Who is the fairest of them all?
Well, certainley not me, i can be not nice sometimes.
I always do a fair amount of self reflection, and a lot of it actually comes from my daily interaction with people i meet, and on this site also.
So, when i have a problem with someone, my inital reaction is to defend myself, cos that is what we do.
But then i go away and think about my actions, and if they were justified or not.
My ego will say my actions were justified, my inner voice will say something different.
We re-act, what we have been taught to do, when we just act, we pretend, when we are real, we are coming from a place of honesty.
Honesty, can sometimes be hurtful sometimes needed, sometimes crucial, when it comes to us, never wanted.
We never really want to face ourselves, our actions or flaws, our misdeeds, we mostly put it onto other people, as not to face it, or own up to it, cos if we did, then we would have to deal with it, this is something iam currently dealing with myself, its not easy.
One day, when i look in the mirror, and ask this question, it wont just laugh at me and go:
I dont think so!!!
One day, it will reply,
Kelly-Ann, your fine just the way you are!
I think this is something we are all striving for in one way or another.
To be able to face ourselves head on, and be happy with all we do, and what we see in our reflection.
What are my thoughts? I think you are a beautiful person who is learning much through self reflection, and is on a path to enlightenment. Peace.
pretty much the same as you do ... lol ....
yes. . . . they do.
dear Kelly-Ann...nice post :)
We, women are extraordinary reactive beings ;) sometimes i "hate" it lol, but as you said...if we are facing our reflection with love, then it is just like a blessing...we can learn so much about ourselves through our reactions.
Reactive (feminine) or proactive (masculine) are holy universal principles, ...I dont actually fight my reactions, i try to understand them and keep them balanced. Yes, they do come from ego, but they also help to process the ego, if we do it consciously.
This is really good. LIsten to your inner voice and not your ego. How wonderful is that to share this as we are a mirror. Be the best you can be. Each day is a new day to be even better. You attract others of the same energy. Think of this, and will always be your best as that is what you will get in return.
be yourself and love that mirror that shows you as you are!
Its a unique mirror there isnt one like it, lol
No it is not easy. Some are on different roads, trying to reach the same place. The path we take is not as important. The journey is the real goal. From it, we learn so much. Contimue your journey and blessings to you.
Kelly, you have such a gift... keep utilizing it :) :) :)