Spiritual Forum

If I

# come too close to someone without being invited,

# silently expect the same from someone I offer to him/her,

# hassle somebody to force him to love me,

# allow someone to treat me with no respect,

# am not aware whether I love an image or the real person behind it

I have difficulties speaking of love.

Actually love is no word of comparison. Whether I love someone or not. All that playing around with: I love you more than her... is in fact a lie. There is no "loving more or less", but just simply love and loving. Nothing to learn, nothing to improve, nothing to lose, just loving.

Love is like life and living - no word of comparison. There is no "more or less alive", but just simply life and being alive. Same is with death - there is no gradual step in between, you are whether death or not - just simply yes or no. Such kind is also love.

Of course people have different perceptions of what they call love.

Some

# say "I love you" and mean: "I hate to be alone".

# say "I love you" and mean: "You are my property".

# say "I love you" and mean: "I gave you this, I expect from you love".

And so ad infinitum...

Some understand love in relation sacrifice. Others in relation to victim and pity. Others connect love with demands, rights, customs, commandments etc. People are always ready to invent reasons for love according their needs and situations.

There is doting love, hurting love, this and that and ad infinitum...

Genuine love is always calling for you to step forward. Stepping forward is the latin word for existence. Existence and love are deeply connected. Love is this happening bringing and keeping you in existence.

You can never find love. Never. Love is always finding you. Always.

But you must lose your strange imaginations of love, as if love is something to achieve or get or accomplish - nothing of that is true.

Love is, and love is for living. The day you came into existence was the first day love has found you.

Forget about the twinsoul nonsense. You really think there is only one soul similar to yours? Have you forgotten that we all haveing come into existence come from one source? There is only one soul similar to mine? You´re kidding...

Love is that which happens to let all happen...