I'm going to get on my soap box here so forgive me. But the discussion title is pretty clear.
You create your own destiny. You want something go get it. Don't wait for it to come to because you might be there a really long time. Believe me been there done that before my awakening and it is not pretty. I had a time where I truly hated myself that I felt I had done nothing right. But as I got just a little older the more I woke up and was like no this is not how life has to be.
One topic I can talk about here is relationships. 2 things I wanted most in my life growing up was to find the one for me and to have a family. Constantly praying wanting and so on. Being an angelic human you can see how that didn't turn out so hot at first. But now that I look back on it. I can say this. If you are in a bad relationship its because you choose to stay there and not change things. For if you really want things to work you'll make them work. And if it just seriously not going to work then you move on. Find someone more deserving of you for a life partner. If your staying in a relationship to help the other person but you know its not going anywhere. That's not good love. Move on. It gets to the point where you are hindering that person more than helping. Other than my husband I only dated 4 other guys. All long lasting relationships that I stayed in because I was trying to help them and let them know that they were love, and also I didn't want to be alone. One thing that I figured out quite well is the thing we here so much today. Manifest your counterpart. Write down on a peace of paper what you want in your partner fold it put it in between under your pillow. Each day when you get up or night when you go to bed read what you wrote. Believe that you have it already. I eventually found my husband. A couple years ago it was rocky. Not because of us but because of me. I was putting a strain on our marriage without really realizing it. Feeling that it wasn't working I was bored blah blah. But I wasn't changing anything. I can say here this is when I was starting my awakening and I met the most awesome person in the world that helped me through. I realized what was happening realized that my husband didn't even know I was unhappy. I was at a crossroads. I can either leave or make it work. And guess what I felt in my heart I needed to make it work. I made it work. And now we are doing quite awesome. I am however trying to get in touch of this person who helped me through we haven't spoken in 2 years. HAHAHA but someone like that that brings you out of the murky waters isn't someone you just wanna forget. You want to cherish them. :)
Next topic job money material things. Manifest those things. I have so many life stories here. One major one well it wasn't materialistic but was my first born daughter. My brother adopted her when she was 5. I did not see her no pictures nothing for 6 years. Talked to many lawyers to see what I could do. They all told me you cant do anything you just have to be patient and hope that your brother will let you see her someday. I found out that they had moved back to the town that's only 30 min away from me. I went and spoke to him. And a year later he came to me saying he felt he needed to give Jade back. LOL!! It took a while yes but something that was literally impossible happened. I know have my beautiful daughter back with me. The adoption was finalized a few months ago.
Really what I'm charged to say here is you can have anything you want. Don't ever think that you cant. Everything is within your reach. If you want it bad enough you will have it. Down to a new car you want but feel you cant afford. Don't think of the bad just visualize the car you want send your thoughts to the universe and the universe will make things happen for you to where that car will be yours. A new job. Visualize the job you want and you will have that job.
Do not limit yourselves. That's the main thing here. My life has changed so much in the last 2 years. I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started going after the things that I wanted. My husband got a new job where I'm able to stay home now. Got away from my job which is something Ive wanted for a really long time. One thing I have learned by far is that nothing is impossible. Another thing you need to find love for yourself. I'm not saying be selfish. But if your not where you need to be in light how can you truly be there for others. The way we are meant to be here. And V where ever you may be thank you!! :)
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Love and light to you all
Alisha AKA Sapphirian Jade
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Nice job Sapphirian.
I we don't assume control of our destiny, somene else will.
Thank you Saphire. I needed that. I have traced my path to the presence of three depressed people who have been in my life consecutively. I finally figured out I'm the one who is depressed, and I find these mirrors. Things have progressed, though. Hopefully the progression says something about my own depression. The first depressed person imposed his negativity all over me and the world around him. The second one, I enabled the depression by being a smotherer-enabler. The third and current mirror is just depressed. That's all. Maybe I won't inflict my negativity on others. Hopefully. Maybe I won't be rude or demanding or needy like the one I enabled. And just maybe I can learn from this third mirror how to be thoughtful and considerate of others -- even through the filter of depression. -- Still, I need to do something about my own depression. First, I guess I need to own up to it.