I read this statement by Byron Katie ... Keep coming home to yourself. You are what you have been waiting for.
Find yourself who you are and love yourself. Before someone else can do it for you; you need to be able to do it yourself. Joy is knowing you are good enough that you don't have to change for anyone.
You are fearfully wonderfully made. Perfectly imperfect one of a kind a king or queen in your own right.
Love and light