I’m going to write about something that society does not like to talk about but that has become a rising statistic of horrific proportion. I ask that anyone contributing to this discussion keep the comments respectful of this very serious issue and honor the victims of these crimes in the manner they deserve. Some would ask why this issue is posted on a spiritual website such as this one, and to that I answer that violence, especially sexual violence, obstructs our spiritual growth and is something that must be dealt with if we are to move into the future as whole and enlightened individuals in a balanced society of equality.
One would have to live under a rock to have missed the scandal involving Bill Cosby’s sexual assault accusations by over thirty women going back decades in which they proclaim he drugged and raped them while they were unconscious. This is not a new crime by any means, and rape culture is a terrible aspect of western culture which the media encourages by subtle and not so subtle means. The sexualisation of young girls has contributed to extreme cognitive dissonance within society in which women are seen as sexually liberated and encouraged by society to be alluring and yet they are “slut shamed” and persecuted for behaving in a liberal manner. The majority of s** crimes go unprosecuted as the court system often put the victim on trial rather than the accused rapist, it is up the victim to prove that they didn’t “ask for it” and even in this modern age, women are persecuted for wearing provocative clothing rather than focusing on the perpetrator, whom statistics say will go on to victimize other individuals because more often than not, they are given a slap on the wrist judgement and do not pay for their crimes.
There has recently been a spotlight put on sexual assaults in the media as more celebrities come forward with their stories, which are often shamefully ignored such as the recent proclamation by the pop star Kesha that she was drugged and raped by her Svengali like producer. This has mostly been discounted as a plea for attention because she sings about s**, drugs and partying and she dresses and dances provocatively (so of course she asked for it). This summer another musician, former member of the group The Runaways, Jackie Fox (nee Fuchs) came forward about a traumatic event from her past, the public rape she experienced at a party by her manager in which she was drugged and assaulted in front of two of her bandmates and the rest of party in a particularly degrading manner at the tender age of fifteen. It is stories like these which begin a dialog in which I believe we must look not only at the victims and give them the support they need, but we must also look at the society which produces these perpetrators.
Rape culture is not a western invention, upon investigation into the world statistics, I was appalled at the real numbers that the media sweeps under the rug and ignores.
The conclusion I have come to is that rape is an epidemic across the globe. One would think it would be the poorer third world countries that have the highest rate of sexual assault, but surprisingly that is not the case. Wealthy countries are just as likely to abuse women and children as any underprivileged nation; in fact some of the countries on the top ten list of rape against women and children are very shocking because they traditionally have liberal societies with much equality among the citizens. Sweden, for example, has a very poor track record.
What I see is a pattern of systemic abuse of women across the globe, and this might cause some debate, but I feel that there is a conscious attempt to suppress womankind by the patriarchal system that runs this planet.
If I were to use my spiritual eye on this issue, I would suggest the Divine Feminine has been diluted as much as possible by the powers that be, in order to suppress the feminine power to make change. Think of the women in your life… how many of them do you think have been assaulted? The numbers are shocking, it is a cycle of aggression in which women are silenced and shamed. Is it any wonder that war and violence are pandemic? Women are not naturally warlike, imagine if the mothers, sisters and daughters had a valued opinion in matters of society. Would we have war and economic suppression? We don’t know yet.
Now that is not to say that men do not experience assault as well. In fact, one of the most depressing statistics is that the average age of a male sexual assault victim is four years old. The average age of females experiencing assault is fourteen. Children are the most harmed category of the victims, because they are newly formed and not only helpless but the ruination their lives, physically and spiritually is often permanent.
So, where do we go from here? How do women take back their power and yet still adhere to the loving qualities that we harbor in our wombs?
Well, there are few things we can do. Number one, and most importantly, we must stop slut shaming victims and persecute rapists with every punishment available. On that note, the laws must be changed to reflect the heinousness of the crime. Only last week an American man was given a sentence of probation for the despicable act of rape of an infant. Where are the protestors? Where is Anonymous on this issue? Until the courts treat this problem with the gravity it deserves, rapists will continue to behave as if they are entitled to the bodies of others without fear of reprisal.
