I was talking with one of my guides, and he said the reason I was made to come here (Meaning I didn't volunteer for some LnL ascension bullcrap) was to learn how to forgive other people, and more importantly myself.
I had to come here to learn the lesson of forgiveness, because I was hellbent on retribution due to the actions in particular of someone I knew from a past life who more or less killed my entire family and .. still am. Now in this life I'm incredibly angry at my own family.. and want revenge for some of the things they did. I'm not a very forgiving person.. even if I may seem like it. I can hold grudges for a lifetime.
So.. how the hell do you just forgive someone for something like that? And I'm not talking about just saying "Love and light I forgive you", because it doesn't work that way.. that's bullcrap. And how do you forgive sheeple for ruining the entire planet, ignoring and ridiculing evidence of a UFO war and shunning family members who are simply trying to tell them truth to the fringes of society and constantly berating them about "how it is to live in the real world"?
I want nothing to do with my "family". That's my free will choice. I have nothing to do with them and I don't have to forgive them or owe them anything. Fuck, why the hell am I the one forgiving them, when it was their fault to begin with.
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Forgiveness is never for the other person but for yourself. They will go on with their life just like nothing happened while you hold on to that grudge. They dont care of it after they made the decision to hurt you. They are not going around moping OMG poor thing what did I do. At least in my case its never been my experience. Its not easy to forgive as I have found myself on that path many times...until recently.
So I was going to a Feng Shui class and my Master showed me. He said it came to him in deep meditation that he needed to show us a forgiveness technique. I have been doing that that he showed us and believe it or not it has made it easier for me to forgive.
If you want me to show you the technique please feel free to write to me!
Karina
in order to forgive others , first step taken is to forgive your self.
same principle applies with Love ; to Love others one must Love self first.
sure some say its easier said than done but one must make concrete steps in that, right direction.
practice makes perfect.
try and make success.
When you can forgive your enemy the hurts they did to you in the past, you have come full circle! A enemy are usually a friend that made a mistake.
Yes, it is interesting, how so very close to ascension, very old friends, approach to ask for forgiveness.
Going back into past lives, I realized that certain cataclysmic events of my past was really horrible. The amount of suffering those betrayals caused, me and others was rather staggering.
No matter how much I was hurt in the past, and how much hurt I carried around, I could never hate them. I felt so sorry for them as they never really understood what they did.
In hurting me, they hurt themselves and others so much more. Carrying around that guilt, feeling unloved, keeping their distance. They never realize that all events start with a misunderstanding.
As they continued hurting themselves they start to believe that you hate them, or stopped loving them, when you actually never did or sometimes do.
Getting to the point where you can get past the anger, sit down, and talk through those events, is the important part. Usually you greatest fear of how the other person will react, is the only thing keeping you from making peace.
It really is very sad to see the amount of self torture someone puts themselves through.
When you as a person can get past your own prejudice and really listen to what another person say, the enemy you once perceive will once again be your friend.
Forgiveness is really very simple.
The amount of pain you carry with you over those years, and the impact it makes on who you are, makes you realize just how powerful forgiveness can be.
Now in these times, when we are all getting ready to ascend, it is more important than ever to let all those perceptions go, we need to move closer to each other and be more forgiving.
All of us must remember that every soul out there are also trying to learn and grow, we need to have more patience with them. They will make mistakes, as we made mistakes. Through mistakes we learn, to find out way back home.
I know you do not want to hear this, but it is true. The act of forgiveness start by forgiving yourself and finding that self hatred inside yourself, dealing with it and letting it go, help you do the same with the people you hate.
14 Feb was not easy for me, but when I let go of that self hatred, it did change much.