I have noticed that over the past few years this site is changing. What started out as a supportive place and blessed beacon of true community. Its changing now the original people who were on here 2 years ago are real lightworkers and there was a sense of community and support. Now it seems people have used this site as a place to argue and fight with one another and create psycho spiritual sexual dramas and disagreements. I am not your judge and I dont decide who can say what. Nor do i decide who is a valuable member of this community. However slander and negativity is not helping anyone.
We all go through it and I have probably said one or two things on here in the past that were not the highest expression of Love however this constant bickering and slander is weak hearted and schwag it messes up the site. 1. If you cant say anything nice it may be better not to respond.
2. When you read a post or disagree with someone on here, take a step back
ask yourself Is it benifecial for me to ignore this or create more drama by feeding negative drama on here? Take a deep breath ask yourself is this emotion going to hellp anyone.
3. Does slander help anyone ? The obvious answer is no!
4. People push our buttons however we choose to be the bigger person and not feed the flames of unkind of nasty words.
5. This was not a problem 2 or 3 years ago as this site has many new members. I am glad it is growing however Please everyone keep it clean. The older members of this forum know what I am saying.
Don't feed the trolls please! This is not a high school locker room this is not a soap opera this is not a popularity contest or a place where you come to insult one another. It is a place of Peace and knowledge Lets respect it as such and leave the nasty comments and slander off this site. Okay
Peace and Blessings
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That's because we have an unusual number of Trolls and Darkworkers here, that Ben somehow decided to let in, and when they post things we actually give them the time of day.
That's why I recently told Ben to also protect the site with Violet Flame, because that will get rid of the parasites.
well stated.
trolls seem to like conflict, gives them a sense of power even if it is to hurt someone.
they are in pain in what runs thru their minds like a broken record: fears, pobias, shyness of not feeling equal, etc. i too at times have my programing from a childhood events pop up to the surface, to be faced and lived thru until resolved.
blessings to all of us for we are all one
Great post sagitarius13 : )
Thanks for pointing out that AC is meant to be supportive! You echoed my sentiments exactly (I recently posted the discussion 'Comments On Ashtar Command-Useful Info Or Negative Mud-slinging?').
We need to get along with eachother if we want World Peace!
Let's all be friends: )
I am a new member so do not have the experiences that you have, but I just wanted to say it is very wise words of advice. If we react on something another person have written it is really something within us we need to look at and acting out our 'anger' on other's words will not help solve what created the anger within us in the first place.
So I just want to add
6. If you disagree and feel a strong emotion look within your self first, solve what created the reaction and then re-read the post. You may find that what you read the first time is now altered in your mind, and it is not quite as effensive as you first took it. You may even find that you no longer have a need to respond and react.
Good post Sag ~
I think it's extremely important to stay respectful to each other, even when we don't agree, and this is something that I work on constantly. Often times, people will do and say things, and they have no idea how that will effect someone else.... but these are the times we live in, the very fabric of reality is being ripped apart and becoming something else.
There is a basic "respect" that many people won't offer to someone they don't agree with, and that is the core of why I think things tend to spiral down into something that ends up being more destructive than constructive.
If at all possible, we should always try to lift each other up in some way, and if we totally and utterly disagree with something then it may be better to say nothing at all. If someone attacks someone you care about or something you care about that's when the real issues seem to come up.
Again, it goes back to a basic respect.
I think that in the future, as a "galactic" consciousness, this will be something that isn't an issue, because we will have moved past these differences and into growing and learning in constructive ways. I look forward to that day, and am always working to bring it sooner than later :-)
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