smiling and attraction?

 

I go about my day with my head down when I walk by people, Im not trying to be rude at all im just shy. I feel like if I look into someones eyes is like im looking into there soul without permission. I got to get to know someone before I smile and joke around with, especially with women I don't know whether to smile like I would smile at another guy like whats up you know. I don't know how to distinguish what an Im attracted to you or your good looking smile is?

I need help how can I smile friendly without being creepy? (im not a creep by the way)

I would like some tips or tricks to get over this obstacle I have, what are your views, opinions, etc...

 

You need to be a member of Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community to add comments!

Join Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community

Email me when people reply –

Replies

  • hi Shawnzie,

     I was just like you, if i have eyecontact it just feels weird with people i dont know..

    exspecially with girls ;P.

    I think u have to just make a lot of eyecontact with the people u do know and love, practice it i know it feels weird to just start a conversation to practise eyecontact but thats the way i learned it. Its not like im that super confidend guy, in fact ( opposite lol XD ). 

    just try to make you aura happier and then the rest of your smile will come. (if that makes sense :? ;)

    and remember we are all NOT perfect.

  • I look people right in the eyes and just smile...  they usually smile back and this creates a lovely feeling of mutual friendliness and makes you feel happy,,,  

    now and again, very rare the other person looks at me with a suspicious look but like I say this is very rare.......

  • I had the same problem as you when I were younger. I came over it when I stopped caring so much about how other people would perceive me. :)

  • I always just say hi or how are you to everyone I see on the streets. I do that to make them comfy . I dont have to have a large smile just intention of being nice and polite. people like that.......................

  • thanks for the advice!

  • Sincerity ... which comes from the Heart ... ;))

    • well put thanx:)

  • ...Im The Same.....:)....Im Quite Shy....When It Comes To Peoplelll.....<3...........x...

    • im glad im not the only one:)

       

This reply was deleted.

Topics by Tags

Monthly Archives

Latest Activity

AlternateEarth left a comment on Comment Wall
"That's cool-thanks Drexk-"
3 minutes ago
Drekx Omega left a comment on Comment Wall
"Well, these debris hazzards are deflected by the electro-gravitic field, which envelopes the ship, as it vectors through any medium...A type of force field...Or, sometimes a dimensional phase shift, can also allow the ship to pass through space…"
35 minutes ago
AlternateEarth commented on AlternateEarth's blog post Ex-Freemason tells Tucker our souls are in ‘supernatural’ battle between ‘dark and light’
"Thanks Drexk"
58 minutes ago
AlternateEarth left a comment on Comment Wall
"671 million mph? What about space debris? How are pebbles, etc. avoided in a flight path-if there are any?"
1 hour ago
Drekx Omega commented on AlternateEarth's blog post Ex-Freemason tells Tucker our souls are in ‘supernatural’ battle between ‘dark and light’
"When he skirted over the reasons for the original group of Knights, that excavated under the temple, built on the site of the Al-Aqsa mosque, he mentions that they wanted ritual scrolls, for the purpose of magic....BUT, seems oblivious as to what…"
2 hours ago
Drekx Omega left a comment on Comment Wall
"Yes, there is zero intertia inside the ships and within fields, so that you could be drinking a glass of water inside, the ship makes a sudden 90 degrees turn, travelling at 500,000 mph and you would not even spill a drop...
Actually, this planet…"
2 hours ago
Drekx Omega replied to Ara's discussion Area 51 is on the alert: Trump posts "alien photo" in Self Rising Spirit Group
"It's not the real Navy SEAL Robert Harward...In fact, he's more wrinkled than the dude in the latex mask, which is smooth and makes his head look like a baby's arse....As for the flpping neck bit...Plain stupid....LOL"
2 hours ago
AlternateEarth left a comment on Comment Wall
"Drexk-Sheldan Niddle talks about a inertialist field within the ships-is this to offset g forces? Thankjs"
2 hours ago
More…