LETTING GO OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS

Painful Lessons,

Sometimes, despite your best of intentions and actions, you realize you have reached the end of the line with people in your life, for various reasons. Perhaps some of them are violently opposed to your spiritual growth and fear it threatens them or the relationship; perhaps they are the types that do everything in their power to bring you back down to their level; maybe they are so opposed to growth in their own lives that any time you gently point out something that might help them or the friendship continue in harmony, they vehemently oppose it and play a victim role

you deserve friends who will bring out your best qualities, not the worst ones! you deserve someone who knows about your spiritual path and accepts your choices joyfully. Just as your friends deserve that from you !

Sometimes, it’s just time to let go and move forward into the light of awareness and gratitude.

look at your own lives… are you holding onto any ‘toxic’ friendships or relationships, out of fear or for any other reason? Even if you realize that they are simply mirroring behavior that you have within yourself, it doesn’t mean you are required to hold onto the relationship. Sometimes it’s nearly impossible to change while tethered to a person who wishes to remain in the behavior that you are trying to change within, and the best thing for both of you is to move on. After all, why hold onto something making both people (or just one) miserable? holding onto toxic friendship simply enable you to be abused time and time again. why punish yourselve And for what?

NO ONE IS A VICTIM . APPARENTLY PEOPLE DRAW SITUATION BECAUSE IS NEEDED TO LEARN FROM IT AND COME FACE-TO-FACE WITH ISSUES.

Think back to your last argument with a loved one or friend. What exactly did they do or say that really bothered you? Be honest. Write it down. Then be even more honest, and think about how you may be doing that very same thing in your life. Maybe you are doing it to yourself. Maybe you are doing it to someone else. At first, it takes a while to really see how you are mirroring the behavior. But with practice, diligence and honesty, it will become apparent. The most amazing thing is that once you identify the behavior in yourself and start working on it, you will see the other person working on it, too. We don’t only mirror the ‘unpleasant’ stuff. Positive changes in yourself can and will be mirrored and reflected outwards, like the pond ripple effect. You’ll see.

taken from spiritual gal .com...

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Permalink Reply by Robert Naysmith on June 30, 2012 at 8:01am

You are a wise sister thank you Marianina

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Permalink Reply by DRACO on July 1, 2012 at 10:08pm

For me it's got to the point where I am completely unable to form relationships with people and have no friends at all. I thought I might start to draw new people into my life, but it hasn't happened.

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Permalink Reply by VioletRay on July 2, 2012 at 6:34am

Hi folks, Hi mari, thanks for sharing.

Though mari, I think it should be obvious to many people, that at this point in human history, human living systems make the majority of our circumstances, even though we can to some degree influence relationships and other various things or large.

I'm trying to say we each have much power, though our real power, is with the many people of this world and that would be why, yet again, massive mind control campaigns have been waged on the minds of humanity, to try and prevent them from doing things that would be self empowering, rather than empowering a few others.

It seems to me, many, many conversations brought up on this website, boil down to the same equation, basic needs being met without conditions.

Since, generally this is not the case, many people cannot genuinely choose the life they wish to live and the mind manipulators of this reality know this full well and we then have all these myriad of relationship issues, based solely on acquiring ones basic needs.

Some may choose to deny this simple truth, though lets be honest, that is what many, many relationships are solely based upon, survival and all the drama associated with it that keeps fueling this, what many call 3d reality.

peace love light

and also meant to say, these relationships can be anything where humans interact.

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Permalink Reply by irisflo on November 4, 2012 at 4:16am

Thank you for your wise words.

I ended a toxic relationship recently. Even though I care about this person and am grateful for what I learned when I was with him, it is time to let him go, and to let go of my regrets I have about ending it. I wish him well.

Thanks again.