Secondly, and again this may cause some debate; we must hold other countries accountable for how they treat rape culture by refusing to trade with them and disallowing them into our borders until they can learn to co-operate with evolution and respect the rights of ALL people to live without fear of sexual rape and exploitation. This is a sticky issue and not easily solved, especially in countries which adamantly hold to ancient traditions of female persecution and suppression. (I’m looking at you, Saudi Arabia.) I’m not saying it will be easy, nor will it be solved over-night, it will likely take generations to smooth out the abuse and create equality, but isn’t it worth trying?
And thirdly, get involved. Sign petitions, send letters to your local politician (they aren’t all bad- keep trying!), volunteer for victim services, join an online web group, DO something to show these victims that you care, that they are not alone and that no…it isn’t right what happened to them (or to you).
We CAN change this world for the better, and as much as meditation and focus of Love energy helps, it is the physical feet on the ground that we need now. We need to stand up collectively and work together to manifest equality and support each other, knowing that it is our right to be free from abuse and that what affects one single person on this planet affects all of us. We are ONE.
The following are some articles and statistics to bring home the truth of my words. I ask that anyone experiencing abuse to know that you are not alone and to please contact a counsellor or support personnel to get the help that you need, there is no shame in what happened to you and your healing is what matters now.
Top 10 Countries With Maximum Rape Crimes
Rape is a particularly complex crime to analyse, in several parts of the world, it is very rarely reported. Women in some countries are much less likely to have their complaint recorded, due to the extreme social stigma cast on women who have been raped, or subjected to violence or the fear of being disowned by their families.
Rape and other sexual assaults statistics are commonly available in advanced countries, and are becoming more common. Large numbers of rapes go unreported throughout the world. Here, we’ve presented the statistics for 10 renowned countries with maximum rape crimes. You would be amazed to see that the most developed countries like America, Canada, Sweden and United Kingdom are the most immersed in this crime. About 36% of women globally have experienced either physical or sexual intimate violence. In U.S. 83% of girls aged 12 to 16 have experienced some form of sexual harassment in public schools. In England, 1 out of 5 women (aged 16 to 59) experience some form of sexual violence. Following is a detailed list of countries with maximum rape crimes.
Top 10 Countries With Maximum Rape Crimes:
10. Denmark and Finland
Rape in Denmark and Finland
One out of three women in Europe have suffered some form of physical or sexual assault and 5% have been raped.
According to a 2014 study published by the European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights, approximately 47% of women surveyed in Finland were said to have suffered physical and/or sexual abuse; And 52 % of women in Denmark were said to have suffered physical and/or sexual abuse. Finland was one of the last countries in the EU to criminalize marital rape, making it illegal in 1994.
More than 1 in 10 of the women interviewed indicated that they experienced some form of sexual violence by an adult before they were 15 years old. One out of 10 had experienced some form of sexual violence since the age of 15, one in 20 had been raped. And over 1 out of 5 had experienced physical and/or sexual violence from either a current or previous partner. Only 13 % of women reported their most serious incident to the police. (Source).
Rape Crimes Zimbabwe
Zimbabwe is at 9th position with maximum rape crimes. At least one woman is raped every 90 minutes in zimbabwe. According to the latest statistics by Zimbabwe National Statistics (ZimStat), 500 women were sexually abused monthly – about 16 women being raped daily.
A total of 1 524 cases were reported during the first 3 months of the year, up from 1 285 recorded in the same period last year. Of these reported case, 780 are children (ages from 11 to 16 years) while 276 were children aged between 5 and 10 years. However, there are fears that the number could be higher as some cases go unreported. (Link).
According to UNICEF, Child rape up 42 percent in Zimbabwe. It said the number of cases of rape of minors reported to police surged from 2,192 in 2010 to 3,112 in 2014. Many other cases likely went unreported in a climate of secrecy and denial.
