co-dependency - Spiritual Blogs - Ashtar Command - Spiritual Community2024-03-28T12:16:24Zhttps://www.ashtarcommandcrew.net/profiles/blogs/feed/tag/co-dependencyDecision to Lovehttps://www.ashtarcommandcrew.net/profiles/blogs/decision-to-love2009-10-27T17:38:36.000Z2009-10-27T17:38:36.000ZPrezensehttps://www.ashtarcommandcrew.net/members/Prezense<div>Love is a decision. When a person falls in love, he/she makes a conscious decision to trust another with personal thoughts, secrets, and feelings in hope that it may be reciprocated. True love between two individuals is a love that comes from God. The couple in love does not love from the ego, but they love from the spirit.Love that is generated from the spirit is not self-fish. It is blind. It does not judge. It is unconditional.It is the same love that comes from our creator. To be in love with someone at this degree is a wonderful feeling. You love that person for everything they are, good or bad. You love them for everything that they were and everything that they are now. You accept that person for who they are and would never try to change that person to better fit your needs. You love them because you see who they truly are. You love them unconditionally. Most people don't get to experience this type of love because they trudge through life on the surface. They try to love with the ego, or with the mind. Humans are driven by the ego. The ego is always on guard. The ego is that little negative voice that keeps telling us what is wrong with another person.Its the untrusting voice that keeps us hiding from what's real. It keeps us tricked into our own misery. True, unconditional, love does not exist if the love is driven by the ego. The ego appears to love, but only feeds off of the pain that is generated through the co-dependency that it creates.Love from the spirit...is True and unconditional.Love from the mind...is not love at all! Its co-dependency</div>