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  PATRICK November 18, 2011 at 4:31am

  Show up at his work first thing in the morning when he lest expects it! Then ask him in a loud voice!  ( is the reason you don't want ? To answer my called or call me back is because you borrowed me money and don't want to pay me back ?! )
  And as for the friends with benefits part! End it and move on! A friend will answer you back especially if their is benefits !
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    StarGirl > PATRICK November 18, 2011 at 4:50am

    that is so odd, i have been thinking about just showing up to his work place too and not make a scene but be very calm and just polite ask for my money back,,,,wow....i just need to the curage to do that, Well NOW i don`t wanna have anything to do with him, in any way, He burned the bridge. Good Bye mr M.
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      PATRICK > StarGirl November 18, 2011 at 7:17am

      You have to let everyone know he is a looser in his work place! Because when you turn your back and leave, he will slander and talk negative about you! You deserve better! See me on face book/ Facebook.com/patrickldavissr or patrickldavissr@yahoo.com is my email for face book....
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  Steve Harvey November 7, 2011 at 3:13am

  As Tyler said Stargirl..Go inside.

  That was the best advice yet.

  To all other advice givers,

  please beware..the money and the divide and conquer line....

  We don't know the inner little consentual (agreements) they have,

  Let unconditional love prevail.

  Get out of Your head, and into Your heart!

  Or you'll end up dumping Him for a bigger wallet, as per the advice given here.

  Steve
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  StarGirl November 7, 2011 at 2:04am

  yeah, that is so true, easier said than done. But i am gonna try to patient with this thing and relax like you said...much love to you too! Mean it. //Star
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  StarGirl November 6, 2011 at 6:48pm

  Hello my SoulFriends, (we who chose to walk this earth the same time) 

  I can not thank you enough for all the encouragement and believe me I listen to everything you said. Some things were hard o hear but I needed it probably ... this story  is more complicated than that but I gave you the most important points. Happy Kelly, I asked the universe for an answer before I fell asleep and I dreamed that he called me ...... so ....
  I feel a bit scattered, but trying to collect myself, the worst thing I know is when someone just disappears without a word, especially as all was well when we parted. But, but. It's just what I thought ... Thanks again for all the answers. I mean it. It helped to hear what you think about this situation. And that you cared to reply even ... I am a very sensitive person who likes to help others but in the case myself, it is difficult to be objective. I feel a little bit better. Thanks for all the love. It means  alot to me.

  Love StarGirl
  
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  Tiamacious November 6, 2011 at 6:23pm

  let him go star girl, this does not serve you and unaligns you
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  MILAD November 6, 2011 at 8:20am

  dear stargirl, be aware that you are feeding your consciousness with your thoughts and feelings, do not let such vibrations hinder your energy field, and the more you call or text him, the more you'd get frustrated , don't stir up this negativity within your mind, instead take it as a sign, perhaps it's the time of isolation, to go deep within, to find and recognise your animus (male aspect of your psyche) and to be emotionally independent, it's a part of the process of your psyche's completion. 3D emotional relationships consume your chi force (libido) on the middle brain, invest your chi force (which is the energy of your psyche) on your cortex particularly right hemisphere , if you seek spiritual alchemy.
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    1loi1i9evzzvt November 6, 2011 at 3:07pm

    Allow your inner self to guide you through the situation. I agree with that. That is probably one of the best things to do in something like this as well. Most often we discredit ourselves, and the inner abilities we have to get us through something, we already a lot of times know the answers, but don't want to see them always either. Great advice Tyler

    Bless the Nite,'

    April
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  Karma's Helper November 6, 2011 at 1:17am

  I normally don't do "this" but Being male....and having walked in on 3-in-a-row, men in my bed "doing" my partner......FOR REAL.....i kinda have a pretty good feeeeeeeeeeeeeling on this subject.......I AM also a HUGE empath.....so "trickery" and this guy......lol......NOPE.

  Here goes:

  Your "fwb" knows of your feelings for him......unfortunately, they, at present time, are not the same.  Money you say?.....money and men.....hmmmmmm....not a good mix.  You are a friend to him.....but one that doesn't affect his credit rating, nor would call a "collection agency"........now......throw sex into this and what you have is a man who gets FREE money AND sex.......yipee......where do i sign up ?......( THAT WAS A JOKE ) .....albeit, a bad one, but one that "hopefully" shows YOU StarGirl what it is that YOU offer........which is, in my opinion, ALL OF YOURSELF........Bravo......YOU and me and everyone else here is 100% the same.......'tiss the reason "we" gather........'tiss the reason you felt like you needed to share here........and 'twas the reason for this response.

  You, StarGirl know something don't you?.......deeeeeeeeeeeeeeep down.....but in actuallity, not that deep at all.......for when emotions spill over onto paper ( text / email )......the "cracks in the damn" are BEing exposed for what they truly are.......faulty.......nothing can stand on faulty ground.

  Look in the mirror StarGirl.  Do you see what i and soooooooooooooo many other see?......hint:  stars with the letter "B" and ends with the letter "L"......

   

  Ta da....

   

  Namaste

  Peace

  KH