When you are secure with who you are

It doesn’t matter what others’ choose to do with their lives

It keeps you busy with your own issues

Eventually you’ll be content with what it is you have

You don’t need to really bother with other people

They don’t need you to fix them

They don’t need your quest for rightness

When you come to an issue

With the mindset of right and wrong

You are usually in the wrong

You are wrong because you are coming not to seek solution
You are coming to an issue to feed your ego

This is misleading since group meetings

Are sought to bring solutions to problems

This makes the whole situation counterproductive

When you balance your mind with your heart

The irrational and rational need not matter

When you try to apply mind to a heart matter

You will end up frustrated and at odds with one another

Heart matters deal with all those things that moves our heart

The mind can’t reason heart matters

Your heart tries to understand emotions and spirit

Your mind tries to dissect everything into black or white

When you are handed a gray issue

Using your mind alone leads to different forms of violence

When you know yourself, your aren’t mind dominated

You will work to balance all aspects of yourself

Only then when you come together will you be productive