There's a reason why manifestatiion is also called The Art of Allowing.
On a different level of existence (which we will refer to as the quantum level), everything is One thing.
On the third dimensional, or physical as you know it, there is vast degrees of seperation.
It is imperative, for your understanding of manifestation, that you not confuse the physical with the quantum.
Let us say you desire to manifest $1,000,000.
On the physical level of existence, you do not have $1,000,000. At the same time, on the quantum level, you and the $1,000,000 are One. In other words, you already have $1,000,000, yet you do not experience that on the physical level.
You have all been programmed from birth with thoughts such as "I can never have $1,000,000. I would have to win the lottery to hav e that kind of money!" In other words, thoughts of scarcity, lack, seperation and so on.
You have also been programmed to believe manifestation is something mystical, that you have to put effort into obtaining the things you desire and even more effort into getting rid of the things you do not desire.
We are here to tell you that manifestation requires no effort at all. The more effort you put into it, the less likely the process is to work smoothly.
All you need to do is open the doors in your life, allow the things you do not like to leave, allow the things you do like to enter.
As we have said many times before, the general formula is Thoughts->Belief->Action = Results.
In many cases, you will find that you need to take some kind of action before you will permit yourself to believe that the action is what you needed to take in the first place. There is Power in Paradox.
Allow it to happen.
I've allowed it. :)