Transmuting from Forgiveness
July 11, 2015
Forgiveness is a very powerful action that is generated from the heart and provides incredible healing attributes to your functioning mind and aids to your spiritual growth. There are people that move away from forgiveness due to their ego getting in the way. Forgiveness is not about condoning what has occurred. Forgiveness means that you have enough love inside of you that you refuse to allow the venomous grip of anger and hatred to prevent you from moving forward.
It does no good to any part of you to carry resentments towards any one person, place or thing. So many people still consider the act of forgiveness as an act of weakness, but that concept of thought couldn’t be further from the truth. To forgive someone’s inappropriate behaviour, actions, words or choices concludes that you have enough love inside of you to heal yourself past such events so the pain and discomfort will diminish into nothing and you will grow from the experience as your wisdom expands from the knowledge you gained.
Being able to forgive someone is a strength that is admirable and each of you has the power to forgive. The suffering that you may have endured isn’t meant for you to hang onto permanently. The dear souls who cannot forgive, is because they don’t want to forgive. It is vitally important to be able to step up and forgive what has happened and let the animosity and negative feelings go in favour of love, healing and moving on. It is important to remember as you are healing and moving through a troubling situation…everything is temporary. Changes come when you allow them and you have the ability to transform yourself through the power and transmutation of forgiveness.
When you make the choice to forgive, to let go of any lingering resentment, anger or bitterness, you are not doing this necessarily for the other person, but for your Self. It takes great COURAGE, inner strength and maturity to step up and forgive. When you give yourself the love that you surely need in order to heal past any painful situation, then you are giving yourself a most amazing gift of life that encourages a new you to be reborn from the experience. Forgiveness fosters change and when you change, you are letting go of what is old for what is new. Every day dear ones you are given opportunities to be reborn and through each situation you are encouraged to listen to your heart and not follow the trickster ego.
If you ever question why you need to forgive and let go so you can finally find peace of mind and bring yourself into a happier state, think about moving beyond your hurt-felt ordeal…how good it will feel to move your whole self beyond the dragging feelings of sadness, anger and frustration and to bask in the sunny rays of light and love. Deep down dear ones, you know hanging on to what is no longer serving you is only hurting you more. Forgiveness and letting go is power and the first person to benefit from such power is you.
The moment you let go of old grudges and animosities, you find yourself filling up with peace and all feelings of resentment seem to disintegrate. Tuning in to the moment as you let go, is when you begin to heal. You will know when it is the right time to forgive, and not only to forgive the other person, but to forgive yourself for allowing such a devastation to take place. When you accept accountability for your part and are willing to let go of all that has happened so you can healthily move on, than you and your life will definitely begin to change.
Did you know dear ones, that when you forgive completely, you are then giving yourself permission to live life copiously? It is important to keep in mind that most people do not go around with the intention to hurt someone. Even if they are mad and angry with the world, that doesn’t mean they want to cause harm. Sometimes, people are given situations they do not know how to handle and they react and act out. This does not mean you are to condone what they have done, it just means though you are not allowing their actions or behaviour to alter the course of your life or change your level of happiness.
Everyone has been both the recipient and the giver of meanness, frustration, anger, hostility and upset. As you continue on your amazing journey, try to keep in mind that everyone that crosses your path is doing the best they can from what they know to get on with life. No one person’s way is perfect. Flaws are everywhere. But when you are able to view every situation and the people that come with them as being valuable teachers that offer important life lessons, then you begin learning and mastering more things about yourself that perhaps were weak and needed your attention. There is no need to be bitter in life when you can let bygones be bygones and let go for the sake of your overall health.
You know everything is about choices. You can choose to move on and be happy or choose and be miserable due to an upsetting circumstance. Only you can make the choice to hang tightly to resentments that waste your precious time and energy or to breathe deeply and choose the lighter option and to let go of everything that no longer serves a higher purpose and to enjoy a peace-filled mind and allow happiness to be your priority.
And so it is…
I AM Elohim Arcturus through Julie Miller