Rape Crimes in Australia
In Australia the reported rape rate per 100,000 people is relatively high. During the year 2012, an estimated 51,200 Australians aged 18 years and over were a victim of sexual assault. Almost a third (30%) of victims of sexual assault had the most recent incident they experienced reported to the police.
According to news.com, 1 out of 6 Australian women has to face the torture of rape by a non-partner, compared to one in 14 women around the world. It said that Australian women aged over 15 are victims of rape. Australia (with New Zealand in the research) came third in the worldwide study with 16.4 % of women reporting being raped by someone other than a partner.
Karen Willis, the NSW Rape Crisis Centre executive officer, says more than 70 % of these sexual assaults are carried out by family members, friends, work or school colleagues. A further 29 % of rapes are perpetrated by someone the woman meets socially or occur on a date. Just 1% of rapes are committed by strangers, she said.
See also; Top 10 Heinous and Historic Hate Crimes.
Slutwalk Canada, Rape Crimes
Among all violent crimes reported to police, sexual assault showed a rapid increase in reported rates in Canada. According to huffingtonpost, there are 460,000 sexual assaults in the country every year. Its said that 33 out of every 1,000 sexual assault cases are reported to the police, and 29 are recorded as a crime.
One out of 4 North American women has to face the torture of rape during their lifetime. 11% of women have physical injury resulting this torture. According to the statistics, only 6% of incidents are reported to the police. Over 80% of victims are women, maximum incidents occur in the home and 80% of assailants are friends and family of the victim. The most disturbing fact is that 83% of disabled women will be sexual assaulted during their lifetime. About all sexual assault victims, 17% are girls and 15% are boys under 16.
6. New Zealand
Rape Crimes in New Zealand
In 2013, The Roast Busters scandal exposed the truth about rape in New Zealand. A group of young men from West Auckland, calling themselves “Roast Busters”, who allegedly sought to intoxicate underage girls to gang rape them.
According to a report by British medical journal The Lancet sexual assault rate in New Zealand is far higher than the world average. It placed the country at the third highest rate with 16.4 % of its female population, alongside Australia.
According to the Minister of Justice Publication Report; Every two hours an attack involving sexual violence is happening in New Zealand. Statistics now suggest that 1 out of 3 girls and one out of six boys are likely to be sexually abused before the age of 16.
Sexual assaults rose 15% in a year, and at schools the number doubled. Only 9 percent of sexual offences are reported (registered by police) in New Zealand. Of all the reported cases, only 13% end in a conviction. 91 % of the rapes either go unreported, or the victims are intimidated by the police to drop complaints. (New Zeeland Herald).
violence against women India
Rape and Sexual violence is a massive problem in India. According to the National Crime Record Bureau (NCRB), crimes against women have increased by 7.5% since 2010. The number of reported rapes in India, a country of over 1.2 billion people, has gone up to 33,707 in 2013 from 24,923 in 2012. The majority of rape victims are between 18 years and 30 years. About one out of three victims is below 18, and one in ten rape victims is under 14. In India, a woman is raped after every 20 minutes.
See also; Hindu Swamis and their Scandals.
As per 2013 statistics, New Delhi has the highest number of reported rape cases among Indian cities. Last year, on average four rape cases were reported in the city. In number of total rape cases, New Dehli (1,636) was followed by Mumbai (391), Jaipur (192) and Pune (171). Madhya Pradesh is the highest among all other states with an average records 11 rapes every day. Madhya Pradesh (4,335 cases) was followed by Rajasthan (3,285 cases), Maharashtra (3,063 cases) and Uttar Pradesh (3,050 rape cases).
93 women are being raped in the country every day. The majority of the offenders are known to the victims – 31,807 (94%) were familiar to the accused, which includes neighbours (10782), other known persons (18171), relatives (2315) and parents (539). (timesofindia).
Most rapes go unreported in India and the rest of the world. According to Madiha Kark, an estimated 54% of rape crimes are unreported, while Mihir Srivastava estimates 90% of rapes go unreported in India. (Source).
