i notice that desire's creates selfishness and hate in a person and cause them not to want to display loving feelings because they have an outcome attachment and because they wish to get from them. I know this all to well because before I felt the love of brother Alaje i was caught in this wheel of maya and not conscious of this Life pattern . Even the cells in your body reject you when their is a motive behind it. Sometimes i feel my-self , falling back into this pattern, can I completely detach myself from my Karmatic Sacral Chakra energy point where these desires are coming from or can i do it by controlling my thought -forms? I'm beginning to become conscious of this and i want to see if rapid evolution into Pure love is possible.
I'm tierd of selfishness inside myself and i'm conscious that this wont help me manifest anything meaningful in my life. Help me leave disiries!
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this is going to sound a bit wierd but a great way to balance out selfishness is by giving with absolutely no expectation of ever having it returned in material gain. Well this is what I do anyway. When I get those selfish thoughts in my head, or feel money hungry or ego-driven, I balance it by affirming to myself that I have everything I need, that wants are from the ego and then proceed into an action of giving. Whether that is buying a bottle of milk for my friend just because I know she will need it and just turning up to her house with it, take my dog for a walk when I really don't have the energy, give a homeless person my last $5 which my ego really wanted to spend on myself on things I just don't need, help the old lady across the street with her shopping or give to an animal shelter. And I make sure that I give in a way where I can't have it returned if that makes sense, where the only thing I will get out of it is the surprise and smile on their face, to see the worry of their lives lessen and know that my one small action made their life a better place even if only for 5 minutes. Or the happiness on my dogs face when she knows I can't be bothered taking her for a walk and that I'm going to do it anyway because I know it will make her happy and the cuddles I get afterwards. The loving energy that is returned by a self-less action is more than enough to get my ego to shut up. its also good in terms of karma and helping the energy grid in general. A loving action will only create more loving energy to come to you and the person you helped as well as helping the energy around you. By giving with no expectation of any return, you've created excellent karma for yourself which will come back and help you, it most definitely has where my experience in this is concerned. Instead of never having enough to make ends meet and worrying about it, life keeps giving me opportunities to better my situation because I don't worry about it and because I give now instead of giving with expectation of return and taking. Big beautiful change I tell you that!!