Mirror mirror on the wall.........

Who is the fairest of them all?

Well, certainley not me, i can be not nice sometimes.

I always do a fair amount of self reflection, and a lot of it actually comes from my daily interaction with people i meet, and on this site also.

So, when i have a problem with someone, my inital reaction is to defend myself, cos that is what we do.

But then i go away and think about my actions, and if they were justified or not.

My ego will say my actions were justified, my inner voice will say something different.

We re-act, what we have been taught to do, when we just act, we pretend, when we are real, we are coming from a place of honesty.

Honesty, can sometimes be hurtful sometimes needed, sometimes crucial, when it comes to us, never wanted.

We never really want to face ourselves, our actions or flaws, our misdeeds, we mostly put it onto other people, as not to face it, or own up to it, cos if we did, then we would have to deal with it, this is something iam currently dealing with myself, its not easy.

One day, when i look in the mirror, and ask this question, it wont just laugh at me and go:

hahaha, what?

You?

I dont think so!!!

One day, it will reply,

Kelly-Ann, your fine just the way you are!

I think this is something we are all striving for in one way or another.

To be able to face ourselves head on, and be happy with all we do, and what we see in our reflection.

Any thoughts?

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Permalink Reply by Semile on May 16, 2012 at 10:04pm

What are my thoughts? I think you are a beautiful person who is learning much through self reflection, and is on a path to enlightenment. Peace.

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Permalink Reply by Ara on May 16, 2012 at 10:24pm

pretty much the same as you do ... lol ....

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Permalink Reply by geonic on May 17, 2012 at 12:22am

yes. . . . they do.

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Permalink Reply by Peekay on May 17, 2012 at 3:23am

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Permalink Reply by Marique on May 17, 2012 at 4:47am

LOL LOL

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Permalink Reply by Laura on May 17, 2012 at 7:48am

dear Kelly-Ann...nice post :)

We, women are extraordinary reactive beings ;) sometimes i "hate" it lol, but as you said...if we are facing our reflection with love, then it is just like a blessing...we can learn so much about ourselves through our reactions.

Reactive (feminine) or proactive (masculine) are holy universal principles, ...I dont actually fight my reactions, i try to understand them and keep them balanced. Yes, they do come from ego, but they also help to process the ego, if we do it consciously.

Much love!

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Permalink Reply by Semile on May 17, 2012 at 8:50am

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Permalink Reply by Kevin on May 17, 2012 at 2:00pm

Mirror mirror on the wall, does anybody need to fall?

Dwelling in the minds third eye, already some live in the sky.

Detached from form, detached from sin, live without then live within?

Either way the tests end soon. All will lose, all will win.

Why waste time contemplating that dross?

Deep down you know you are the boss.

The veil exists to not be seen.

It gives this life its stunning sheen.

Freedom is the game we play.

In black and white, for today.

But life goes on. Much more to see.

See only good, in you and me.

Train your eyes to shed the fear.

And draw to you what you hold dear.

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Permalink Reply by Tamara on May 17, 2012 at 4:10pm

This is really good. LIsten to your inner voice and not your ego. How wonderful is that to share this as we are a mirror. Be the best you can be. Each day is a new day to be even better. You attract others of the same energy. Think of this, and will always be your best as that is what you will get in return.