesn't matter to me what everybody does. I mean we're living on Earth lol If everyone does it, most likely there's something wrong with it lol

                I don't care if this is the norm in society, or if this is society's image of what a relationship is supposed to be. I'm into spirituality, into the divine....and the divine is something most humans have no real idea about, so who would just look at what humans do, and say....well that's how it's supposed to be, that's normal. I mean seriously lol

                You're far too worldly for me. Again I'm into the divine. Being divine and living in a life that is divine. And sure sex has its place, and is a beautiful thing when there's true divine love involved....but to have sex every night...there is something impure and unbalanced about that to me.

                And I'm very good with sensing energy, and I don't sense any real divinity at all coming from this, from you. This has little to do with divine love or tantric sex and all that stuff, and everything to do with just having pleasure. This is about being attached and addicted to the pleasure associated with sex. That's what I sense from you, and I'm sure that's the case.
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                3hjwobrkznupo > 1loi1i9evzzvt February 4, 2012 at 7:24am

                April.. I didn't know u were married to Flash Gordon!  He's a superhero with godlike sperm so OF COURSE he'll feel good after he busts one out...
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              3hjwobrkznupo > John Jancar February 4, 2012 at 3:33am

              John.. hats off to you for being in a relationship like that man.. And i agree with u 100%. April and most of the females on this site should live in a nunnery!! hehe
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                John Jancar > 3hjwobrkznupo February 4, 2012 at 6:19am

                Well thanks Darlok, I appreciate that.....it's a very sweet relationship...it's very child like....but also mature. To me, it's pure..it's divine. It's not like most relationships out there in society, or the image that society molds for what a relationship should be. And I agree, I think most females period, and most males too, should practice a bit more celibacy lol Males are even worse than females. I mean it's just sex sex sex all over the place. Does purity mean nothing anymore? lol
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                1loi1i9evzzvt > 3hjwobrkznupo February 4, 2012 at 4:14am

                At least, you Darlok, agree then with Jancar on almost everything he has said about females on here. Congrats. People who are in a relationship or even a non relationship whatever the case maybe, have the right to do whatever they want to do in the private of there homes, and it isn't up to other people to judge.

                I will say this though, Most females get this way, because men today don't treat the ladies right, and its men like Jancar and yourself that females feel low about who they are, because they feel guilty to have that kind of relationship with the man that they deserve, who treats them right 

                Bless the Nite,

                April
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                  3hjwobrkznupo > 1loi1i9evzzvt February 4, 2012 at 7:19am

                  April it is not a man's job to inflate their woman's ego.. And it seems like that is exactly what girls want, someone to stroke their ego by constantly telling/reminding them how pretty and beautiful they are; by showering them with presents and all kinds of other bs. 

                  A woman.. A REAL WOMAN should be a sovereign independent  being and stand on her own 2 feet. *Not necessarily financially, but emotionally/physically&mentally.  She shouldn't rely on a man to complete her!!  Same goes for a real man!

                  When 2 people like that, find each other their relationship is effortless!  U see these jokers everywhere on tv, magazines etc.. saying a relationship requires work and sacrifices!  That's NOT TRUE!  It does not, or at least it shouldn't!  A relationship with 2 people who have found the identity within the greater whole (universe/god) and are authentically in love with one another are truly blessed! and their relationship not only lasts in the physical 3d, but endures forever! :) 

                  Unfortunately very few ppl are in these types of relationships because no one takes the time to find out who they are!!
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        1loi1i9evzzvt > Pichu February 3, 2012 at 6:22pm

        Exactly Pichu, I'm glad that someone else had spoken up about this, because this was the point I was trying to make when it had come to Sex and orgasm's. It's different for everyone, and not everyone gets all tense up while doing this. For some it is the opposite like you had said.

