If we speak of enemies, it is certainly always ourself which is the most influencial enemy. Other external appearing enemies are like symbols of parts of ourself being actually the basic enemy.
Generally speaking, injuries hurting most are always coming from those we are most connected with in love. Someone we are not connected with in love can hardly hurt us.
Love injuries are always a sign that a loved person is a perfect working mirror revealing what is really within me. That`s why the sentence is right: books do not bite, but loving humans do.
Any theoretical approach to real living awareness (it might be indeed necessary) with books and a closed chamber is only part of the way. The real challenge is dealing with real people and real love affairs.
Love injuries will not simply stop by avoiding to push buttons nor avoiding anything. As long as you love someone you either can take love injuries or you can`t take them any longer. That does not necessarily mean your love has gone.
In some cases love injuries are immediately healed by the goodness and tenderness of the loved partner which makes it more easy to go on. In other cases loved partners fail in such sensitivity as maybe you fail too. This could be reason to get aware of it.
By love injuries you can experience which lovers attract you most and which you deny most. That may help you not to pick someone from the avarage level because you fear to stay alone.
It is nowhere written that a love affair must last a life time. Even short time relations have their meaning. In fact, not we choose love nor do we find it, but always love does. And if love moves our heart, we might follow or make it a mess by our silly smart ass metality...
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