* We have a strange system that breeds bad relationships. It has
always been my opinion that to enter into a relationship is voluntary, I
have always held that to promise to be faithful is a gift that one
gives, not a requirement of state. Sure there are times when we intermingle
based off lower frequencies/emotions but upon further examination they are
an outward mirror of what needs to be fixed in oneself. The old saying that
you will never be happy with anyone if you are not happy with yourself is
as real as it gets. This goes for both parties. You will never be able to
fix or change someone. You are not responsible how other people feel, upon
realizing this you can release any self imposed guilt from relationships.
* People resonate together for purposes that they are not even aware of.
It is my opinion that imposing regulation/rules from exterior origins
can and will choke relationships, i.e. the mother/father that gets
married for the children, when living in an unhappy bonding will
resonate to the child no matter how hard you try to conceal it.
* I hold some things as self evident such as each of us has a path to
spiritual growth that is regulated by none other than ourselves. If one
person in a relationship has started moving forward and raising their
thought patterns to one of love, it can be difficult to understand that
your partner resists the change.
* Each relationship is different, consisting of two unique personalities
with their own issues to work out. You have to weigh the cost/gains and
then make a decision. the right decision is not always the easiest, I
have had to break off relationships because I knew upon reflection that
even though we were friends it was not the proper fit. If i had not, I
would not be who i am today.
* You have to focus on your own fears to heal them. As you step out of fear
and into love you will create an environment of change around you, your
partners will then resonate closer or further away, but it is not your job to
stop them, or change them, but to accept their reactions as evident of your
own changing. it is very possible that you will be able to show them through
your own life and decisions the path, but to hold oneself responsible
for the success/failure of the relationship is unhealthy for you.