        To each there own on this, and everyone feels something different, and just because one person feels another way about, doesn't make them more or less Spiritually Advanced 

        Bless the Nite,

        April 
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      1loi1i9evzzvt > John Jancar February 2, 2012 at 7:13am

      You shouldn't be doing it at all Jancar, if you don't like the idea of orgasm's. You should just leave it alone, and not make anyone around you suffer, because you don't like the feel of it, and you tense up or whatever the case being, then leave it alone, and let it be.

      People have a right to do whatever they wish to do with there own lives and Sexuality things, but to make other people around you suffer, especially when you are in a relationship, that is just wrong 

      It isn't even fair to the partner you are with, to be doing things like that, if you don't like the feel of having intercourse like that

      I know there are some out there that really do leave the whole sexual thing alone, and I can have much greater respect for a person that does that, then to have this whole idea of sex as a cat and mouse game with a partner 

      All mind games, and it isn't healthy in a relationship to be like that either 

      Mind Games 

      Bless the Nite,

      April 
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        John Jancar > 1loi1i9evzzvt February 2, 2012 at 7:48am

        Well I don't understand why you say that, I've explained over and over again to you, that me and my girlfriend have a relationship that isn't based on sex all that much. She is a very loving and sweet girl, very pure and innocent..and she didn't even plan to have sex before she was married. Yes she's that type of girl. And our relationship is very loving and sweet, it's pure and innocent, it's very child like....and to me, it's divine, it's real. We don't have the typical relationship that people usually have in society, ours is very much of the heart, and it's very pure and sweet.

        Sex just isn't a very important part of our relationship. Yes we have sex, but not all the time, every now and then. But it's not something that we need to do. It's just not a big part of our relationship, our relationship is more pure than that. And as for Kenya, well sure...there was temptation there...but I discipline myself. I want to be pure so I don't give in to it.

        See that's what you guys do, you just give in to your sexual cravings, and say how it's a natural instinct and it's so important to you and you shouldn't repress it. Well not everyone is like that.

        Children aren't like that lol Children don't even have sexual cravings. They are more pure than that. Like when I was a little kid and I had a crush on a girl, there was no sexual feelings at all. It was pure, it was innocent, it was sweet....it was a real type of love. What you guys do isn't love, okay. You forgot what love really is. And if you want to test how much you truly love your partner, try imagining what it would be like if you completely eliminated sex from your relationship.

        Remember lust is not love, I don't care how much you want to make it so, it isn't. Lust is just a perversion of what real love is supposed to be.
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          1loi1i9evzzvt > John Jancar February 2, 2012 at 8:02am

          Jancar, you aren't a child though anymore. You are a grown person with real feelings, I mean sure we have inner child behavior like, but you aren't a Child anymore. It is always fun to go back to when we were young, and the things we did as a child. The truth is though, we can't get that fully back to ourselves, because we are growing up in the 3D world we are living. I wish I could tell you that we are always going to be a Child and pure with innocent like tendency, but the truth is we aren't.

          We are going to be making mistakes, and even children Jancar make mistakes, which is why some want to grow up fast, so they can learn from those mistakes. I mean we are only a child once Jancar, and then we get into our Teen years, and how many would want to go back to when we were a Teen back then lol. I know I wouldn't lol

          I mean sure it was fun while it lasted, but living with Gordon now, and having the life style we have, is where I would exactly want to be. 

          I mean you can't play games in the 3D, like Cops and Robbers, where you are the Robber, and the Cop gets you. You can't do that when you are an adult. When you are the adult in the 3D, you have to take the blame for your actions, because they are bigger problems then just playing games like Cops and Robbers. I'm just saying here by the way as an example 

          It's a harsh world out there Jancar, and I wish we all could say otherwise, but it is a cruel world at times, and it can also be the most amazing thing, if u let it be that way

          Think of it like this. Your Inner Child is awaiting for you on your journey, and wants you to merge with the Adult side of you when awaken your Soul essences of being an adult. 

          No you don't have to have sex in order to do this, but I'm saying that if you don't like it or the idea of it, then leave it be 

          Just skip that part of your life, and become one with your true nature being of who you are inside 

          Bless the Nite,

          April