Stop pointing your finger...

I don't post much. I feel that I have much more to learn than to share. HOWEVER, throughout the last few months of lurking about, I've noticed something that is starting to become excessive on this forum. Nobody has to agree with what anyone else is posting, and to occasionally voice your disagreement, or point out mistakes, is fine. What is NOT OKAY is that there are a few select individuals on this site that are going about shaking their finger at nearly every post they happen upon.

PEOPLE - - THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A SITE OF LIGHT AND LOVE‼

Just because you do not resonate with something DOES NOT give you the right to make your opinions known on every. single. post. If any of us wanted to be preached at and converted, or made to feel like we are not part of God's Oneness, we would be sitting at church or at the Republican convention right now‼ There are many people that read this site that are trying to learn from EVERYONE. Please...let us find what resonates with us, within us. Just because a message doesn't resonate to you does not mean that it is the same for everyone. That message...or idea, or thought, or feeling...may not be for YOU and it is very discouraging to those of us who are wanting to form our own opinions within.

So, share your opinions. Share your thoughts.

But DO NOT FORGET to share love and light in your messages as well.

What does not resonate with you may just be meant for someone else. Skip it, move on...don't make that extra effort to attempt to make the author of the post feel two inches tall.

Uplift your fellow man...stop pushing everyone's head under the water‼

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Permalink Reply by Feather Winger on August 31, 2012 at 4:35pm

Yeppa.......respect is a key.

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Permalink Reply by hunter on September 1, 2012 at 12:55am

well put ... well posted :)

and we can do the same for the finger pointers .

everyone ois doing the best and most uplifting thing that they are able to do at that time.

if you were to see their life in its entirety, you would easilty see that such was so there fore they deserve to be honoured

of course thats noty to say they wont do better onto the future

it is often the case that our current mistakes can be seen in retrospect as being the most important thing to have occured in order to learn and or discharge and as such are not thiongs that should have been avoided

the worst of things can change the quickest

enjoy

love

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Permalink Reply by Sarai on September 1, 2012 at 1:05am

I agree...if it does not resonate, say so. Someone may learn from that also. It's those that I have noticed go to lots of posts, in an attempt almost it seems just to point out that that does not resonate with them, and therefore shouldn't resonate with anyone else. Especially when they single out people. When 'person a' goes to 'person b's' post and it does not resonate with them, and then goes to person c's, person d's, back to person b's, leave a comment on person c's [because you already know he's an idiot]...then, maybe back to person b's again, just for good measure and to make sure everyone knows that person b is full of crap [which they may or may not be]...why keep going to person b's posts?? Or any of them for that matter. This is only spreading judgement.

There comes a point when you're only reading person b's posts just to make sure you tell them how wrong you think they are. That is not fair. At that point, just stay away from person b's posts...you already know that you do not resonate with person b's point of view, so why read them?

See what I'm saying?

There seems to be more and more 'person a's' circulating the forums.

Live and Let Live.

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ContributorPermalink Reply by Kelly Lightchalice on August 31, 2012 at 9:06pm

Brilliantly put :)

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Permalink Reply by j&k twinflames on August 31, 2012 at 10:19pm

EXCELLENT POST YES YES YES PEOPLE LOVE AND LITE PLEASE AT ALL TIMES

I WOULD LIKE TO THINK THAT THIS WEB SITE WILL ACCEND AS WELL TO THE 5TH DEM OF LOVE AND LITE AND I LOOK FOWARD TO THAT HAPPENING

LOVE LITE ALWAYS XXOO

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Permalink Reply by Ravenwallsdotter on August 31, 2012 at 10:57pm

Every message means something to someone and is an expression of the wonderful diversity on this planet. We are all here on our own learning path, working within our individual self perspective, as well as within the oneness. Every vibration has a right of existance and offers possibilities in ways of the learning process and the growth process. It is up to each and everyone of us to choose what we want to work with and what we want to ignore at any point in time.

For me the keys are: respect, open mindedness, a will to explore new ideas and do no harm to others or yourself.

Peace and blessings

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Permalink Reply by Sarai on September 1, 2012 at 3:26am

This is very true. It's easy to forget to think before we speak. That's a natural part of being human and getting caught up in the moment. We all say things that, after saying them, we think to ourselves 'Why did I just say that? That was so rude/judgmental/stupid/etc'. It's when you get that 'holier than thou' attitude and go around trying to 'convert' someone to your beliefs as being the only way that takes our opinions out of line.

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Permalink Reply by John Jancar on September 1, 2012 at 4:17am

There, that just about sums it up lol

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Permalink Reply by Sarai on September 1, 2012 at 4:36am

I'm not whining...just trying to remind everyone to build each other up, instead of tear each other down.

If you think I'm whining...well, that's your prerogative. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

You can't tear me down...I refuse to give anyone that kind of power over my emotions.

Sending light your way, dear John...

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Permalink Reply by John Jancar on September 1, 2012 at 4:37am

No I was talking about everyone, we all need to stop whining...me too I need to stop whining, I realize that today. There's so many things in life to be happy about...so why focus on the things that make us unhappy.

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Permalink Reply by Sarai on September 1, 2012 at 4:46am

This is true. Unfortunately, we live in a world of Veruca Salts.

I remind myself often that, even though I don't have much, there are still millions of others that would love to have what I do have...and that as long as I have my significant other, and my children, besides me I am the richest person in the world. It's easy to find contentment after that.