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  forestgirl November 7, 2012 at 12:31am

  Well said Lori, I agree. 
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  Wandering Pariah November 6, 2012 at 8:50pm

  In my opinion, a relationships is built first and foremost on the instinct of attraction, as you two begin to exchange energies with each other (be it sexual, mental, spiritual.. etc.) you are learning the art of becoming one. Such is the task for any being in this universe. Becoming aware that he is one with his surroundings/environment, and all the beings therein is a similar task to becoming one with a specific other (partner, girlfriend, boyfriend... you get the picture). Within this process of energy exchanges you begin to experience the 'other-self' as your own consciousness in many aspects. This bonding of souls, in a sense, becomes a responsibility that one must be diligently aware of. So, along with this bonding or energy exchange with another self comes the question of unconditional love. Such as in all cases: Are you prepared to love this 'other-self' eternally under any experience that is manifest? What I am saying is that you should make it a priority to to give your partner the best potential to evolve in anyway he/she deems necessary. If you cause pain (be it emotional, physical, mental etc..) you are not giving your partner the best potential to evolve within their own parameters of their free will. If you cannot do this, tell her the truth. We are all born with desires, but love is more powerful than desire. And if you examine closely, desire brings about much pain, in many cases. What you feel is by all means human, but how she feels is also. And on that basis, you two need to be able to unconditionally love and respect each other as one soul long enough until you (as one) can evolve past the vibrations of reality you are currently experiencing.
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    forestgirl > Wandering Pariah November 7, 2012 at 12:44am

    I agree with you Wandering Pariah...the ultimate reason for 3D relationship is to work things through at the soul level, to eventually become whole/one, bringing an end to the duality.
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    DRACO > Wandering Pariah November 7, 2012 at 12:27am

    On twin flames: Your twin flame is the other half of your soul. Before you are sent out on your experiences of incarnation, your soul is split in two; to be re-united at some point after many cycles of birth and re-birth. It is very rare for twin flames to be re-united in the third dimension, although it does happen. An example of this is Jesus and Mary Magdaline, who of course were married and had several children. Most serious relationships in 3D are with soulmates... people who are from the same soul group as you. If you want to re-unite with your twinflame, you most certainly cannot "play around" with other people. It's pretty hardcore actually: I for one have been effectively banned from all intimitate emotional and physical relationships, as one of the requirements of reuniting with my twin flame. And that's only for starters... even then you are not gaurenteed.
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      Peter Panayiotis Karanikas > DRACO November 7, 2012 at 2:12am

      The sacred union, Heiros gamos. What a beautiful wonderful blessed thing it is. The alchemy of humanity. The reconnection of 2 halfs of the one soul after an extended period apart. The process that drives the evolution of the universe.

      There is nothing grander than this :)

      Once a connection has been established with your other half, the sleeping of that connection is no longer an option, And you will take whatever steps you have to take to re establish it. Because the losing of that connection is akin to losing a half of you. You feel it so profoundly. It transcends the physical completely.
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      forestgirl > DRACO November 7, 2012 at 12:46am

      This is my understanding also Draco...I am intrigued by your re-uniting with your twin flame...is this an earth based relatioinship, she is also in embodiment now?
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        DRACO > forestgirl November 7, 2012 at 1:36pm

        Forestgirl: She is not in the 3rd dimention at this moment. She is somewhere in the 5th dimention, where I beleive I will meet her when I (will hopefully) ascend.

         
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  Thracian November 6, 2012 at 8:16pm

  I have a perfect example of this. Today,a girl I know on facebook posted "vote obama!" I said you are better of voting for Gary Johnson(eventhough i dont believe in voting). Then she said thats a way to waste my vote. Then I said Your vote doesn't count anyway and she called me a conspiracy theorist! Anyway the discussion escalated and she sent me a private message on facebook where she is asking me to bring everything I know to the table and discuss it with her,but she wanted to do it in person. Immediately I tell my girlfriend about it because she came into my work today(self business) and she was witnessing the discussion between me and the other girl. My girlfriend insists that she is just flirting with me and this is her way of trying to get to know me and go on a date. She said there is no point in talking in person about it and it will lead no where. It would be crossing the "boundaries" and meeting someone online in person.
  
  You see to me,this is no wrong. Maybe she does have something to teach me. Even though she is a beautiful young adult, my intentions are not to have sex with this woman. But in her eyes it is considered crossing the boundaries as she thinks this is a form of flirting.
  
  As I said earlier this whole idea of monogamy/commitment is based off of the ego to control one another. Even-though she is not physically controlling me,she is telling me that this is a boundary set up by the relationship standards. It is wrong in the eyes of my girlfriend to meet up with this lady and have a discussion about politics/medicine. This is limiting to expanding my consciousness as it is limiting her consciousness.
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    Star Flower > Thracian November 7, 2012 at 5:04pm

    Lori speaks for me. Stopping the blaming game is the biggest gift we ever give ourselves. However, Thracian, your girlfriend is probably correct in her reaction to this woman on FB. I frequently enjoy long conversations with people via FB and other venues, but we don't feel the need to meetup, except possibly in a group. You noticed that this woman is young and attractive. Would you also be interested in meeting someone who is old and no-longer attractive? Just be honest with yourself no matter the outcome or the insight. The fact that you are asking questions tells me that you will soon find your answer(s).
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    forestgirl > Thracian November 7, 2012 at 1:14am

    Hi Thracian,

    From you comment on your anger and her crying...I would like to give you some benefit of experience, take it or leave it.... if you decide to continue with this relationship and make of it a spiritual growth challenge (which is more likely to be of interest with people as they get older...as I said in my earlier response), but if you do stay with her...there IS much to gain from working through these emotional 'storms' that you are both having.  The key to the best success for these is to take the view that: The soul wants to release pent-up emotion, that's one of its main missions on this plane...so firstly, don't see emotions as bad/to be changed etc...see the emotional outburst for what it is...not the real person, just a temporary expression/release, and also see the emotion out of the context of the environment ie: your anger... is anger...not 'you are angry because your girlfriend did whatever...its just anger and it has likely had its basis in past lifetimes.  Therefore you have to deal with 'anger'.  Conversely, your girlfriend is expressing sadness...not sadness that you made her sad...just sadness...again coming from other lifetimes.  When you both can talk on equal footing that you have each a problem to resolve, then the blaming stops, it has nothing to do with the actual environment at this moment, except that it is triggering these emotions for you to deal with.  There is much more to this self-help technique and if you're interested, reply back and i will continue.  Otherwise, hope this much helps. Love Chris