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Is Love and Obsession the same thing? or does Love lead to Obsession? many people say they love someone but they don't mean it, they only say it because they feel they're expected to, so this may be the reason why it is difficult to say what Love is, or what it does to people...
Permalink Reply by Assiya on I love my self ~ I am obsessed
I love my human kin~I am obsessed
I love animals and nature~I am obsessed
I love everything~ darn it, I am obsessed
I love therefore I am obsessed
Permalink Reply by ToxicDreamer on lol so you agree that love and obession are the same thing?
Permalink Reply by Assiya on I would rather be obsessed with love than hate, if that's what you mean.....................
Permalink Reply by Vagelis4VP on ..they are 2 complete different things... Love is Allowing.... Obsession is Controlling....
Permalink Reply by ToxicDreamer on you say Love is Allowing, but let's say you've been in a relationship for a long time, and for some reason the other person decides to leave you... you say "I love this person, so I'll allow them to leave" well you must not have loved them very much then... :P
another thing is if someone is obsessed with someone, wouldn't they want to do things so the person they're obsessed with would want to spend as much time as possible with them? they might know that being controlling would drive the person away, so they can decide to not be controlling and still be obsessed with the person
Permalink Reply by Ara on there is a say:" If You Love Someone, set them free, If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
Permalink Reply by ToxicDreamer on I think that if someone were to live by this saying, they would be single forever, because they would have set everyone they've ever loved free... :P
Permalink Reply by Ara on that's the point ... then there were never Present of Love in the first place and if people will live by this saying you would see how RARE LOVE IS .... in it true meaning. Or perhaps people just 'love' to be in love ... ?
I agree with Vagelis - love is allowing, obsession is controlling.
Permalink Reply by ToxicDreamer on it actually seems like you're saying that love is not really love, it's just in our imagination, it's just a psychological mind game, or a result of a person feeling the need to reproduce... lol
Permalink Reply by Vagelis4VP on ...its obvious that we have a different definition of what Love is...
Permalink Reply by ToxicDreamer on what would be your definition of it then?
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