To Move or Not to Move a serious question?

Hi All,Well I am facing a dilemma a very good dilemma but the whole thing has got me up in arms and confused. My life here is kind of the pits, I have my little jobby-job, I have my little place, but this city basically drives me crazy (I hate LA) it's extremely negative and there are a lot of crazy people here.Simply put....I don't FEEL RIGHT here!?.....I don't FEEL like I belong....I FEEL out of place. I just feel I could do better elsewhere.Now here's the thing...A friend of mine has given me the chance to manage an office for her company. I'd have to move to San Francisco and take on a load of responsibilities but it would be a new place and I'd be out of here where my luck hasn't been all that good!?I have to admit that I'm a little afraid (as it's a new city and all)!? You know new city...new experiences...and all that!? Also I don't know anyone there....it's great and yet it sucks....the job prospect is FANTASTIC but all my friends are here....my school is here....I know this city and its familliar!?Can you all help me out and give me some words of encouragement? (Even a simple you're gonna love it would help!?) This is a big decision and I need some positive reinforcement!?

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Sashia Ishizu-Ishtar September 1, 2009 at 12:15am

Yes more or less all of you are quite correct, we must take advantage of these opportunities when they knock on our door because we never know where they will take us in the long run?...it's like all of you said it could lead to soemwhere/someone that leads you to somewhere or something else that you really like or find peace. I tend to over compensate myself and plan for each and every contingency, the biggest thing is (not that I hate making mistakes) but I hate planning for this...that or the other thing and out of the blue something comes your way and you're like DARN I didn't think of that one!? You are all so great, THANX^_^
Jeevan Kalyan August 28, 2009 at 2:38pm

No one came to this world with aware of it.... life is full of challenge dont get confusion or frustration accept the situation if u stick on same condition and environment than when u will gain the knowledge and experience....? opportunities never knock ur door twice..... Accept what ever comes......There is no successes and failure in the life only experience........ what ur going to achieve or going to lose....... lose and gain going leave here only ..... so be happy and keep your mind peace,fresh and joy....... NEVER MISS ANY NEW OPPORTUNITIES U GET IN YOUR LIFE........WHO KNOWS THIS MAY BE TURNING POINT IN UR LIFE .......!?
Goddess August 26, 2009 at 3:04am

Go!!! Opportunities have come and you can take them!!! Follow your dreams!!!
- Sashia Ishizu-Ishtar > Goddess September 1, 2009 at 12:24am
  
  Hi There,
  
  That's why I sent you the invite and wanted to know if you'd like to come on out here? It seemed as if you too were looking for your own personal Idaho and it's always nice too meet someone that you have something in common with. I was sad when I read your post because too me it seemed as if you were miserable and I don't like sadness, misery and suffering!? Best wishes to you no matter what you decide I hope you find your own personal Idaho wherever the spirit takes you...GOD BLESS!!^_^

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