4. England and Wales
Rape in England and Wales
Rape in the United Kingdom is not a gender neutral offense: it is an offense that can only be committed by a male against a person. Also the UK has not to date followed the trend in many countries of classifying acts other than penetration with a penis (e.g. penetration with an object, finger) as rape. (Rape statistics United Kingdom).
According to a report entitled “An Overview of Sexual Offending in England and Wales”, released in 2013, by the Ministry of Justice (MoJ), Office for National Statistics (ONS) and Home Office; Approximately 85,000 victims of rape per year in England and Wales – 73,000 females and 12,000 males, equating to about 230 cases every day. The report stated that 1 in every 5 women has experienced some form of sexual violence since the age of 16. See the full report, a summary and/or the data tables here.
According to the BBC reports, the number of rapes reported to and recorded by police is at its highest ever level, increase by 29 percent as overall crime falls in England and Wales.
According to a study by the NSPCC on young people (aged between 13–18), a third of girls and 16 percent of boys have experienced sexual violence and that as many as 250,000 teenage girls are suffering from abuse at any one time. 12 percent of boys and 3 percent of girls reported committing sexual violence against their partners.
Countries With Maximum Rape Crimes
According to George Mason University, Worldwide Sexual Assault Statistics, 1 in 3 American women will be sexually abused during their lifetime. About 19.3% of women and 2% of men have been raped at least once in their lives. Additionally, an estimated 43.9% of women and 23.4% of men experienced other forms of sexual violence during their lifetimes. Many victims of sexual abuse were victimized at a young age, about 79% were first raped before age 25, and 40% before age 18. (usatoday).
According to RAIIN, Every 107 seconds, someone in the United States is sexually assaulted. There is an average of 293,000 victims (age 12 or older) of sexual assault each year. 68% of sexual assaults are not reported to the police. 98% of rapists will never spend a day in jail.
Rape And Sexual Assault Among College-Age: An average (65,668+ & 2,866+) college-age women and men experienced a rape sexual assault annually. More than a quarter of college-age women report having experienced a rape or rape attempt since age 14. Out of all, only 16% of the total cases are reported. Females ages 18 to 24 had higher rates of rape and sexual assault than females in other age groups. Rate of rape crime is 1.2 times higher for nonstudents than students. Female students were more likely to experience rape or sexual assault victimization away from home, while nonstudents were more likely to be at home. Among females living in rural areas, the rate of rape and sexual assault victimization was almost 2 times higher for non-students. (Bureau of Justice Statistics).
Rape Crimes in Prisons; According to The Department for Justice, more men are raped in the U.S. than woman in prisons – 216,000 prisoners are raped per year in the U.S. According to the latest National Inmate Survey, 4% of prisoners, 3.2% of people in jail and 9.5% of those in juvenile detention said they had been the victim of sexual abuse. Almost 7% of women said they had been sexually abused by a fellow inmate, while more men said they had been assaulted by staff.
Countries For Rape Crimes Sweden
Sweden now has the second highest number of rapes in the world, after South Africa, which at 53.2 per 100,000. Statistics now suggest that 1 out of every 4 Swedish women comes out to be the victim of rape. If you look at the number of rapes, however, the increase is even worse. In 1975, there were only 421 rapes reported to the police – in 2014, it was 6,620. That is an increase of 1,472%. It would seem Sweden is a much more dangerous place for women in the world.
Sweden has the highest rate of rape in Europe. In 2013, according to the Swedish National Council for Crime Prevention (Brå), there were 63 rape cases per 100,000 population reported to the Swedish police.
According to rape crisis advocates in Sweden, 1 out of 3 Swedish women have been sexually assaulted by the time they leave their teens. During the first half of 2013, more than 1,000 Swedish women reported being raped by Muslim immigrants in the Stockholm; over 300 of those were under the age of 15.
1. South Africa
Countries With Maximum Rape Crimes
With an estimated of 500,000 rape cases every year, the country has one of the highest rate of Rape Crimes in the world. It is estimated that moree than 40% of South African women will be raped in their lifetime. The Medical Research Council has estimated that only 1 in 9 rapes are reported. Thus the actual numbers of rapes is much higher than numbers recorded by the police.
