After reading a fellow members post and doing some internal work of my own I've come to the conclusion the person I used to be and the one I am now have very little in common if anything at all. When I was a child I used to believe that there was some guy somewhere out there in the invisible world who could feel me between mine and his. One that knew I loved him deep in my heart with no conditions and it wouldn't ever change just because we sometimes do. Now that I'm much much older I have to be honest and say maybe my childlike knowing of that was all wrong. Like period. I've never met a guy like that, and the few I did were disasterous to my health, heart, and everything in between. Everything in life has it's lessons and I've earned my scars from it and I take no cover for what part I had in those relationship lessons. The thing that gets me most is when people talk about how fantastic it is to finally find thier soul mate or their twin flame as if that would make the universe the best ice cream sunday with a cherry on top. And maybe for those that are in that boat, it is. From a outside perspective no matter how much love you give to someone else freely or not, it doesn't mean they are right for you even if they were this special soul mate or twin flame guy/girl. I don't get the hype. I'm willing to hear from anybody out there in this dimension or not to come through and speak on your own experiences or widsom you've found about it if you want. I haven't given up on love at all, but I am drastically more realistic about it because I'm an adult. I guess only certain kinds of people get to go through stuff like that, but it doesn't mean its a bad thing. If your truly into that other person (and by the way person means any being alien, angel, demon, whatever floats your boat) then be happy in your own way.
Right on :)
Easy answer to the question.
Fantastic input. Thank you for sharing that. For everyone who has so far it is very informational and appreciated.
Some reflections to your article....We are a half soul of a whole and that other half is often in another dimension or older/younger than you. If you are ready to meet your soul mate and he is also vibrating somewhat on the same vibrational lever as you...you will meet. The connection is different from everything else you´ve experienced. It is hard in many ways if the egos are still strong and you both need to develope and grow from all that. The connection is truly strong and it´s hard to deal with the undeveloped parts when you feel beeing one in so many ways. Nobody else knows you as well as your soul mate. You are one...anyway on an developed vibration and harmony level...but drawn to eachother very strongly.
I have found mu soul mate/twin flame. We have been together for 3 years and it has been totally wonderful and also totally very hard to deal with at times. We tryed to separate a few times, but were strongly drawn back to eachother again. I feel that it is possible to find harmony and love on a deep level, but you have to work with issues that are not healed yet. The rest is pure bliss and oneness and passion so strong...and nobody knows you as well as I said before..and that´s lovely! If we can create love harmony oneness and patience and respect eachother...it is just totally wonderful and best ever relationship with your soul mate. We are one and we breath oneness and we make poetry at our best! Good luck and best wishes to you!♥♥♥ Devananda, Gothenburg, Sweden.