Posted by 3rfl3nfqndi4s on January 19, 2010 at 8:58pm
1. Take into account that great Love and great achievements involve great risk.2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.3. Follow the three R's: a) Respect for self; b) Respect for others; c) Responsibility for all your actions.4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.8. Spend some time alone every day.9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.\10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.11. Live a good, honorable Life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.12. A Loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your Life.13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.15. Be gentle with the Earth.16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your Love for each other exceeds your need for each other.18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.19. Approach Love and cooking with reckless abandon.
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Posted by 3rfl3nfqndi4s on January 18, 2010 at 2:30pm
* Keep skid chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it often counts more than what you say.* Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter the cost.* Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work,, regardless of who did it. If criticism is needed, criticize helpfully, never spitefully.* Be interested in others; their pursuits, their work, their homes and families. Make merry with those who rejoice, with those who weep, mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance.* Be cheerful. Don't burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your minor aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of load.* Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue. It is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.* Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk of another's vices. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time and can be extremely destructive.* Be careful of another's feelings. Wit and humor at the other person's expense are rarely worth it and may hurt when least expected.* Pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. Simply live so that nobody will believe them.* Don't be too anxious about the credit due. Do your best and be patient. Forget about yourself and let others "remember". Success is much sweeter that way."My" addition......Do your very best and forget the rest."Author Unknown
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