With the highest reported incident of Rape Crimes, South Africa top the list. The majority of sexual violence is against women, but men and children are also subjected to this crime. According to a report, above 4% of men have been forced to have s** with other men. According to South African Police, children are victims of 41% of all reported Rape Crimes. About 15% of rape victims are children under the age of 11. According to South Africa’s Tears Foundation and the Medical Research Council, 50% of South Africa’s children will be abused before the age of 18. Another source states that there were 24,892 rapes and attempted rapes of children under the age of 18. (Sexual violence in South Africa).
Statistics on rape and other sexual assaults are commonly available in industrialized countries, and are becoming more common throughout the world. Inconsistent definitions of rape, different rates of reporting, recording, prosecution and conviction for rape create controversial statistical disparities, and lead to accusations that many rape statistics are unreliable or misleading. According to USA Today reporter Kevin Johnson "no other major category of crime – not murder, assault or robbery – has generated a more serious challenge of the credibility of national crime statistics" than rape.
A United Nations statistical report compiled from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of rape or attempted rape were recorded by police annually. The reported data covered 65 countries. In some jurisdictions, male-female rape is the only form of rape counted in the statistics. The attitude of the police in many countries often discourages victims from reporting rape: one study in Turkey found that 33% of police officers agreed with the assertion that "some women deserve rape" and 66% agreed that "the physical appearance and behaviors of women tempt men to rape."
In many parts of the world, rape is very rarely reported, due to the extreme social stigma cast on women who have been raped, or the fear of being disowned by their families, or subjected to violence, including honor killings. Furthermore, in countries where adultery and/or premarital s** are illegal, victims of rape can face prosecution under these laws, if there is not sufficient evidence to prove a rape in the court. Even if they can prove their rape case, evidence during investigation may surface showing that they were not virgins at the time of the rape, which, if they are unmarried, opens the door for prosecution.
Countries may or may not criminalize marital rape, and, in many countries which do criminalize it, prosecutions for it are exceptionally rare. Sexual activity in marriage is, in many parts of the world, considered an absolute right of the husband that can be taken with or without the consent of his wife; the very act of a woman refusing to have s** with her husband may be considered unthinkable: in one survey, 74% of women in Mali said that a husband is justified to beat his wife if she refuses to have s** with him. Though de jure, a rape law may be applicable to any victim; de facto the enforcement of the law often excludes certain victims, such as prostitutes, women who were not virgins at the time of the rape, or other women with a 'bad reputation'.
Thank you, Mikail, I agree... I understand that you are not one of those perpetrators, you respect women and people of all nations. The immigration issue is part of a larger picture of government abuse, it is never going to be an easy fix but something needs to be done to help the dispossessed, the helpless and abused. A good start would be to uphold the UN charter of rights and not just pay lip service to it.
Well, Mikail, according to statistics it is more common to be assaulted by someone known to you rather than a stranger. That being said, perpetrators operate in a system of fear and ignorance so I say to shine the spotlight on them. In muslim countries a thief gets his hand cut off...if we follow the logic... oh, yes...I guess we can't do that without lowering ourselves to the rapists primitive level, eh?
I remember when the wide spread use of street cameras caused controversy as people didn't want their privacy infringed upon, but it went through and many crimes have been either prevented or prosecuted because of the cameras set up on the streets. So, in my mind, monitoring people and letting them know they are under the microscope will prevent many crimes from occurring, but the important aspect of this is that we must absolutely throw the book at them, zero tolerance... The rate of prosecution for assault is grotesque, we must demonstrate strength and unwillingness to tolerate violence of any kind. Sexual violence doesn't only affect the victims but society in general and perpetrators don't care if they are caught because they aren't punished (unless they are a minority in most cases).
I might point out that police in many countries are corrupt and prone to rape themselves, however a camera cannot be bribed and a picture is worth a thousand words when it comes to court cases, since a woman's declaration is often discounted.
It might cost a bit to set up adequately, but the long term affect would be very positive and bear fruit over time.
Plus, too, I can't emphasize enough that violence often begins at home, perpetrators learn their behaviour from their family members, so this zero tolerance policy must somehow enter the home, not certain how though.
Oh yes, I agree 100% Mikail, we can affect change on the young ones before they learn violence, and it begins in school, where children spend most of their time. Our society encourages misogyny and that needs to end Now. I just read that a school in the US is having children learn meditation, which is step forward, going "within" helps you find your inner teacher, which will give much balance to the centers.
Interesting what you say about lowering the consciousness, it makes sense... there is a massive problem here and perhaps violence is merely a symptom and not the cause.
Thank you for your thoughts, Mikail, it is sexist to wish that more men were like your fine self? SO many of them are predatory...sigh.
Thank you, much to ponder here... ALL you do is appreciated, Mikail, on many levels... :-) I appreciate your hope and will indulge myself in it too, sometimes I think the only cure for our society is a catastrophe, so I will hold tight to the vision of what truly IS and support a positive outlook.
Sending diamond light, dear friend :-)
At 14 I was raped I don't like really talking of it only to a few but I figured this is a good place to do so.... I always thought it was my fault. That night my heart was ripped out my innocence was robbed from me.... When I finally got the courage to tell my dad who is a male chauvinis, said well what did you do get them to do this.... The person I depended on to be my protector turned on me... I went into a deep depression to the point I tried to commit suicide... At that point I never felt so low about myself life or death for me didn't mean a thing...
As I layed in the bed struggling for each breath a faint voice came thru fight it... It wasn't your fault.... Youre precious I love you.... I remember crying out for arch angel Michael that night I needed strength I felt this enfoldment of light and love.... Sorry I'm crying as I write this... I felt healing in my soul. I felt heavenly love and I decided I wanted to live so again cried for aa Michael and his strength I don't know how I did it but I got myself downstairs with wrists bleeding so my gram can see to get me help and on the way to the hospital I could see this amazing light and a calm whisper I love you I'm here I won't leave you you will make it and you will shine like a bright light and from that day I haven't had one day of depression I was taught to rise above the pain and negativity to love myself that I will never be alone. If not for aa Michael being by my side that night I would not be here now telling my story....the scars on my wrist are all but gone but not a scar on my heart as that night it was healed to the point not long ago I seen my rapist in a store I walked up to him hugged him and said I forgive you... I released my hurt in three words I forgive you.... The hardest thing to do.... But I can promise I get upset but don't feel depression hatred my heart is aligned with the great divine with love and joy ... Noone can ever take that or have that control that he and his friend had over me so long ago.... I'm empowered by the strength aamichael showed and gave me that night....great article thank you for letting me share my story here also...
Well I think that you're very brave to open up about that here, angel.....You forgave him and a great burden was lifted.....Yes, you are empowered...truly inspirational, as you experienced something harsh and callous, which enabled a deep spiritual truth and life lesson to be gleaned....Love you dear.....I'm proud of you.....XOXOXO
You are such a major component in helping me to open up like this.... I love you....
Love you too....always and forever.....
That is awful, lisa, I am sorry that you experienced that. It is all too common, a real indictment against our society that we are not safe even with family. I hope you share that light with others who are suffering also, young girls who were just like you. Did you see the video about the Red Brigade? Female activists are game changers, supporting each other and demanding equality.
I'm going to watch it tonight.... Thank you for this post as it is an epidemic of young girls being hurt to the point of death seems sweeter than life.... I council young girls when I can ... I'm already a mental health nurse but been thinking of continuing on to be a psychologist
yes... I say go to school and do something to help this epidemic. The video is only a small part of a documentary about women standing up for themselves, it's inspirational and I highly recommend finding the full version on youtube, I think Vice news posted it.
I've been looking into some online schooling .... It was nice to share my story here. Hopefully it helps others that may read it... And keep up the good work of bringing this to light....much love beautiful lady